MS.INAYA answered Wednesday May 26 2004, 11:23 am: WELL, IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE TYPE OF BOYFRIEND YOU HAVE.AND WHICH ONE DO YOU ENJOY THE MOST.
DO YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR BOYFRIEND? HANG AROUND YOUR CRUSH AND SEE WHAT'S HE LIKE. YOU MIGHT LIKE HIM UNTIL YOU GET TO KNOW WHATS HE LIKE,THEN NOT LIKE HIM AND THEN YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND
FOR NOTHING.
ArisuStarr answered Monday May 10 2004, 10:00 pm: Leave it be. If you realize you're falling for the other guy, then so be it...
But don't wreck a perfectly good relationship on a mere technicality ~_^ [ ArisuStarr's advice column | Ask ArisuStarr A Question ]
wondering answered Monday May 10 2004, 7:29 am: Just how huge is this crush ? Why don't you hang out a little more with your crush and try some of the classic tricks just to see if he responds ( does he like you ? ) and just to know him a little better .
Also , prick up your ears and listen to what your friends have to say about him . You have to know if they find him nice , or if they like him as well . If one of your friends admits their crush on him , i think it is best not to do anything just yet . It will make you seem like the "bad" girl in this situation . Also, check your crushes rep , if he happens to be known as a player , you might want to be careful .
If things DO go according to plan , and you are planning to break up with your current boyfriend , make sure that he is single ,and that you don't ask him out ( if that is what you are planning to do ) immediately after you break up , or you might get labled as a slut .
If you are waiting for him to ask you out , make sure he knows that you have broken up with your bf , and turn on the flirting machine ( but don't over-do it , cuz desperation is a major turn-off ) , and drop a few hints , and voila !
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday May 9 2004, 7:18 pm: What should you do? You should do nothing with the other guy. Keep your boyfriend if you still like him. However, if your feelings for him seem to be fading, I suggest you break it off. It's not good to lead the poor guy on if you don't like him anymore. But if you do, by all means, stay with him, but don't do anything with the other guy, even if he comes to you. Good luck!
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Kiki714 answered Sunday May 9 2004, 4:18 pm: you said it was just a crush, right? if that's all it is, fear not. it's perfectly normal, and even healthy to be attracted to other people. As long as you don't act on it. [ Kiki714's advice column | Ask Kiki714 A Question ]
friend2all answered Sunday May 9 2004, 4:57 am: fallow ur heart. But seems to me u dont tyake ur realtionship seriously. Its about being witha loved one and having fun. Dont play with ppl hearts. Let ur guy down gently and c wot happens with the other. [ friend2all's advice column | Ask friend2all A Question ]
RainbowDiva answered Sunday May 9 2004, 1:09 am: Hello!
I ve definitely been in this situation before, and if u have it good wth ur man why go anywhere else. Ur looking at someone based on their physical attributes and may not know much about the person. U have a boyfriend that shd be treating u right and loves u, the other guy u have a crush on may be abusive, rude, or boring.
If ur not happy in ur relationship then move on and let ur boyfriend know that ur interested in someone else.
Only pursue the guy u have a crush on if ur not happy in ur relationship, other than that
peeking aint cheating :)
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