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I LIKE HIM SO MUCH!!!!!
there is this guy at school who i really really like and we talk alot and hangout together and act like were going out but were not!! im scared he's going to ask me out and i would really want to say yes but my mom and dad told me i couldnt go out with him because his brother drinks and does drugs and everything!! what should i do???
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I would talk to your parents and tell them that he isnt like that at all and he doesnt really follow in his brothers footsteps and you really like this kid and to just give him a shot maybe one day have him come over and have your parents casually meet them and let them re-judge him but from there point of views and with the real him and not his brothers mistakes-trix
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Well if it was me..lol.. then i would go for it if you really like this guy, you only live once..but if you are the type who respects your parents wishes then continue to be friends with him and explain the problem if he really likes you then he'll understand. Or explain to your parents wat kind of guy he is and that u really like him and he isnt like his brother. Maybe they'll understand but then again you kno how parents are....
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Don't make a desicion based on what his brother does. Siblings are often VERY different. Me and my sister are complete opposites. If he asks you out, and you really like him, then go to a movie or restauarant with him and some other people. Your parents might not mind if its not just the two of you.
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You might not want to go out with him, if his brother does drugs, hate to say it. If you ever go to his house and the cops show up to get his brother on drug charges, you're an accomplice, they can pick you up too. If you go out with him, be very careful.
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Well, I suggest you should go out with him and not tell your parents. Try not to tell him about this. Straighten everthing out with everyone a little later, like wen he really likes you and nothing could make u break p unless its extremely bad and when your parents se ur happy and he's harmless. Try your best, good luck
-gabi143
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sit your parents down and make them see that while his brother does that stuff, he doesnt. make them see that he's a nice guy who is genuinley interested in you. if they cant accept that, then just be frinds. for now, at least. if you try and sneak around behind your parents backs, be warned. they ALWAYS know.
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Just becuse his brother is a bad person doesn't mean he is; 'Judge not the son by the sins of the father'.
Also, your parents do not nessisarily hold sway over every aspect of your life, but its possible that they are concerned that this guy is going to become like his brother, and they don't want thier daughter to get hurt.
So, talk to your parents, and you prospective about your concerns, and take it from there.
Good luck :)
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tell him you like him and that your parents feel your too young too date its sort of the truth and he may be let down
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