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oh man..
16/f
Jon told me he loved me. I got totally weirded out, honestly. Being so young, and the fact that there is no way he could possibly genuinely love me in a boyfriend way made me uncomfortable. I don't know what to say but "no you don't." :/
help.
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awww, its okay, and you are right by the way, he cannot truely love you, although it is a nice thought haha.
Do you think he just says that to you not seriously, but as a "i really care about you" kind of way, with more feeling?"
If you are uncomfortable about this, you need to go up to him and say something. Tell him that you understand he REALLY likes you, but you dont know what the future holds, and that you should save your feelings about loving each other, until you guys are together for longer and are 100% sure of it.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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It's okay to be weirded out by it. When someone first said it to me and truly meant it, I was weirded out too.. and I couldn't say it back. Mainly because of the same reasons you have, like not knowing each other properly etc.. and my response was "WHY!?" .. Probably not the greatest thing to say.
Don't worry about it. Just tell him you think it's a bit too early in the relationship for him to be saying that. You may not be ready for love right now, but who's to say you won't feel the same as he does in the future?.. and how you want to say it at the perfect time etc. Tell him that. and try to say it in the nicest way possible so he doesn't become offended. He should understand. It's a fairly common thing amongst couples.
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Tell him something like this..we are still so young and there is still so much you don't know about me and who i am. And i believe that if you are going to tell someone you love them you must know them very well and all there dark little secrets. You may think you love me but do you really or is it a strong like? Before i cna believe what you say is true you have to make me belive it.
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