I'm 15/f, and I have a major problem flirting. I'm really bad at it. I never know when I'm doing it too much, and coming on too strong and going to scare a guy away, but other times I'm too quiet and the guy doesn't even know I like him. How do I flirt successfully? How much can I get away with without crossing the line?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AliciaRivera answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 5:15 pm: my advice is to be yourself, chica. but if the real you isnt something guys find "bonita", just follow these tips:
lean in when you talk to him
hit his arm playfully
wear sexy clothes and
wear a spritz of perfume so when you walk by he gets a whiff of your signature scent
walk slowly with your hips sayshaying
make discreet moves to be near him, like making an excuse to sit next to him
be confident!
but if worse comes to worse, act confused. they love a damsel in distress!!!
soon you will have all the chicos loving you!! ay ay!!
you know you love me, alicia xoxox [ AliciaRivera's advice column | Ask AliciaRivera A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Tuesday March 21 2006, 7:23 pm: Flirting is one of the best things ever! It's so much fun. All you need to do is act natural. Relax and have fun. Here are some ways:
1) Laugh at his jokes
2) PLay with an earring or necklace.
3) Smile
4) Make sure you are honest and don't be like oh yes I play tennis, when you really don't.
4) Make sure you are looking at him and not somewhere else.
5) Respond to what he is saying. Ask questions, or be like OMG I know she's such a hard teacher or w/e.
6) Lightly touch his arm or something.
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