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Q: My friend "Liz" and her boyfriend "Lucas" never talk AT ALL. I hooked them up so this is my problem. He never has anything to say to her, and vise versa. He reallys likes her and i know she likes him. How do I get them talkin?


Signed,
A confused friend
Maybe they'd just rather be friends and they felt pressured into the relationship and you didnt relize it so ask them on your own time if they would just rather remain friends and go out on their own time-trix

Q: hey i was wondering if this is kool to do this, im a guy and didnt know if it was "OK" to hit my girlfrinds ass, when i see em?
If your joking around and dont hit to hard then i think your ok but no i dont like it when im smacked how'd you like to get smacked? good question feedback it towards yourself-trix

Q: i think i may like one of my good boy friends but im not sure if he likes me how do i find out and how do i respond
well if he is a good friend i would just tell him because good friends are the ones who always understand the most-trix

Q: well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do??
I hope he isnt presurring you to have sex with him because that'd be gross... maybe you could tell a parent but i would just tell him your not ready and how you feel about it tell him your waiting for the right guy and your scarred of STD's or something and if he goes use a condom say it could break-trix

Q: in our group of friends there is a girl (lets call her laura) who every1 else is always bitchin about. i join in with them sumtimes but i dont agree wiv it. the thing is, i dont wanna tell em off or anythin coz they wont like me as much, but laura's my feidn n i dont wanna lose her coz i was tryin to keep my other friends. help!
Just say hey now im friends with her i dont want to be around when you guys talk about her bad and i would do the same thing for any of you guys because you guys are like my bestfriends-trix

Q: there is this guy at school who i really really like and we talk alot and hangout together and act like were going out but were not!! im scared he's going to ask me out and i would really want to say yes but my mom and dad told me i couldnt go out with him because his brother drinks and does drugs and everything!! what should i do???
I would talk to your parents and tell them that he isnt like that at all and he doesnt really follow in his brothers footsteps and you really like this kid and to just give him a shot maybe one day have him come over and have your parents casually meet them and let them re-judge him but from there point of views and with the real him and not his brothers mistakes-trix

Q: i really really want to be popular in school!! i want more than anything to be in the popular group and everytime i try i get even nerdier!! what can i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!


WANNA BE
Just be yourself and be nice to everybody compliment people and help people out as much as possible just make sure you dont try to hard to point people think your annoying-trix

Q: I am so proud of my sister! My sister is a model, and is best friends with Hilary Duff! She is in the movie Mean Girls, with Lindsay Lohan! I just reveived a modeling contract, but I am sorta jealous that my sis has been acting for 4 yrs! I am going to be in a movie, but hres is so much cooler, and she is so luky! She met Chad from the OC at the movie premeire! Hes sooo hot.


Please Help
Winona
Well i think you are lying a bit... but whatever... sounds to me your a ungrateful for what you have there are kids out there who dont even have a house much less food or blankets.. so my advice for you is to get a grip and be more appreciative!-trix

Q: well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do?
ha this is another example of the same girl and this would be "ella" we always caught her in lies but never confronted her about it until someone got majorily mad at her and said something about it when they were in fights and she eventually got punched in the face... but just tell her your sorry and you didnt mean to emberass her and we all lie sometimes and not to worry about it you just wish she could keep things plain and simple for you and your friends-trix

Q: okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help.
Wow... tell him it means a whole lot to and you really really want to have kids... bring him up what if his parents never wanted kids... he wouldnt be here today its really hard in this type of situation ... real hard... but... thats the best i could really do! sorry-trix

Q: ok i think my friend asked me a question about being anorexic and wut to do. she asked me if i knew who asked the questions and i said no and hen she stopped talking for a bit and then when she did respond she said g2g and signed off. i really want to help her and she is sooo pretty so she doesnt need to lose any weight but how should i bring up the topic?! Help ASAP cus i really would like to help her!!!!
OreoGirl
Just tell her your concerned of the whole fact of when she brought it up to you... thats what friends are for... they care about eachother-trix

Q: okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help?
Cats... there lazy... lol or a fish... but they are boring... or a hermitcrab... or a bird-trix

Q: I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany
Haha sound like my friend... im not saying her name because alot of my friends do check this but the best way we tried to handle things with "Ella" was by just telling her mom that she is starting things... she learned quick from that... if she wants her mom involved so be it... her mom understood and same with the bf thing... she always tried to take my x away from me which pissed me off at the time but if your guy's bf's like you enough they will push her away and as far as she goes ... i'd talk to her and put it on the line that you've had enough... use hand jestures that sometimes help get the point across-trix

Q: My boyfriend really really wants to do stuff with me like really bad when ever I kiss him he tries to do all this new stuff and I want to and everything but I am afraid of going to far... what should I doo? My dad is going to New York for a month and then we are suppose to move there because his new job and I don't want too!!!
Right now my Best frined has MONO! from kissing another guy and her mom is flipping out!! Help me What should i do with everything!
Well you can't always get mono from kissing another guy and thats not always how you get it either and as for moving to NY its a great place its lively and active its the city that never sleeps i should i used to live there and i go up there every summer just pray that your dad doesnt get the job and as for the boyfriend just tell him how you feel and thats you dont want to go TO far.-trix

Q: okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them?
Ask them what they want to do or ask the parents what they do to keep themselves somewhat calm maybe you could take them to the park or for a walk ... my lil cousins who are twins are 6 love walks and for my other lil cousin who is 4 just loves the park and learning to ride bike and my other cousin gunner loves riding his new bike and running in the backyard-trix

Q: does anyone know any good sad quotes about drinking and driving, death, losing someone, cutting yourself, someone cutting or hurting themselves, suicide, ect or anything else you can think of thats sad
www.firehotquotes.com or you could go to google or askjeeves.com and put in the type of quote you would want and they should give you a few things they may give you quotes from a movie or a quote from a song also... but it should work-trix

Q: He loves her right?
She was so pretty..
He had such great teeth
She pushed him away
He didn't stay
But she knew he'd come back
So she could lay her head..
on his warm lap
But he never did
and so she bled

For every inch that peirced her thin
weary, tired, aching skin
she thought of him
But he wasn't there to dry her tears
or wipe up the crimson blood that stained
The knife she had
For every sapphire tear she shed
she would cut that much deeper
and so she bled

Girls like her just didn't slice
There flesh with kitchen knifes
The cold metal felt like ice
She was so pretty
and so was he
She didnt think this through right
she peirced her flesh instead
pretty cheerleader just broken inside
and so she bled

Last breath, what's left to say?
She thought of him
Her life was just one big cliche
Tragic story ending with a broken heart
She remembered everything he said
but he's gone now..

and so she's dead.
Thats pretty good... very... idk the word im looking for but its very ... good job-trix

Q: Look no further, this is real.

I express the way I feel.

I am proud that I am me.

I am what I want to be.

I feel used; I feel alone.

I feel upset; I want to groan.

I feel hurt; I feel deprived.

I feel angry; I hate lies.

I feel hunger; I feel pain.

I feel like I have gone insane.

I feel happy, I’m all smiles.

At least for just a little while,

I put my true feelings away

To face another lonely day.
thats very good keep writing!! I can follow through with what its saying and it makes sense unlike half the people that put stuff up here so i give you 2 thumbs up!!-trix

Q: in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident.
Well just clean yourself up adn maybe get a new outfit or something like that and just keep a good positive attitude-trix

Q: I've decided that I would really like to go the Advertising route after I finish school. The problem is that I'm having difficulty pinpointing what kind of advertising I'd like to be involved with. I know that I don't have any artistic talent, so that's out of question. But I would really like to be one of the creative minds behind the actual catchy slogan creating, if you know what I mean. If you've ever seen What Women Want, then you know I'm talking about the job both Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt have. If anyone could tell me what this job is specifically called, it would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for any advice given :)
Well i dont know what the job is called but what you could do is go to someone that has that job or in the standards of doing it and ask them but you could also go to askjeeves.com or google.com or the search engine at the top bar of you computer when on the internet or if you have aim ask smarterchild-trix

bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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