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boyfriend trouble
well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do??
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I hope he isnt presurring you to have sex with him because that'd be gross... maybe you could tell a parent but i would just tell him your not ready and how you feel about it tell him your waiting for the right guy and your scarred of STD's or something and if he goes use a condom say it could break-trix
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Tell him that your not ready yet, period. If he doesn't understand, bleh to him! It's YOUR life and he can't control it.
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Hey wats up....
First of all you shouldnt be pressured into doin anything.. If youre not ready to have sex then he is gonna have to wait and be patient. Sex isnt everything. Tell him straight up how you feel if he loves you then he will respect the fact that youre not ready. if that doesnt work then maybe thats all he wants from you. But jus talk to him.
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First of all, how old are you? I cant really help you without your age. Please email me how old you r and I can come back!
Sorry this wasnt helped.
-Chickaroo12
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this is easy. Tell him that you're not ready and if he loves you and respects you, he'll wait til you are. If he still pressures you, loose him.
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so he's pressuring you to have sex?? just tell him NO! tell him "i'm sorry i just don't want to so if you want to stay with me then wait until i'm ready" and if he breaks up with you then you know all he wanted was sex from you and you know your better then that.
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If you are not ready dont do it and if he doesnt understand that your not ready than hes not worth stessing over!
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Explain to your boyfriend, that you feel pressured. Let him know that just because he was ready to take that step, you're not comfortable with going that far yet. If he can;t respect that, then he's not worth it. No boy is worth your time who has no respect, and is treating you like he is just out to get in your pants.
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I'd dump him. If my boyfriend was pressuring me to do something i didn't want to do then he doesn't understand me and probably won't be there for other things. I mean is it really worth it?
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If a guy is pressuring you into having sex, then you need to stop and think for a second, "
Does he really love me, or is sex all he wants?" You make think that tthis guy is soooooo cute and you need him, but you are stronger thsn that. Tell him that you're not ready and if he stays with you, then you know that he really love you. But if he leaves you, then you know that all is wants is for you to get in bed with him.
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Why do you even bother to ask us what you should do. Because in the end you will be making your own decision about sex. If you feel you are not ready just tell him, if he likes you he will understand and if he won't wait for you then he isn't even worth dating in the first place. You will know when you are ready, only you can make this decision. Because I can tell you everyone is going to tell you to wait.
Cspinoza1
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Don't do it. You will regret it. Even if you use condoms, it is still not guarenteed that you will not get a disease or get pregnant. 17 out of every 100 condoms fail to do their job. Don't do it unlesss you are sure you are ready and want it.
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If you have a really good relationship with him then you need to sit down and talk with him. If you are not ready and you want to wait, let him know that. If he really cares about you then he will understand and respect your feelings. But..if he keeps pressuring you then he is not right for you. Any boyfriend that doesnt respect you isn't good enough for you. So, if he doesnt respect your decision...then you should break up with him and find someone who will respect you. Good luck! if you need anymore help, I'm here.
*FallenAngel*
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