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She Needs Help, Bad!
My friend "Liz" and her boyfriend "Lucas" never talk AT ALL. I hooked them up so this is my problem. He never has anything to say to her, and vise versa. He reallys likes her and i know she likes him. How do I get them talkin?
Signed,
A confused friend
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Maybe they'd just rather be friends and they felt pressured into the relationship and you didnt relize it so ask them on your own time if they would just rather remain friends and go out on their own time-trix
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its up to them to start talking. you put them together but now that they are, they need to come up with some common interests. if they cant, they shouldnt be together.
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Have you talked to Liz about it? You need to both of them actually. But if they are fine with it, then there isnt really anything to worry about. If they get concerned about it, then sit down with them and tell them that the only way that this relationship will ever work,, isif they start talkin.
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I know EXACTLY what you mean! And then Liz complains to you because thay never talk, right? Maybe not... Anyway, tell Liz (or Lucas) to ask the other about stuff, to get *something* going. If all else fails, just let well enough alone. It may be that the both like who the other person is around other people.
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You may have hooked them up but it's still not really your problem. Some people just aint right for each other.
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I think you should wait a while its takes a while for people to talk or start to like each other. If they don't talk how are they going to know each other I think you should set up a date for them at a restaurant and introduce um to each other again.
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Why exactly do they like eachother? They must not have much in common if they have nothing to talk about. And no it is not your problem. It was nice that you got them together but it is their relationship, not yours, let them figure things out. They are most likely just shy, especially if it is their first boyfriend/girlfriend. They will get the hang of it, if they ever do find something to talk about.
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Go on a double date with them...and when you do don't go to a movie bc then you can't talk anyways. a good place to go would be to the bowling alley or out to dinner. both those places will kind of break the ice. Also, having you there would definetely calm both of them down. Good luck!
*FallenAngel*
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Ask out a nice guy you know, and go on a double date with Liz and Lucas. With two couples, it may be easier to get a conversation started. If it doesn't work out, then Liz and Lucas wern't meant to be if they can't talk to each other.
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