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My freind thinks hes gay, how can he find out for sure?
Ok my freind thinks hes gay. How can he find out? His and my best freind who is a girl, oh im a guy, well anyways she has liked him for a year and 2 months and he was thinking hes gay but, he finaly told her for sure that hes gay! and she got super upset and started cutting her wrists she is really emotional! But im her ex we have been seperated for about a month or so now, and she thinks the guy she likes, likes me, and thinks im stealing him from her and its really messed up. He wants to just prove that he is gay to her, so how does he do it? taylor which is the guy is 16, im 14 and, the girl stephanie is 15. But i still love stephanie to and I care so much about her she is like the world to me, I dont want to ever see her hurt again! Im straight though, but how does he prove this?
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really there is no proving, besides kissing another guy, but that is just going to upset the girl even more!! did you ever try the three of you sitting down together and talking, i know from experince that it is hard on everyone, when i came out it was so hard for my exgirl but i talked to her and explained to her it was nothing to do with her it is a feeling i had for a while and it grew stronger.it all worked out and we are great friends now but it was not an over night thing... it was a lot of talking and encouragement on both ends and the accepting part and fight you all care for eachother she just needs to see it again on a different level....if you need me to expand on things i can help all three of you... just let me know it is not going to be easy...
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What if the gay guy doesn't want to prove it? Shouldn't just him saying it be enough? This was probably really tough for him to even admit such a thing, and I give him kudos for not hiding it, but it's not his fault. I know you don't like to see your ex upset, but she probably has deeper issues than thinking that you're stealing the gay guy away from her. Maybe you should talk to her, it seems like she has some problems that need to be worked out, especially since she is inflicting pain upon herself. If you care about her like you say you do, tell her to stop cutting herself, or tell an adult about it. In the long run, she will most liekly thank you for your honesty. Oh, and I would probably mention to her that you still love her, because it may make her feel better. I hope everything turns out okay!
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Why should he have to prove it to anyone? If he says he's gay, then his word needs to be trusted.
Besides, why on earth would a guy lie about something like that?
To be quite honest, sounds like the girl has some issues she needs to seek therapy for, and it isn't the gay guy's fault in the least.
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Ok i think if he have a boyfriend or something he should show her his boyfriend and let her know that he don't like you so she don't think you is gay but why is she doing all of that cause the boy gay but i think that what he should do.
But that a good thing that he told her the truth instead of holding it back.
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