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im having revival at my church all this week. i forgot to ask off from work, and im the type of person that hates to inconvenience people. i got someone to work for me monday. my only two days are today and friday. today, im supost to be training a new girl(about the 5th one theyve had me train),so, their definetely gonig to be inconvenienced. plus, tomorrow,i have a family graduation party to go to. i just feel bad asking for the whole week off, and inconveniencing them. any ideas on what i can say?
Okay chica i'm not really sure what to say, but just see if you can have your cake and eat it too, or so they say. what i would try to do is work part time, go to your church, then the next day work a little, then go to the party. hope this helps! you know you luv me, leesh
im 12 and i dont shave my legs yet and its soo embarassing !! im just too scared and embarassed to ask my mom about it .. over here its been like 90 degrees and i`ve been wearing jeans! i can`t wear capris or shorts or anything because of my legs. and i just can`t talk to her it`s too embarassing. she doesn`t talk to me about this stuff so i don`t think that she`ll be bringing up the subject all of a sudden. pleaseeee help me cuz i dont wanna have hairy legs forever!!!!
~hairy 4 life~
First of all, if you have the dinero, i reccomend electolysis or waxing. i've tried both and the pain is soo worth the long lasting results. but if you're not exactly westchester type, just save up your allowance and buy a razor and shaving cream. or just ask your mom for some money and if she asks what for, just be like, for shopping. trust me, it will work chica!! you know you luv me, xoox leesh
ok so i was at abercrombie last weekend and i bought these flip flops http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_256512_-1_12171 in the navy color. so on monday i wore them to school and my feet got sweaty because there 100% rubber i guess but at the end of the school day when i went home i took them off and the bottoms of my feet were navy blue!!!!!! i tried scrubbing it of and i got most of it off but still.. everytime i wear them they turn my feet blue. i think because the the blue rubber rubbed against my feet or something and i cant return them or get a refund or w/e because #1 i dont have the tags #2 i dont have the receipt #3 I ALREADY WORE THEM!!! thankss for ur help!!
PS: i went to abercrombie again and i got another pair of flipflops in light blue and brown and when i wore them my feet werent light blue or brown!!!! so i guess it was just the navy color!! (idk why tho!!)
First of all, if it only happens for dark blue, i would just not wear them. but if they totally complete your outfit, chica, like when i wear my ah-mazing marc jacobs floral sundress, i kno what to do. you should wear them and then just exfoliate after!! my friend massie did this b4 when she got a bad spray tan and its fab fab fab!! i reccomend Trader Joe's grapefruit and chammomile sea salt exfoliator, it smells to die for!! hope this helps!! you know you luv me, xoxoxo leesh
Heyy. Discribe what you look like. And which one is you on the cover of the 3nd book? Thanks!
Hola chica!! I'm tall-ish, about five four. then big brown eyes, really long eyelashes (sometimes ah-noyyingly so) olive skin and thick brown hair. i could reccomend some products that i use if you want! i have all the imported goodies from spain!! i am the one in the middle of the book, looking straight at the camera. but if you want to see a better photo of me, look at my user photo on my page. my username is aliciarivera! hope this helps you look ah-dorable and soo not lbr-ish!! xoxo leesh
Theres this guy I really like but he only thinks of me as a friend, I don't know what to do cuz people r always like " You'd be such a cute couple" but hes like "No, we're just friends."
What should I do?
Ehmagawd i've had the same thing b4 its almost scary. honestly, what i did was try to flirt it up with him and it just made me seem desperate. sooo not good. so if this guy wants to be just friends, find someone new to like. but stay friends with the other guy, in time he might like you! xoxoxo alicia
i need to buy a new outfit ready for this coming saturday. i am going to a party/gathering and i am going shopping for the outfit tomorrow so i need replys As soon as poss.
PARTY: not a suit and tie event but not a old jeans and t-shirt type either.
MY FIGURE: 5ft8, long legs, largeish thighs, wide hips/love handles, broad shoulders, C cup boobs. im not fat.. but im not completely thin ive got a bit of fat on my stomach and hips.
if you search colleen mcloughlin on google --> images.. u will see a picture of her in a bikini, thats very similar to my figure but ive got a slightly shorter top half of body.
So my question is.. What kind of clothes should i go for to suit my figure and make me look slimmer?
I want to avoid silky and clingy material to avoid my hips and stomache buldging over so any suggestions? shoes/jeans/trousers/tops/accessories etcetera.
I RATE HIGH! thanks for any help what so ever! Anything with a bit of help is great but the mroe detailed the better! THANKS xxx
heyy i would luv to help you chica!! First of all i totally agree with skipping clingy matieral -sooo not flattering!! So i went online to my favorite store, barneys new york, and found the most ah-dorable dress! So i bought one for me (its great for chestier girls) and i think this would be perf for u. It has some gathering around the bodice and comes in either blue or cream. Here's the website: http://www.barneys.com/b/browse/product.s?productId=13071&source=category&index=1&prodIndex=1&listSize=29&categoryId=281241
Hope this helps!!
xoxoxox Alicia
Ps. do they have the clique books in England?
14/f...i'm so confused and have no idea what to do. i recently found out that my friend likes the guy that i like. but the problem is that she told some of her close friends that she likes this guy and i haven't told anyone. so if i tell people they'll think that i'm copying my friend or they'll be like she liked him first. then i used to think that this guy liked me back but now i think he might like my friend. and if he does like me and ask me out then how would i tell my friend.
oh and this girl isn't really my close friend. we used to be close but now were just friends.
Ehmagawd i had almost the same situation!! Personally what i would do is not tell anyone that you like him too until you are sure he likes you. so just flirt up a storm, he'll say he likes u, then you can be like i guess i like u too! hope this works, chica!! xoxoxo Alicia
I heart the clique!! (username-aliciarivera)
Emagawd. I'm such a fan of your books.
Where can you get non expensive CUTE clothess?
I don't have much money lolz.
THANKS.
Of course! Even tho i luv luv luv designer clothes, sometimes you gotta luurve a bargain!! First of all, if u dooo love ur designers, try ebay! but that's best for bags and other accesories, not clothes really. i would reccomend old navy (i kno, me shopping at old navy!) claire took me there once and i loved it! ehmagawd its soo cheap and soooo ahdorable! Also, Forever 21 has ah-lot of cute clothes too! And don't forget H and M! sooo cute especially with stella mcartney! and now that target has that go international thing, there is actually a cute section! They have had luella bartley (ehmagawd she made the most ah-dorable cherry purse) and now some-one new. so of course you can look cute for less! xoxoxo Alicia
Thanx so much for being a fan!! btw, chica, they have soo much cute stuff en Espana!! try gooing there!
ps please tell your amigas about my advice column, i would luv to help out more people, especially people who kno who i am!!
I want this sweat suit and it comes in blue and pink, its splatter paint w/ either unicorns or icecream cones on it. I know Jessica Simpson has them. I forgot the website that they are on. Can any one please help me what website it is!>>!!
any right answer is rated high!
thanks so much!
You ahbviously have great style, seeing how you luurve these sweats. They are by a brand called Primp, available at itsprimp.com. they just came out with a whole new line. i already have the sequined anchors!!! Soo ahdorable! xoxoxoleesh
16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive)
Ehmagawd i am the total expert at this. my top three are- GUCCI envy me!! (delicious!!) and Chance by CHANEL (sophisticated chic!) and the original MARC JACOBS perume (fun and flirty!)
you know you love me
alicia
I'm 15/f, and I have a major problem flirting. I'm really bad at it. I never know when I'm doing it too much, and coming on too strong and going to scare a guy away, but other times I'm too quiet and the guy doesn't even know I like him. How do I flirt successfully? How much can I get away with without crossing the line?
my advice is to be yourself, chica. but if the real you isnt something guys find "bonita", just follow these tips:
lean in when you talk to him
hit his arm playfully
wear sexy clothes and
wear a spritz of perfume so when you walk by he gets a whiff of your signature scent
walk slowly with your hips sayshaying
make discreet moves to be near him, like making an excuse to sit next to him
be confident!
but if worse comes to worse, act confused. they love a damsel in distress!!!
soon you will have all the chicos loving you!! ay ay!!
you know you love me, alicia xoxox
what does it mean when during an entire duration of a conversation with a guy, he's staring straight at your lips and occasionally into your eyes?
It means your wearing ahmazing lip gloss!! Like too faced 10 years of gloss in yummy, soo good with an adorable case!!! Seriously though, it means this guy wants to kiss you. he's not really paying attention to what you're saying. so i think this guy is a total LBR!! do not date him, he only wants some action. you know you love me, alicia xoxoxo
everytime i start liking a guy or think i might like him..i like stop myself. i have no idea why i do this. and everytime a guy starts to like me "or thinks im hot" i feel weird like..i dont know how to explain it. it makes me see them differently. and im always scared to do things with boys..like go to movies with them because im scared there gonna make a move and i dont know what i would do! ive never even had a boyfriend yet but i have madeout/kissed one. i just dont know what to do.
Honestly honey, lighten up. i think the reason most girls feel like this is because they're nervous. Just relax. When a guy you like asks you to the movies, prepare yourself before the date. Wear your best outfit, always have fresh breath, and wear deodorant!! Then when you're with him just be yourself. But if he does try to make a move, just tell him you're not ready. You'll be great!! you know you love me, alicia xoxoxo
hi! i'm 15 and a female. i'm plus size and i dress really nice, some guys tell me that i'm pretty but none of them seem to want to date me, why is that? how do i get atleast one of those guys to wanna date me?
well i cannot really relate to your problem, but i can help. i mean, just show them that you're interested. and wear cute clothes that show off your good features. remember to ooze with confidence, but not too much becuase you might scare the boys away. and whatever you do, dont ask him out yourself, thats total social suicide. just wait, someday your prince will come! xoxox leesh
omg hi alicia!!! you are soo gorgeous, so i think you are just the person for my question. do you think that if you have freckles you can still be pretty? please answer truthfully!!
Omg totally!! Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes!! You should flaunt whatever makes you unique!! and in the words of fashion maven Kimora Lee simmons, "If you have like 6 billion freckles, show them off honey!" x0x0x0 leesh