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is my boyfriend using me for one thing?
i have never been out with anyone younger than me, but i thought i would give this boy a chance. i am in year 10 and he is in year 9 i know i sound young, but im really into all that romantic stuff, like kissing (like ross and rachel do in friends)and i feel like all he wants to do is get as far as he can with me, he is really really good looking and could have virtually any girl he wanted. i was out with him and his friends and they were all watching us pull and he kept asking if we could go further,(id like to say we've been going out properly for about 3 days) i really like him but i dont think he likes me for the right reasons, what should i do?
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talk to him. tell him exactly how you feel and see what he says. if he confirms your fears or sounds like he's being untruthful, dump him.
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DONT DO ANYTHING UNTIL U ARE REDY FOR THAT IF HE ONLY WANTS THAT THEN U WILL KNOW I PERSONALLY THINK THAT IS TOO SOON AND DONT THINK LIKE THAT "THAT HE CAN GAT ANY GIRL HE WANTS " WELL U R GOOD AND BEATIFULL TOO AND DONT LET ANYONE TELL U OTHER WISE U ARE UR OWN PERSON AND UNIQUE SO STOP THINKING OF WHAT HE WANTS AND START SAYING OF WHT U WANT
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It's good that you gave him a chance.
However - the reason a lot of girls like older guys is because they tend to be more mature in a lot of ways. Girls always mature faster than boys. It's a scientific rule. I don't think he likes you for the right reasons either, and it's good that you've taken a deeper look at this and realized that.
Now, making out is fun, but that should not be all your relationship is based on. Besides, if you're in year 10, you're too young to be going anywhere near "all the way". Also, are you brittish? Just curious - I have an english friend and she's younger, but in my grade (she told me they don't have kindergarten in england, lol, which is why she's younger). So based on that, I'm guessing you're fourteen or so, maybe fifteen. You're too young to be going "all the way" or anywhere near it.
I suggest you talk to him and get him to tell you why he likes you. If it's for the wrong reasons, as you suspect, get rid of him. You sound like a perfectly nice girl - there are other guys who won't use you for one thing. Good luck!
-Siren
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Well are you in grade t10 and he is in grade 9 or are you AGE 10 and he is age 9?
But yes I think you shlould dump him.
advice~gurl
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I'd dump him. No matter how gorgeous he may be if he likes you because of your looks and nothing else he obviously isn't worth wasting the time on. Anyways, a lot of times when you date younger boys they feel the need to try and be like boys your age and often want to rush it. Hope it works out for you!
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first of all, what do you mean by he wants to go further. you may get amd at this, but it's the truthh, you're way too young to kiss. i know exactly how you feel, i wanted to kiss boys when i was your age too. if he wants to do something more than kissing, dump him. let him know you don't want to do anything. let him know if you feel uncomfortable with him kissing or touching you. If he dumps you, get over it, someone more nicer, or more better than him might be closer to you than you think. In other words, follow you're heart. if it says you're uncomfortable with him, let him know, and if he continues, then dump him. A boy that really likes you respects your decision.
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If you think 3 days is a long time for having a boyfriend, you are completely wrong. Even a month is not a long time. You are in, what, 5th grade? This relationship is going to last 2 weeks at most. Forget about it. If you do anything, your just going to regret it, and he will spread rumors about you all over the school. I am in 8th grade, and when I was in 5th, I saw it happen. Bottom line: Dump him. Neither of you are ready.
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You are two young to find romance i just worked it out and im 16. You will have many bfs b4 u find love. And even true love as its ups and downs. I think this guy only wants to make out and maybe further bbut u are yung . 16 is legal age and if he is a year younger he can still be done for underage sex because his 14 and u r 15? Three days is not a long time to be dating. If ur relationship is to work u need to do more then kiss go out to the pictures and have a laugh. Dont make out all the time keep it for a specail occaction.
its up to u
take care
by friend2all
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