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Q: Ok, what is a 69? A friend of mine said she was a slut and wanted a 69 24/7. And whats a chink? My enemy said this to one of my friends and she got realy upset.
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It's a sexual position. Look: 69 the loop of each represents a head. Guy sucking boobs and irls sucking dick.
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Q: what is the best mascara to use that dosesnt smear eaily and doesnt lobb??? HELP**i rate high
zani>>>>>>>>
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Q: Ok...I have had this feeling that I am missing something. And I know what it is. God. I want him in my life. I Just dont know how to do it. I have to admit that the thought of someone loving you unconditionally is a little scary. I know that this is what I want and need in my life, but I'm so scared to ask to be saved. Can anyone help me?
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Pray to him. Or go to church.
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Q: can u get an STD if u have sex using a condom?
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Yes you can. If the condom only protects the penis. The person you are having sex with can have it on there thighs or mouth or even hands!If you toch there thigh and that's where they have it you will get it.
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Q: I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him. Cause i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too.
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That's a really hard question. I know how you feel about not wanting to lose your really goood friends relationship. If you really truly like him, ask a friend to tell him... that always works for me!
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Q: i was in love once. with my ex bf of over a year. we broke up cause i found out he cheated on me. well its been 4 months since we broke up. and every bf ive had i compare to him and i cant let him go. we were SO close and i was so comfortable around him. well weve been hanging out lately. and i still get butterflies so much and i love being around him. we were at my house last night and he started holding my hand. and we just talked about how things used to be with us and all our little inside jokes and stuff. i dont know how to tell him i want him back. cause i do. and i know i shouldnt but everyone makes mistakes and i really love him. and my parents love him..and his parents love me..its just perfect..help..what do i tell him without sounding all weird??
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Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend. You said you guys were really close. I bet you still are so maybe if you are still pretty close you can maybe just tell it to him to his face or on the phone. Or like go to his house and right a note that says I want you back and lay it on his bed or dresser or whereever and then leave and he'll most likely find it. IM him or write a letter about how you feel. Good luck! PLease tell me how it ends up! I'm xoMarisox!
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Q: Ever since I was a baby, my face has always been chubby, even though the rest of me isn't. Not that Nicole Richie had a fat face before, but I've noticed her face has become a lot slimmer after she lost all of that weight. So i was wondering, how much weight would i need to lose for my face to be noticebly slimmer as well? (I'm 16, 5'6", and 125 lbs)
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If your body is thinner you really shouldn't do anything. The weight you are right now is perfect and most 16 yr olds prob. wish they could be the weight. So, I think you should talk to your mom or someone close... they can help too!
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Q: Last year was a great year for me, But over the summer I didn't get invited to hang out as much as I usually do and I spent most of my time on the internet.
So I wanna come back as the "new" me. You know, just to impress people and make me more exciting and outgoing instead of the same me. Any tips on how to make the change before school starts in 3 weeks? *nothing dramatic like dying my hair*
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Get a new style. Get more notcible clothes. Maybe a new hairstyle....
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Q: Ever since I quit Competative cheerleading I put on a few pounds. * 2 or 3 * So I started to eat better, ( no soda . little junk food ) But I cant seem to fit in time to excercise, to be honest im not so motivated to excercise. What should I do to lose weight more efficently?
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Watch your weight. If you go out to dinner, or lunch or w/e just get a salad and a water. excercise will always help.
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Q: So, today, at the camp I work at, I handed out business cards to some moms and one called me to babysit for a 9 yer old girl, 7 year old girl, and 6 year old boy. I have accepted the job at 8 dollars per hour for 4 hours. How can I keep the kids busy. I don't want to color or watch TV, and since the boy is there, I don't know what to do...
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PLay a bored game or something. If it's light out, take them outside and play a game. Or, maybe the boy just wants to do his own thing, if they (the kids) already have something planned just let them do it. Also, you can leave it up to them, they might have an idea for you to play withthem. Also, if you have somehthing at home you enjoy, bring that to play with. :)
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Q: Well my friend Jake is in love with me, and I cant date anyone without him getting mad at me and I really wanna go out with this guy named Austin, but I cant I feel forced to go out with Jake cause if I dont everyone is going to get mad at me and he will hate me forever. Jake really loves me a lot all of my friends and his friends no it HELP! what do I do?
(I am a female and im 15)
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You need to tell Jake how you feel. If you already did and he doesn't except that, he's not a very good friend. Go out with Austin if you really like him! Forget what Jake feels... don't go out wiht him becasue then you would not really like him, so that would hurt. Confirming is the best way to excepting!
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Q: do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help!
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There is onyl one way to help you. You need to tell someone. The police, or even better an adult you can trust, they can help you. Also I know there is a hotline you can call try going on google to find it. It has something to do with kids getting abused. Concrete Angel is a really sad song.... def. try getting help. If you need someone to talk to please IM me, xo3maris3ox. My name is Marissa. Don't hesitate!
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Q: my father abuses me what should i do
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Tell someone! Like your teacer would be good. Or even the police if it's really bad.
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Q: When you are making out with a boy (yes I am a girl) where do you put your hands? Where does he put his. When making out what do you do with your hands? sorry i just want to know if you answer this with a good answer I will rate a 5
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Well.. your hands kinda go where ever. I mean they just move while you kiss. You don't really think about your hands. If you really don't know where.. just keep them on his back.. his hands go wherever to.. so be prepared!
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Q: Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!
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Q: sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
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Well, I think you are doing the right thing about having the baby.. it shows you have a lot of courage. You should really start eating. Here are some things that may be ok for you:
Breakfast: Toast and friut
Lunch: A salad and maybe a lil something else.
Dinner: Try Pasta, or chicken, or something. Just try to get something in you every day. Not just like a grape, but you know, something for every meal. You are going to be wanting to eat more because you will be feeding for two. It may hurt teh baby a bit so please start to eat! Good luck with everything! Write me for any more questions.
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Q: ok i have been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really like him, but we havent kissed yet, should i make the first move? and he doesnt call me..what is up with that? i think he is just shy, and there is this other guy that told me he likes me and i kind of like him but i dont want to brake up with my boyrfriend for him what should i do?
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Hey! If you feel that your boyfreind maybe just isn't into you... like not calling hugging holding your hand and stuff he is probably just shy. Maybe one day when you are in the movies or somewhere together.. talk to him say.. "Is it just me or do you not want to be to intimate with eachother?" When I say intimite I don't be making out and stuff just like kissing and hugging and etc. The only way for you to see what he feels is to talk to him.. talking to him won't hurt, and like you said he may just shy. For the other guy.. if things don't improve in about a month I think you should go with the other guy.. only if you really like him by then.
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Q: my mom puts me down so much and i dont know what to do anymore...like if i do sumthin shell jus say sumthin rude about it and leave it at that...nothen i do ever is good enoguh for her..all the rude things she says to me makes me cry so much and she dont even think whut she says hurts me...i try to talk to her but she never listen...my dad is even doin it now to..i dont kno whut to do ne more..help
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omg hunn.. I'm so sorry about that. I know someone that has your problem too. You need to sit both your parents down and tell them to listen to you first and not inturupt. Then spill your guts out.. it's ok if you start crying... it will show them how mush you were hurt. If they keep saying mean things to you.. just stop talking to them. i know that's not the best.. but they will start really truly missing you and maybe pay attention to your thoughts. Please IM me if you have any more trobles or if you just need to talk.. it's xo3maris3ox. Good luck!
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Q: A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend
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You need to tell her that it's good that she likes your BF... as a friend... tell her how you feel and that you don't like it how she always flirts with him. Tell her she's going out with Lee not you BF. MAke sure you really tell her YOUR feelings.. a true freind would understand.
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Q: i really like this guy and he likes me but i don`t want a boyfriend at the moment cuz of all this drama thats been going on and im just not sure..whats huld i do?
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well.. right now you can't really do anything becasue you don't have a boyfriend. if he asks you out and you say no, he may not like you anymore. MAY NOT, not definately not, may not. So, just hold off and maybe by the time he asks you out you may want a b/f and say yes! Hope I helped! Good luck, RAte me please!
xoxo, Maris
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bio
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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 3, 2004 Answers: 395 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 25951
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