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I'm a 14/f, 5'6, 113 lbs. no ass(hehe),
and i have cellulite on my legs. I dont really get how i have it, can someone explain this to me, and maybe how i can rid of it please!
thank you so much!!
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Ugh cellulite. i have that same problem. I've heard that cellulite is just a bunch of fat cells with no muscle to rest on, when it's all bunched up it creates a dimpling effect.
Here's some advice: building muscle mass instead of fat will give the area of dimpled fat more area to lie on which will flatten it out and reduce the dimpling, plus the cellulite. There really is no cream that can get rid of it, some doctors say it is hereditary, but a lot of people have it. (you could try getting a tan, because that may mask it somewhat but I am NOT encouraging the use of a tanning bed or no sun screen.)Try not to worry about it, things could be worse.
Hope my info helped!
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Ok my freind thinks hes gay. How can he find out? His and my best freind who is a girl, oh im a guy, well anyways she has liked him for a year and 2 months and he was thinking hes gay but, he finaly told her for sure that hes gay! and she got super upset and started cutting her wrists she is really emotional! But im her ex we have been seperated for about a month or so now, and she thinks the guy she likes, likes me, and thinks im stealing him from her and its really messed up. He wants to just prove that he is gay to her, so how does he do it? taylor which is the guy is 16, im 14 and, the girl stephanie is 15. But i still love stephanie to and I care so much about her she is like the world to me, I dont want to ever see her hurt again! Im straight though, but how does he prove this? (link)
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What if the gay guy doesn't want to prove it? Shouldn't just him saying it be enough? This was probably really tough for him to even admit such a thing, and I give him kudos for not hiding it, but it's not his fault. I know you don't like to see your ex upset, but she probably has deeper issues than thinking that you're stealing the gay guy away from her. Maybe you should talk to her, it seems like she has some problems that need to be worked out, especially since she is inflicting pain upon herself. If you care about her like you say you do, tell her to stop cutting herself, or tell an adult about it. In the long run, she will most liekly thank you for your honesty. Oh, and I would probably mention to her that you still love her, because it may make her feel better. I hope everything turns out okay!
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Ok so I'm 15/f, not for long though cuz in a week i'll be 16 :D But the thing is, I've never been kissed, or even had a real boyfriend, and I'm sick of it.
so anyway, I like this kid, kevin. He's in one of my classes, but I only see him 3 times a week because he and I have bio labs on different days.
Now, maybe I'm just getting my hopes up too high, but he seems kinda interested. My best friend is in that class with me too, and she kinda likes kevin's friend. Soo, one day my best friend and I got to sit next to each other, and kevin, his friend, and a couple other guys they talk to came over and sat right behind us, when there were all these other seats in the room. Then, the other day we had a substitute and got to do whatever, and all of a sudden kevin was sitting right behind me. Of course I got up and went over to my best friend since there were no other seats near me though for her to sit. ANd today in class, out of my like, peripheal vision (not sure if i spelled that right) I could see him either looking at me, my best friend (NOO!) or out the window. It was like this.. (the windows) (my best friend) (me) (empty seat) (him). And one time he bumped into my arm, I don't know if it was purposely or not though. See i don't know. It's just little things like that. So he's kinda shy.
The thing that sucks though, is I'm really shy too. At this rate, I don't know how I'll start a relationship with him. I want this to finally happen, I don't want to lose my chance if he actually does like me..
Soo my question is. How do I start a relationship with him?! Howww. Ah. I added him on facebook, but I don't think he goes on a lot, he never accepted me. I don't want our relationship to be online though, because that happened to me in the past but didn't work out too well. I want him to be my boyfriend. But how?!? lol end of storyyy! thanks so much :] (link)
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Yeah you're right, cyber relationships can become a sticky situation, so you're better off talking with him in person. And being shy is not a bad thing, you both have something in common! Woo-hoo! That's a plus, and maybe you guys could open up to one another and become less shy. It also seems to me like he IS trying to get your attention, so make the fist move, say a simple, "Hey, what's up?" and try to sit next to him in class, I'm pretty sure your best friend wouldn't mind. Also, Make sure you try extra hard to make conversation with him, it shows, but please PLEASE don't act ditzy, because girls do that all the time to get boys attention, and the truth is...IT DOESN'T WORK! (not that I am implying you would, just saying) Just talk to him and be yourself.
I hope a budding romance is about to bloom for you two!
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in fifth grade there is this guy at school i like and he usto like me but now now he likes this neww girl what should i do? (link)
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Okay, here's what you do: forget about him.
The worst thing you could POSSIBLY do would be to wait around for some guy who likes another girl. The only reason I say this is because if you get so hung up on him, he might break your heart and not even realize it. I'm sure there are tons of guys in your school, plenty that are boyfriend material. But, you shouldn't stop talking to that boy just because he likes someone else, it's good to have options. :]
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I need a song about an ex boyfriend who is really jealous of you. And you know that he is and wants you back coz he just found out you have a new bf.
Thanksss..
xoxoxox (link)
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Okay so, I'm absolutley in love with this song, Howie Day: She says. It's about an ex-boyfriend who is jealous of his ex-girlfriend and her new relationship with another guy. Or a shorter song by the Pipettes called: It hurts to see you dance so well. Or try out OMD - HOLD YOU.
I hope you like them!
(good lyrics too, check 'em out :])
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15/f What are some cute names I can put as my display name on myspace?? My name is Julie. Any suggestions??? (link)
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JuJu . Jules . Jooley . JLE . Jelly . Juliecakes . Juliebear . Julecks .
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I am a junior and a girl. I have never had a relationship with a guy, I've never kissed a guy, i have never been on a date. I consider myself to be a very pretty, nice girl, a bit shy or reserved, but i talk to boys all of the time.I talk to them, but i don't know how to...flirt, attract them, etc. I keep convincing myself that it's no big deal after each of my friends has their first kiss or boyfriend, and that my time will come eventually, i keep going places, on vacation or school trips and saying to myself, this is the time for you, then they pass, and my life remains lovless. As much as i would like to think that it doesn't matter that i can't get guys, I know I'm wrong, because i;ll only live once, and i want to expierience all things wonderful, ecspecially love. Part of my problem could be is that i am not, to put it bluntly, a slut or an in your face flirt. What can I do? Thanks, any advice, tips, suggestions or words of support would help. (link)
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i was the SAME FREAKING way. but listen, TRUST ME, once you date one guy... people find out... everything changes. not to sound rude or gay or anything, ahhaha, but i have guys like lined up now. mainly cause i did something kind of slutty which i never ever saw myself doing..but yeah. things changed. im more well-known now. i guess you could say. but okay dress sluttier, be more out there, try to get a guy that doesn't really matter to you..and if he doesnt like you, then oh well, you learned what not to do. you've got to figure every guy out. some are the type that would rather you come to them and take the lead. then some like when girls play hard to get. give me your screenname or something and i can help. i'd say i'm pretty experienced with thisss.. haa. but yeah find one guy that's not a loser, definitly, but is just average and date him and build your reputation and go from there. or find a friend that has a boyfriend, and meet his friends. i could go on and on and on about this so ya continue somewhere else? :] good luck :]
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how do you give someone a handjob (link)
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like thep erson below me said
http://www.handjobadvice.com/
thats good it uses models to do it, with out using real dickks
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16/f
Jon told me he loved me. I got totally weirded out, honestly. Being so young, and the fact that there is no way he could possibly genuinely love me in a boyfriend way made me uncomfortable. I don't know what to say but "no you don't." :/
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awww, its okay, and you are right by the way, he cannot truely love you, although it is a nice thought haha.
Do you think he just says that to you not seriously, but as a "i really care about you" kind of way, with more feeling?"
If you are uncomfortable about this, you need to go up to him and say something. Tell him that you understand he REALLY likes you, but you dont know what the future holds, and that you should save your feelings about loving each other, until you guys are together for longer and are 100% sure of it.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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this boy i dated when i was 11 years old said he loved me and would never hurt me. my paren't don't want me to date him. he broke up with me 3 weeks after i dated him and then he tries to get me jealouse even though i kissed him even though i was broken up with him. i kissed him when i was 12 years old. when i said i liked someone elsed he went and asked my mom about it. does that mean that he still likes me? what should i do because i am not allowed to date him for one reason is that my mom is friends with his mom and my dad thinks that i will marry him and have kids and that theywill come out with problems. and i think i still may like him.
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okay...i am telling you this from complete and total honesty. Nobody can love you at that age, dont take that the wrong way, you need to do what your heart tells you.
I have one question...why would your dad think you are going to marry and have messed up children? if i were you, i would disregard that information exchanged that day.
If you like someone else, what is holding you back...take alone time and think about it, who do you like. You are still at that puppy love stage, this is your time to be friendly with guys, not to make your life long decision.
Things will change as you get older, and you will mostlikely not be together forever (although it is a possibility.) and you dont have to like a guy because he likes you. Just do what YOU want to do, and everything will fall into place.
Its gonna be okay!
if you need anymore help with the situation, i will always be there for you!
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Ok, me and my best friend are going on a cruise and we want to hang out with people a.k.a. guys...but i have a boyfriend...what should we do? (link)
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well, your bf might be a bit jealous when you let him know your going on a cruise with guys, but you need to reasure him nothing will happen, and then keep to your promises. If they are truely just friends, then that's cool, there (in my opinion) is nothing bad about going somewhere with guy friends. But the worst thing you could do is lie to him about it, because TRUST ME, they will find out, and that just makes you look like you're hiding something. GoOd LuCk!!!
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ok i have a friend her name is stephanie and we're in 7th grade.
i dont really know why but sometimes when she gets mad at me she'll take it out by pinching me or hitting me
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Nobody can make that decision for you, you need to talk to her about it, and tell her that you dont like it. If she understands, then just be aware that she might have to adjust for a few more fights, and remind her. But keep your cool, and if weeks or however long go by, and no results, you should make it more clear to her... tell her that you do not know how much longer you can go on like this. Hope it all works out!!!
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Me and my best friend have been inseprable for 6 years...this year a boy came along and now after some "drama" me and my bestie aren't like we used to be.
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you need to be a little more specific, but i think i can still help you. You need to confront your friend, and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you just want some time alone with her, and go out somewhere (i would suggest someplace OTHER than the movies because you cant talk there) It will show her how things used to be, and how much fun you guys used to have together.\
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Ok so my dad told me he wanted the new Led Zepplin Mothership thing for christmas. So I went to Amazon and I found two examples of it. I want to know if they are the same thing or different. I'll give the links at the end, but when you scroll down, where it says "Best Value", it says buy both for I think around $28. I would totally do that, but I want to make sure they are different. Like the one says it has 2CD/1DVD. I think the other one might just be a CD. And I want to make sure that the 2CD/1DVD doesn't include that one that is just the one CD. So.. does anyone know?
http://www.amazon.com/Mothership-Led-Zeppelin/dp/B000VLE3GA/ref=bxgy_cc_m_text_a
http://www.amazon.com/Mothership-2CD-1DVD-Led-Zeppelin/dp/B000VLE3IS/ref=bxgy_cc_m_text_b (link)
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I am sorry but...why buy such a thing?
OK your father is fan, he likes Led Zeppelin and all but...there is absolutely nothing new in those CDs.
And even if it was it d be Jimmy Page playing indian Sitar instead of guitar.
I d advice you to buy him a DVD with Pink Floyd videoclips inside or even The Wall allthough he probably has it already.Or a Deep Purple instrumental concert (cant remember what its called, but it was awesome...with a classick orchestra).
Also...same with Metallica...(with a classic orchestra).
Also look into some more heavy mettal Stuff like Dream Theater.Please...do your father a favour and buy him something related to Dream Theater!!!
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um sometimes i feel so ugly and not worth anything....how can i believe tht im beautiful when inever have bfs or anything.....and the only person tht made me feel incredible likes my best friend and hes was talking obut makingout with her so wat should i do i want feel beautiful (link)
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Join the club, you're not alone. I haven't had any boyfriends and it might seem like a big deal now, but having a boyfriend isn't everything. Nobody is ugly, you're only ugly if you believe your ugly, to boost up your self confidence, go on a shopping spree, buy whatever you want and do whatever you want. Try a new look, maybe a new haircut? You don't have to be beautiful to have a boyfriend, I bet you are beautiful on the outside and the inside. And, if your best friend isn't intrested in you, it's his loss, there are plenty of cool guys out there, and you will eventually find a guy who appreciates you for who you are. Beautiful can't be defined, because everyone is beautiful somehow and we aren't perfectly beautiful, some people hide their beauty, and you can bring out your inner beauty by looking in the mirror and loving who you are! Be yourself and everyone around you will notice how truly pretty and lovely you really are.
Don't ever say that you're not beautiful! We all have felt that at some point in our lives.
Hope you feel beautiful!
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gender: F
age: 13
ok so i like this guy CB
and lately we have been talking about what the future might hold... we are best friends and we have been talking about eventually going out.... how can i make him trust me that we can have a relationship???
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If you guys are best friends, he should totally trust you, but if he is having doubts make him smile. Laughing and sharing your secrets with one another proves that the trust in mutual. Honesty is the best policy and I'm sure that if you try your hardest to make him trut you, he will. Being in a relationship can be tough, but don't worry, anybody can make it work. If he tells you a secret be careful of what you say to his friends or even your friends, that's the worst, because if he finds out you said anything, and he doesn't trust that you can manage a relationship, then an intrest between the two of you probably won't be able to start. Be yourself and always rememeber to "cross your heart and hope to die" and don't tell a soul, that's sure to gain his trust that a relationship can work with you. Oh, and one more thing, keep the flirting (if any) with the other guys besides CB down to a minimum, because that really won't help the trusting with the relationship. :]
I hope it works out with you two!
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theres this boy who makes me feel amazing. hes always complimenting me and stuff. and recently i found out that he likes my best friend. hes the sweetest kid and they seem like "the" couple, but i'm really jealous. what do i do? (link)
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Hold on there, he likes your best friend? Hmmm, have you ever heard the saying friends are forever boyfriends are whatever? If she really is your best friend and you know that they are "the" couple, don't ruin it for them. Let them be happy, would you rather be jealous and ruin their relationship? Or jealous but you'll get over it someday? Life goes on, try to find some other guy that makes you feel fantabulous, there are plenty of decent guys out there, he can't be the only one. You can always wait and see what happens with their relationship, and if it doesn't work out, maybe you could date him? But, if he likes your best friend, don't sway him off track, what comes around goes around. Always rememeber that and start fishing, because there are definetly plenty of fish in the sea. :]
Hope I helped!
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Hi. Just so you know i am not used to getting advice about this subject. I normally am the one giving haha. But you see i can't really talk to my friends about this subject becasue I told them all I was going to move on to another guy. O.K. well there is this guy, his name is Ryan. Ryan has a girlfriend. I've always looked down upon people who cheat (becasue its happened to me :(.. ) Anyway I had never conversed with Ryan before the end of this summer. Partly because we didn't know eachother, only eyed eachother when crossing paths in the hallway. I am extreemly attracted to him. I think he is likewise. We both have a facebook and I know this sounds juvinile but the only person he ever writes back via wall comment, message, or picture comment is me. I will have a series of messages with him that will be 20 comments long, where everyone elses is only 3, where as he ends the conversation and keeps it going with me. i found this one movie and i thought he threw it in my car, well he didnt but thats beside the point. what he did say though was that we should watch it and call it a party (he origanly told me i should have a "party" and for people to watch the movie). after this i thought it seemed like he was flirting, and that made me nervous because he has a girlfriend (which is a younger classmen who looks up to me) so i then told him that i didn't know if she would mind but i didn't want do do anything that would upset her.. he said he didn't think it would and that it was no big deal. I haven't talked to him as much lately but he still runs into me (seems most of the time like is secretly planned out) and starts conversation. I don't know what i should do, I really want him, but I don't know if i should follow my gut or my mind which is telling me that I would probably shouldn't. what do you think he is thinking? what do you think i should do?... i'm really sorry this is so long i tried really hard to keep it short and to the point (link)
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Ooh, sticky situation. There are pros and cons to this situation, but only one thing matters, what your heart is telling you. I know you might not understand this now, but that underclassmen most liekly isn't going to be with him forever, they will eventually break up, and since he is obviously attracted to you, they were headed for that route anyway. I know that you might think this is wrong, and that she looks up to you, but people break up, move on, and live. It's normal, and what if this could be your "perfect guy"? and yes, I have faith that there are perfect guys out there. :] He probably wants you to persue him also, he seems into you and you've already spilled that you want him, I say Go For it! What's the worst that can happen? The underclassmen girl will have other boyfriends and in time she will forget about him, if anything even happens between the both of you. Try talking to him again and make sure he knows your not into cheating, because that's not okay. Maybe you guys are meant for eachother and there is only one way to find out...
So, I would advise you not to ignore him and have faith in fate, it's called happily ever after :]
Hope it all works out for you in the best way possible!
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okay so i really like this guy and
he told a mutual friend that he really liked me
soo we've been emailing back a forth and i dont know where to go
i mean we look at each other but i think im to shy
what could i say to help us talk in person
and i mean every time i see him or hear about him
my face lights up
and i get soo distracted by him
but he's a big flirt so maybe he only told my
friend that b/c he just felt like it
im so shy i dont really know what to do or how to act.
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You must be head over heels for this guy, and that's great, but you don't want to just have a "cyber relationship" with him. You need to work up the nerve to talk to him, go say "I got your e-mail and it was funny" or something to start a conversation and try to make it not so awkward. But don't do anything drastic like drool all over him, take it slow you need to get your relationship from the computer to everyday life. How about talking to him on the phone? Or asking him by e-mail or in person if he wants to see a movie with a group of people, so it would be more subtle. Take baby steps, not everything has to be rushed and being shy isn't bad, just make sure you don't seem like your ignoring him in school. If he told your friend that he likes you, he's probably not joking, and all guys are flirts (so are girls) you can't really help it sometimes. Don't be afraid to talk to him, I'm sure he will be as cool as he is on the computer if you talk to him in person.
Hope it works out between you two :]
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theres this kid that i think is so cutee, and he usually ends up infront of me on the lunch line. anyway, i asked my friend tommy to find out his name and he ended up going up to him and saying " this girls in love with you and keeps asking me for youre name to find out youre name so what is it" and hes like oh im chris. and i dont know now i feel so awkward because he probably thinks im a stalker or something. do you have any ideas on what i can do to make this situation better? (link)
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Don't worry, that's not the most humiliating thing to have done to you in the world. (I've heard worse) Did you ever think that he now might want to talk to you, but can't work up the nerve? Try starting a conversation with him, forget about what happened, and if he brings it up, laugh it off. Make it a joke, don't avoid him, that would be the worst thing you could do. Just smile and make the first move, who cares what happened? He has probably already forgotten about the whole thing, hungry boys and information...eh, I wouldn't count on them to rememebr ;] just kididng.
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