Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 8:30 pm
gender: F
age: 13
ok so i like this guy CB
and lately we have been talking about what the future might hold... we are best friends and we have been talking about eventually going out.... how can i make him trust me that we can have a relationship???
orphans answered Wednesday December 12 2007, 9:58 pm: If you guys are best friends, he should totally trust you, but if he is having doubts make him smile. Laughing and sharing your secrets with one another proves that the trust in mutual. Honesty is the best policy and I'm sure that if you try your hardest to make him trut you, he will. Being in a relationship can be tough, but don't worry, anybody can make it work. If he tells you a secret be careful of what you say to his friends or even your friends, that's the worst, because if he finds out you said anything, and he doesn't trust that you can manage a relationship, then an intrest between the two of you probably won't be able to start. Be yourself and always rememeber to "cross your heart and hope to die" and don't tell a soul, that's sure to gain his trust that a relationship can work with you. Oh, and one more thing, keep the flirting (if any) with the other guys besides CB down to a minimum, because that really won't help the trusting with the relationship. :]
I hope it works out with you two! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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