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ok there is this guy that really likes me i kinda like him to but he lives in oregon... but than the other day i met this kid who likes me and who i like alot and he lives here by me... i dont know what ro do i will feel bad if i get rid of either (link)
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how old are you? if you're still young, jave some fun. that's what your teenage years are all about. get some relationship experience with the guy who live by you. however, if you love the guy in oregon, do the long distance thing. it's hard, but not impossible.
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there is this guy that i REALLY like. but my best friend likes him to. im not sure what to do. do i keep liking him or do i look for another guy. (link)
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depends. has one of you liked him a lot longer and a lot more? if so, the other one should back off. if it's not an "i think i'm in love" situation, you should both back off. don't let a guy come between friends.
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There is this person that I really like, and I am preety sure they like me too. But we both are to afraid to say anything to go out because we don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do. (link)
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take the chance. make the jump. do what you feel is right. i did something similar with a friend of mine. we never really started dating but we hooked up a coupla times. i dont regret it. i would have regretted it more, had i not done it, because then i'd never have known what could have happened.
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what do you do when your are tottaly flirting with a guy one day and then the next day he pretends you don't even exsit it like really confusing? i'm not sure if i sould forget about him or go after him (link)
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sometimes guys like to play it cool with girls they like if they're afraid they wont like them back. flirt with him. make sure he realizes that you like him without throwing yourself at him. if he doesnt respond then he's ot worth your time
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There is this girl in a couple of my classes that i like but im not sure if she likes me more than just a friend. I want to ask her out but im not sure how exactly. What should I do? (link)
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go up to her and ask her out on a date. really. sometimes you just need to be blunt with girls. we are EXTREMELY good at hiding our feelings for fear of humiliation. and if she says no, what's the worst that could happen?
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i have never been out with anyone younger than me, but i thought i would give this boy a chance. i am in year 10 and he is in year 9 i know i sound young, but im really into all that romantic stuff, like kissing (like ross and rachel do in friends)and i feel like all he wants to do is get as far as he can with me, he is really really good looking and could have virtually any girl he wanted. i was out with him and his friends and they were all watching us pull and he kept asking if we could go further,(id like to say we've been going out properly for about 3 days) i really like him but i dont think he likes me for the right reasons, what should i do? (link)
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talk to him. tell him exactly how you feel and see what he says. if he confirms your fears or sounds like he's being untruthful, dump him.
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I found out last week that my ex- boyfriend likes me again. so we started talking to eachother and he said that I lied to him, but i didnt. so now he is really mad at me and hes not talking to me what should i do? (link)
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sit him down and explain the situation to him. ask him why he thinks you lied to him, and tell him your side of the story. Then if he still wont believe you, he's just not worth your time.
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I have a boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else,what should I do? (link)
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you said it was just a crush, right? if that's all it is, fear not. it's perfectly normal, and even healthy to be attracted to other people. As long as you don't act on it.
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Here is my scenario: I'm 18 and I have only had my period for less than 2 years. I have never had sex. My period has never been normal or regular and it pretty much comes and goes as it pleases. Sometimes I don't have it for months and months at a time. As of now, I havent had it for at least 3 months now. My problem is that I think that when I was fooling around with someone (not having sex) that semen may have managed to go through a layer of clothing and maybe make its way inside me.
Since I havent had a period since god knows when - I have no idea if the little soldiers got in or not. After that night in question I encountered the tiniest bit of blood - barely considered a 'drop' and that was it. That was the main reason I thought it might have been conception.
Recently, I have been eating a lot more but I haven't really gained any weight. My breasts may have gotten bigger but they were sore for at least a week straight.
I'm wondering if these things could mean that I am pregnant. I have been under a lot of stress so I am thinking maybe that is the reason why I haven't had my period for a long time and that maybe my body is just finally deciding to develop which accounts for the breasts thing.
I'm very worried because not only would being pregnant ruin my life and a baby's life, but my boyfriend would clearly break up with me because we have never had sex and he will probably assume I was with some other guy behind his back. Not to mention the cazillion other reasons why its bad.
Are there any tell-tale signs that might help me to know or at least put my mind at ease before going to see a doctor? (link)
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pregnancy test. that's all i can suggest. it's possible, but very unlikely.
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can you choose not to luv sum1 like i fell in luv with a guy n he doesnt luv me can i choose not to luv him anymore (link)
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No. Falling in love isn't a choice you can make. It just happens and there really isn't anything you can do about it. You can accept the fact that he doesn't love you and try to move on, but if you TRULY love him, he will always have a piece of your heart no matter what.
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First off, im a girl and i have a friend who is a guy. we always hang out and we made out once but that waz all. im afraid that we will make out again n he wants to go further then making out. how do i stop in at this point without getting him upset or looking like im afraid because im not. iv had sex with 2 guys before. i dont like him enough to have sex with him but i enjoy making out with him. Please help because i dont want to look like im scared n i wanna stay friends with him. i am 17 by the way n he is 18. (link)
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If you two have an agreement of friends with benefits, sit him down one day and tell him exactly how far you are willing to take things and make sure he understands. However, if you two haven't agreed to friends with benefits, find out how he feels about you. If his really your friend, don't just use him. If he finds out that's what you did, he can get really angry. You can ruin friendships that way. Good luck.
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my mother died a couple years ago and i feel like it's my fualt. as a child i didn't get a lot of attention from my friends so i kept wishing that someone in my family would die! and it happened and i regret everything i wished! is it my fualt my mom died? (link)
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NO!!!! Don't EVER think that. Everything you thought was just that. Something you thought. Unless you're god, which I'm fairly certain you're not, you did NOT cause your mother's death. Rest easy. -er.
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ok ive liked this guys for six months and he just asked me out like 4 days ago and i was thinking about how much i liked him compared to all of my other boyfriends and this by far is the most serious one even tho weve only been going out for 4 days it feels like i really do love him , but im have 2nd thoughts about telling him how i feel because (1 we are to totally different people as in he isnt a virgin and i am he does pot and i dont and i dont have a problem with him doing it , its just im not sure how he would react (2 he might think im nuts and walk away and tell his friends so they can stare at me even more at me during lunch (3 he may not feel the same way about me . and i have a friend of his who is a friend of mine and says that he talks about me all the time and in the "good" way. ok well let me get to the point im leaving this summer for 3 months and im leaving in about a month and i seriously cant stand not seeing him and i wanted to tell him how i felt befor i left ... should i?
*~a person with love issues~* (link)
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wait and see how you feel a few days before you leave. Have you guys been friends before this? cuz if you have, then you guys already have a special connection and it'd be understandable that you feel that way. If that's the case, I'd say, go for it. However, if you have only been close for the time you've been going out, which is only four days-ish, I'd wait a few months. Sometimes feelings can appear to be one thing but change. Build a strong foundation with this guy and really get to know him. Once you know just about everything about him, and you still feel this way, then tell him.
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I dont know what to do I still like my ex-boyfriend. but he doesnt like me anymore. ever since we broke up he hasnt been talking to me. we messed around while we were going out and he told everyone at school what we did. what should i do move on or talk to him and try to get with him again? (link)
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Tell him how you feel about him tellign everyone what you two did, and ask him to stop. Then move on and never talk to him again. He's a jerk.
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should i be conserend if i enjoy cutting myself? when i do it the cuts arent really deep or anything and i havent done it in a long time...should i worried about this? (link)
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jess?....
neways, YEAH!!!!!!! Regardless of whether or not you enjot it, you're hurting yourself. That's sooooo not good. TALK TO YOUR MOTHER!!!!! Go to a psychologist....psychiatrist.... whatever. i can never remember the difference. Get help. NOW!
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I have a friend who's about to be initiated into Wicca. I know what Wicca's about, and that's mainly why I've been hoping he wouldn't. He's getting initiated on Saturday, and I'm really worried. Is there anything I can do to talk him out of it in five days?!? (link)
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Why are you so against wicca? It's just another religion such as buddism, islam, christianity, etc. if you dont know what it's about, talk to him. figure out why he wants to be a part of this religion and what it's about. if you still have some concerns, tell him, but don't attempt to control his choice. A spiritual decision of one cant be made by others.
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OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis? (link)
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very possible. did it move off the table into your hand? or roll to it? look at every detail and do some research.
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i really really want to be popular in school!! i want more than anything to be in the popular group and everytime i try i get even nerdier!! what can i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!
WANNA BE (link)
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Popularity DOES NOT EXIST!!!!! At least not in high school. As long as you have a solid group of friends that you care about and that care about you, you'll be fine. Relax and don't worry about it so much.
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Ever since I was a little kid, I've been terrified to leave my house for fear of spontaneous combustion. Is this normal? (link)
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chances are you WONT experience SHC. I leave my house everyday and nothing happens. You'll be okay. i promise.
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