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never been kissed . . .
I am a junior and a girl. I have never had a relationship with a guy, I've never kissed a guy, i have never been on a date. I consider myself to be a very pretty, nice girl, a bit shy or reserved, but i talk to boys all of the time.I talk to them, but i don't know how to...flirt, attract them, etc. I keep convincing myself that it's no big deal after each of my friends has their first kiss or boyfriend, and that my time will come eventually, i keep going places, on vacation or school trips and saying to myself, this is the time for you, then they pass, and my life remains lovless. As much as i would like to think that it doesn't matter that i can't get guys, I know I'm wrong, because i;ll only live once, and i want to expierience all things wonderful, ecspecially love. Part of my problem could be is that i am not, to put it bluntly, a slut or an in your face flirt. What can I do? Thanks, any advice, tips, suggestions or words of support would help.
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i was the SAME FREAKING way. but listen, TRUST ME, once you date one guy... people find out... everything changes. not to sound rude or gay or anything, ahhaha, but i have guys like lined up now. mainly cause i did something kind of slutty which i never ever saw myself doing..but yeah. things changed. im more well-known now. i guess you could say. but okay dress sluttier, be more out there, try to get a guy that doesn't really matter to you..and if he doesnt like you, then oh well, you learned what not to do. you've got to figure every guy out. some are the type that would rather you come to them and take the lead. then some like when girls play hard to get. give me your screenname or something and i can help. i'd say i'm pretty experienced with thisss.. haa. but yeah find one guy that's not a loser, definitly, but is just average and date him and build your reputation and go from there. or find a friend that has a boyfriend, and meet his friends. i could go on and on and on about this so ya continue somewhere else? :] good luck :]
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you have to take risks...wear skirts v-neck shirts to attract the guys..and then with the flirting just giggle alot and toss your hair..lol even if they tell a stupid joke, laugh at it (like not hysterical...but
a light giggle) when the guy that interests you looks at you make eye contact for a second and then break it. but do remember to keep your self-confidence up, dont bring yourself down because you cant get a date, just live your life day by day and see what comes out of it...if you have confidence in things you do then it will attract anybody (not meaning that in a bad way lol)
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