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Can you help me please
ok i have been going out with this guy for like 2 months and i really like him, but we havent kissed yet, should i make the first move? and he doesnt call me..what is up with that? i think he is just shy, and there is this other guy that told me he likes me and i kind of like him but i dont want to brake up with my boyrfriend for him what should i do?
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well give it some more time, if your guy decides that he doesn't want to stop being shy about everything than i suggest guy number 2
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I think that if you haven't kissed your boyfriend yet that it could be a good thing. Maybe he wants to take the relationship slow, when a guy wants to take a relationship slowly it is a good thing. That means most likely he likes you for you and he doesn't just wanna go out with you so that he can have sex with you. If he doesn't call you, you should try asking him to call you and if he still doesn't tell him you'd like to talk to him once in a while. If he continues to not call you I think that you should go ahead and break up with him and try the guy that like you and that you like.
Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~
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get rid of your curren boyfriend..hes obviously not pleasing you so give him the ax ..your only gonna have so much chances to be happy so take every one that comes along..thats basically all i can say life is shorter then you can imagine so you should just grab every chance that might make you happy.. xOx
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Kiss him. He probably is just shy.
-Brianna
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Call HIM. If you want to keep up a relationship with him, you need to communicate and go out on dates. That's the downfall of most relationships, not seeing each other. After you've gone one a few dates with him, think of how you really feel. Do you like him or the other boy? Because if you like the other boy then you HAVE to break up with your boyfriend. It's very mean to go out with one person when you like someone else. That's what we call "leading someone on". So after you start hanging out with him again, reanalyze how you feel about him. It may just be that you aren't seeing enough of him to know how you feel.
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Hey! If you feel that your boyfreind maybe just isn't into you... like not calling hugging holding your hand and stuff he is probably just shy. Maybe one day when you are in the movies or somewhere together.. talk to him say.. "Is it just me or do you not want to be to intimate with eachother?" When I say intimite I don't be making out and stuff just like kissing and hugging and etc. The only way for you to see what he feels is to talk to him.. talking to him won't hurt, and like you said he may just shy. For the other guy.. if things don't improve in about a month I think you should go with the other guy.. only if you really like him by then.
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The guy might be shy...so don't think he's a bad boyfriend just because he has not kissed you.
If you want some tips on how to get him to kiss you, look at my answer to another question here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Or, you can just ask him straight forward if you two can share a kiss. That will give him less shock and he can be prepared for the kiss coming.
Or, you can just kiss him yourself. Give him some signs you are about to kiss him and just go for it. The guy doesn't always have to be the first one to make a move, so keep that in mind.
Sometimes in order to get what you want, you have to go for it yourself.
If there is another guy you like, you need to make up your mind, now. You either need to break up with your boyfriend asap or forget about that other guy completely because the longer you wait the more hurtful and problematic it will be.
If you love your boyfriend, you would NOT have your eyes set for any other boy...so keep that in mind.
Don't be afraid to break it off with your boyfriend if you are sure you don't have strong feelings for him. Dating is about experience and bonding with someone and finding out what you need and want. You won't always find love at first, but it is better to have gained the experience than to not have at all. You shouldn't be confined to and stuck to one person if you don't feel strongly about them.
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well if your interested in anotehr guy already thats not a good sign..maybe you should break up with him cause if you like someone else then thats not good! you should like your b/f and only him...try making the first move if you still want to be together! sorry i didnt really help..
michelle♥
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Your boyfriend is the only one who can answer you. Ask him why he never calls you. Some people just don't like talking on the phone. If you care for the boyfriend don't even consider the other guy.
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Stick with your boyfred. you will regret it if you don't, if you are a daring person, go ahead, make the first move, do that by slightly giving him a clue hat you are going to kiss him but not in words, look him in the eye, lean forward and then go do it!!!! if not, talk to him about kissing and how he feels about it
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stoop for the kill.
-hitler
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