Hey my name is Pamela or you could just call me Pam or kiwikisses or what ever i really don't care lol :o) I love to give out advice and from what i have heard i'm pretty good at giving out advice so if you have a question of any sort then please ask a question and i'll get to it as soon as possible!
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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well,my boyfriend is not a virgin and I am. He is kinda pressuring me into having sex. I don't want to. What should I do?? (link)
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so he's pressuring you to have sex?? just tell him NO! tell him "i'm sorry i just don't want to so if you want to stay with me then wait until i'm ready" and if he breaks up with you then you know all he wanted was sex from you and you know your better then that.
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Okay, I know this is weird, but I think my teacher is, uh... attracted to me. I mean, he's like, weird around me. I can't explain it, he's just like, flirting all the time or something! What the heck am I supposed to do???? - Very Confused Student (link)
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wow this is weird lol anyways i think that you should probably look at your i guess 'evidence' about this first look at it better just to make sure your not jumping to conclusions and well see if your teacher acts the same way around other students.
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There is this boy that I known for about 2to4 and a 1/2 years I like him I love him but there's a problem though because he's in the 9th grade and im in the 7th he likes me and I like him.But I just didn't tell him how I felt. But he's going to leave junior high soon and I keep showing signs that I like him but he just doesn't get it. "i just love him thats why i dont know what to do with out him". someone please help me.
age 13 signed lovable typical confused girl (link)
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ahhh same thing i am going through, just do what i did last year with him i called him and told him how i felt (you know the i love more then anyone and all i do is think about you) so if you have his number or even e-mail address e-mail him.
I turned 13 finally yesterday!! =^..^=
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I have a friend who's about to be initiated into Wicca. I know what Wicca's about, and that's mainly why I've been hoping he wouldn't. He's getting initiated on Saturday, and I'm really worried. Is there anything I can do to talk him out of it in five days?!? (link)
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well i shouldn't really reply to this but i'm a wicca also and i think if someone wants to be a wicca that's great because we do not belive in the devil or evil we're all good not evil so if he's getting into the evil wicca then try as hard as possible to get him out if not just let him do what he needs to.
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no one visits my website. i submitted it to the search engines and everything, and I think it's pretty good content-wise. any ideas on how I can get more visitors? (link)
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go to chat rooms and places on the web where you csn post it and say please go here is you like this or somehtign like that it worked for me
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How do I keep my hair from getting staticy in the winter? (link)
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ok... you can either put your hair up in like a braid or bun or pony tail or anything really and put hairspray in it or just have it up some way.
i hope this helps
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Last week our school had a dance. I went and we all had fun, just hanging out, talking, laughing, and then we decided to dance. At first we were just dancing, but then the slow songs came on. All my friends have boyfreinds/girlfreinds, and my freind, whom we will call bob, and I were just standing there. We are very good friends,he asked me to dance, so I said sure, why not? He thought we were dancing as friends, I thought so too. We are just friends. There is this girl though, and now she is totally pissed off at us for dancing. When she's talking to a group, and I try and say something, she'll just say: Nobody cares, Hawley. I just give her a dirty look and start talking, I don't care what she says. BUt she's really being a total bitch to *Bob* and I, and it's pissing me off. How the hell do I get her off my case when she won't even listen to us? (link)
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just tell her that your sick of this attitude problem she has and that you too were just dancing as friends (and tell her before you twll her what i said to tell her, tell her to listen up cuz you have somthing important to say)
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I'm not really a social person, even though I do like having friends. The problem is that sometimes they call me up and I just don't feel like going out, and they get all insulted about the fact that I'd rather curl up with a book than party with them. I have a lot more "me" time than the average person, and I like it that way, but they don't get it. I've lied to them about other stuff going on but feel bad about that. How can I tell them I'm not in a going out mood without hurting their feelings? (link)
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ok just tell them how you feel about this like say "I don't really feel like going out to night because i've had a bad day or i wanna finish a book" or anything like that. and maybe they will understand.
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A friend of mine is getting married in a few months, and all she talks about is her freaking wedding. She's so annoying I just want to smack her. Some of our other friends feel the same way, others are all into this wanting to help plan and decorate and buy pretty white crap that I can't get excited about at all, because I'm just not a pretty white crap kinda girl.
She used to be so cool and normal, we'd talk about what was going on in the world, fun weekend activities, etc. Now she's wedding 24/7. What's wrong with her? How do I shake her out of cinderella land and get my friend back? (link)
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lol i had the same problem once with one of my friend but it was a lil different anways you should confront her about it and say, "ok i understand your excited about getting married but can you please take a chill pill and not talk about it so much?" lol or somthign like that.
i hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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I don't know how to clean. Or budget but that's not the point. my room has gotten really dirty and I want to clean it so I can use it to practice for auditions, do homework, etc and not have to throw all my junk off my bed every night.
Does anyone have some cleaning tips, or something? Or can tell me how to clean? (link)
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lol ok lets say you have a desk in one part of your room and it's full of junk.Sart off with that and be sure to get the garbage before you do this and get papers out and put some on the side for stuff to throw away and another pile for stuff to keep then throw away those papers in the throw away pile. and organize the desk.
then move to your dresser and look threw your drawers and put long sleeved shirts in one drawer (*note: make sure to fold them) then put short sleeves in the other and pants in another etc.
then go to your bed. get new sheets on there and fix it up lol (if theres stuff on it then just get that off) lol
then go to another desk or whatever you have and if you keep it that way then you don't really have to do it that much anymore lol but if you live with your parents (well i'm a teen so of course i do lol) what my mother does is once she gets home from work she goes shopping and if my room is spottless she buys me things.
if you have any more questions just ask me lol
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This probably sounds really dumb but oh well. I have dance lessons three times a week(and this is active dance with jumping, not just walking around and moving arms or swaying on the spot) and I have two soccer practices a week and a game. I also have gym class twice a week for an hour and I try my best unlike some people. I walk 3k per day to school and back and according to my friend's mom 'eat like a bird' which I don't think I do. I'm 13 and weigh 110 pounds. I have friends that are my height and weigh about 90 pounds. Their excercise is gym class. That's it. I know for a fact they don't diet and aren't anorexic or bulimic. They eat more than me.
I also know a girl in my dance class who does everything I do plus lacrosse and an extra conditioning practice with her team for soccer. She eats about the same amount as me but is obese. How the hell does that work? I don't really care but I'm just curious! (link)
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Maybe you should as your school nurse or your doctor about this because you could have a problem.
i hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
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Well first off all it's up to you what you do and if your sister does see you and she does blab oh well you might get grounded for a while but you probably had a great time but betraying your parents isn't very great but also you probably aren't going any father then you should right? lol just do what you need to. unless you also could explain that you won't go any farther then dancing and that's it. i hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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my friends are telling me I shouldn't even try to be friends with my ex boyfriend because that never works, but I think it can sometimes. what do you think? (link)
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lol this sounds just like my problem and maybe it can work but wiht me and my ex we just kept on getting in more and more fights becaus ei was jealus that he was going out with my friend and everything else but everything happens for a reason but anyways lol i think you should do what ever feels right cuz everybody's differnt i have had friends who are friends with their ex's and they haven't fought at all since and their closer then ever so just see what happens
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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I have been divorced for almost a year, and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year, but used to he would always want to be around me, touch me etc., now i almost have to force him to do anything. he says he still has the same feelings for me and the thing is that when we get into an arguement he always tells me to shut up, that I am f-ing stupid, or go to He@@. He always opologizes and I know he has had a really rough childhood, both parents dying, his dad shot his mom right in front of him and his grandad used to beat him, I can deal with thie emotional rollercoaster with him anymmore, should i try to work it out or kick him out?????
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I understand the part with his rough child hood but i mean he's amn now and that was the past and theres no sense on staying with him if he's like that because if he keeps doing that he may want to hurt you but it's hard to tell. so do what feels right.
I hope this helps
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Okay. Here's the story. First I'll introduce the people that are involved or I will lose you. Rose is our age but went to a private school about an hour away this year. Another girl, Emily is still going to this school. Her sister Julianne just started going to our school and likes Billy. Last year, Billy liked Rose and found out that he liked her too. They didn't go on any dates or anything and Rose hasn't seen him since the end of the school year. Now, Billy likes Emily. Rose still thinks he likes her. Billy was going to ask Emily to the school dance last week but he didn't get the nerve to. For the first slow dance, he danced with Julianne. After Julianne, he danced all the dances wth Emily. Now Julianne is really jealous and not speaking to Billy or Emily. It may not seem like this is my business but i was there and witnessed it all and Billy asked me post it here after he heard about the site because his computer has a virus. He wants to know how to tell Rose he doesn't like her and how he should fix things up with Julianne and Emily and him. Any ideas? And I hope this made sense. (link)
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Hi um I think that Billy should slowly break it to her and say like "Rose, You know I liked you before? well right now i knda just like you as a friend" or something like that. but it's just an idea.
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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