everytime i start liking a guy or think i might like him..i like stop myself. i have no idea why i do this. and everytime a guy starts to like me "or thinks im hot" i feel weird like..i dont know how to explain it. it makes me see them differently. and im always scared to do things with boys..like go to movies with them because im scared there gonna make a move and i dont know what i would do! ive never even had a boyfriend yet but i have madeout/kissed one. i just dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kendrabdatgirl answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 4:04 pm: wow thats like my situation..when i like a guy i never tell him or anyone else i just keep to myself and i act like i dont like him when he talks to me...when a guy likes me i feel nervous and insecure because i keep thinking to my self that im not the type of girl he wants. and i think about how i'll feel if he was to break my heart. also i dont feel a boy could really like me for me because im shy and that they'll only like me for my looks..and yes me too i am scared to do things with boys, i'll think about doing things but i don't...i never had a boyfriend except 1 but we broke up because i didnt know how to kiss and i was scared to kiss him(big mistake i should of kissed him)....im a pretty girl but i just dont give guys a chance to go out with me cause im scared.............anywhooo if you can relate to that then i think that you should just forget about feeling weird when a boy likes you. let the negative feelings leave your mind. go to the movies with a boy and if he tries to make a move on you then just go with the flow. you might be a little nevous or confused in what you should do but just follow his lead..(but im not saying let him take control of you). you should give guys chances to be your boyfriend. Be your self and forget about what anyone thinks about you and naturally you wont feel awkard or nervous around a boy or boys you like...hope i helped [ kendrabdatgirl's advice column | Ask kendrabdatgirl A Question ]
AliciaRivera answered Monday April 3 2006, 9:15 pm: Honestly honey, lighten up. i think the reason most girls feel like this is because they're nervous. Just relax. When a guy you like asks you to the movies, prepare yourself before the date. Wear your best outfit, always have fresh breath, and wear deodorant!! Then when you're with him just be yourself. But if he does try to make a move, just tell him you're not ready. You'll be great!! you know you love me, alicia xoxoxo [ AliciaRivera's advice column | Ask AliciaRivera A Question ]
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