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im 9 and wants sex. (link)
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You're too young to have sex.
Don't rush in and try to mature quicker than you are.
You will regret it when you are an adult.
You have 17 years to be childish and enjoy your childish. You have around 60years after that to be an adult.
Regardless, you're too young to be using this website.
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Ok this may sound a little weird but the other day I saw the dane cook movie good luck chuck. It got me thinking and every girl that I've been intimate with has gone on to marry, or get engaged after breaking up with me. A friend of mine went through a yearbook even and looked up my prom date from senior year that we haven't seen in years it turns out she is also happily married with a young child. Ok soo is this just a strange coincidence or do I really just have the worst luck ever and pass on good luck I really don't know. (link)
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Well, your question is really whether luck exists.
By definition, luck exists. If something happens, and you think you're lucky, you're labeling the sequence of events as being 'lucky'.
But does luck exist on it own? As an entity or a force that controls us, beyond our grasp? I don't think so.
It's just all a coincidence. But you probably won't get two same answers to this question. Luck is like god: no-one knows if 'lady luck' is looking down on us. I however, doubt it.
Good luck (ironic, I know).
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I love to write scripts and create movies and do costume designs ,make soundtracks and all but what steps can I take to get into the film making business? (link)
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Hello.
I don't really want to rain on your parade, but I think I should explain what working as a director is like:
You get paid for each piece of work. So if you have no work, you have no money.
You cannot just become an actor. You usually have to work your way up (I'll explain how, below).
Don't expect to be the next Steven Spielberg or Quentin Tarantino - Very few directors make Hollywood blockbusters.
Your best option to become a director would be to somehow get your foot in the film making industry. Here are some suggestions:
Try and get a basic, remedial job at a movie/tv station. Even if it is getting peoples coffee. When higher jobs come up, apply for them. It's also a good way to make contacts.
Consider work experience at such places (i.e. working for free) because the competition for paid work will be fierce.
Show your commitment to the area of film making, by taking part in community theater, school theater, make short films for friends/family/youtube.
Act where you can: school plays, local theaters. Work behind the scenes too, even if it's curtain pulling.
For direct entry routes, you could go to drama/theater/art schools. There are many, but you will have to check on google or ask around because I don't know what part of the world you are from.
In regards to writing scrips, you should write and publish as much as you can. If you have actor friends, ask if they will act it out. Record it (even if it's just with basic equipment), and pop it on youtube.
Contume design is different. You need a high level of design skill and creative vision. You may need to go to college: and again, there are schools for this. You can also start as a wardrobe assistant on a set or at a theater, and work your way up. Either way, create a wide portfolio. Record models wearing your clothes, on a makeshift catwalk. Again, student theater, local and community theater, casual work are all options to get your foot in the door.
What I think would be a good idea is, read a book that has not been made into a movie you have seen. Then, imagine what the costume will be. Then design, and make the costume. Don't just stick to a niche: mix around with Elizabethan and Futuristic, and such.
In short: get as much experience as you can, and turn your ideas into reality.
I hope I didn't dampen your spirits: I just wanted to be realistic with you because the competition in that particular sector is very strong.
Good luck for the future! :)
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Hi!
there are some days I feel tired and fat. I am just a teen and I bet I don't have diabetes. What could it be? (link)
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Well, you (or I) are not a doctor. It may just be diabetes.
If there is so obvious reason for it (over-eating, or not getting enough sleep) it's best to see a doctor. Even if it is not diabetes, it may well be something else.
Good luck :)
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I got dumped when my Friend made a joke and said "you got Dumped bye your gf" And he said "ok then" we keep on telling him it was a joke he says I don't care. My friend is such an idiot. (link)
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I seriously do not understand this question, and I fear many others will feel the same.
Is it possible for you to re-write this question, or add additional information?
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last week i weighed in around 98 pounds and i had been pretty stable at that for awhile now, i saw my doctor last thursday and i got him to take my weight and height i weighed about 85 pounds i lost like 10 pounds in a week. iv had my bf telling me he's worried and people from work and family. I see why but its not that I'm anorexic or belemic or something I do eat. I actually eat quite a bit. Today is tuesday and weighed in around 83 this morning I'm starting to worry myself but i don't know how to gain the weight back I'm still dropping. I do have a specialist appt booked for tomorrow morning at 9am to see but i don't think he will tell me much about it. I am very acive and don't wan a give that up just to gain weight. Is there certain foods i can eat or specialized diet? I eat a lot of fast food and take n bake pizza drink a lot of water juice and pop and i just switched to homo milk instead of 2% to try and bring up my fat intake. otherwise I'm lost tho... (link)
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Hello,
Well weight loss that significant is very serious. You really should speak to a doctor about this, because it is not normal or healthy to lose that much weight in that amount of time. But like you say, you have an appointment coming up, so at least that's a plus.
I have a question: Is your weight loss visible on your body, or is just on the scales? Because sometimes, home scales are not really very accurate. Doctors' scales are far more accurate, and so the difference may be for that reason. If however, you are seeing the weight loss from your body, then it is worrying.
In regards to food, you don't really wan't to pile on masses of fat because that is unhealthy. If you want to gain weight, you want it to be lean muscle. Although fast food and pizza and such taste good, they are unhealthy. For a plate, you should have half of your plate filled with veggies, and the rest should be carbs (wholegrain pasta, rice, potatoes, wholewheat bread) and protein (chicken, turkey, eggs, beef, lamb, fish, beans, etc). Because you want to gain weight, put more emphasis on the protein which will keep you fuller for longer.
And of course you should carry on remaining active. Running, swimming, cycling are all very good ways of exercising, but also focus on weight training to help increase your muscle.
In short: see a doctor if you are suffering from drastic weight loss, as it may be something much much more serious. Eat a healthy diet to gain weight, rather than eating fast, and fat filled food. Exercise frequently, focusing on gaining muscle to increase your weight.
Good luck, and I hope I helped :)
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How long does it take for a man to find out he got an std from another man?
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There's no way for you to know if you have a sexually transmitted disease without going to your doctor and getting tested. Although with certain STDs the symptoms are so recognizable that they can be diagnosed by eye, most STD symptoms are so non-specific that it's impossible to diagnose what sexually transmitted disease is causing them, or even if they're the result of a STD at all.
This is the link where I found that info from, should you wish to read further:
http://std.about.com/od/overviewofstds/f/doihave.htm
In short: go to a doctor and get tested.
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Hello,
I'm Libby and I need some help.
So i have a friend who likes me ,but i do not like him more then a friend. He tells me he is tired of trying to get with me when he recently finds out that i have a boyfriend. He also got mad at the fact that I like him a lot more then my friend, and doesnt want anything to do with me. My question is : Can anyone give me some quotes about loosing a best friend? (link)
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Here you are Libby:
http://www.mydearvalentine.com/quotes/friendship/losing-friendship/
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Okay, so me and my friend want to make a band. Him and I are going to do guitar and vocals. We already started making guitar parts and writing lyrics. I've been playing for almost a year. I highly prefer to use notes and power chords. I don't know specific chords, and I do not like how most sound. But he knows them. He's okay with me not liking them, but other people constantly get on my case about not doing regular chords. It makes me want to learn them less. And why do people hate power chords so much? I've heard people say there's no talent in them. But c'mon, is a song good because it's "hard to play"? or because it sounds good? I know that guitar would probably be easier if I learned organised chords, but I don't want to, I have nothing to prove to them, I just want to make a good sound along with my friend and future members with other instruments. Do I really need to use regular chords if I want to be successful? We're doing like a hard-rock-punkish sound (NO SCREAMING lol) Maybe one or two, but majority will be singing like a human. But yeah, any advice? (link)
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The fact of the matter is, that you're making music because you like it, and want to do it.
If powercords are your thing: stick to it! You're not making music for people to judge you, or to prove yourself. You are making music for the value of music in itself. If however, the sound of proper cords goes better with the type of music you want to play, then there may be some logic in learning them.
But if powercords are your thing, and you enjoy the sound, then carry on my dear.
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hi im 23 and husband 27,been together for 6years.and in these years all he does is accuses me of doing things,he doesnt trust me,even though i do nothing wrong.he tells me how to dress and live my life.i really dont no what to do? (link)
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hello,
Well, you obviously need to speak to him. A relationship will NEVER work if there is no trust: people will go on being suspicious and accusing, and the strain (if not anything else) will eventually end the relationship.
If you really love him, and want to stay with him, sit him down and tell him how you feel. It may not sounds like the easiest or least awkward thing to do, but you need to do it. Explain that he needs to trust you, and it's your life, and you will decide how to dress and live. Be understanding however, because there must be a reason he feels this way.
If he cannot accept what you say, then it's probably best to take a break for a while. If yet it still doesn't work out, then a divorce may be the option. It's better to end things now, than to wait another 10 years or so.
But like I said, it's really best if you speak to him.
Good luck, and let me know how it goes! :)
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Does anyone know how to grill salmon without overcooking it? (link)
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http://localfoods.about.com/od/maindishes/r/grilledsalmon.htm
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im married with a diaper fetish need help getting it under control cant seam to want to stop wearing them (link)
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Fetishes are normal, but if you want help then you need to seek therapy. Only a professional can help you, if you want help. Here is a link to the APA website where you can locate a practice close by:
http://locator.apa.org/
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hello! am 20. how to get a flat stomach ? (link)
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Well it depends on whether you are overweight or not. If there is a lot of fat around the area, then it is best to start with cardio based exercises. This includes running, dancing, cycling, swimming, jogging, etc. I.E. anything that makes you sweat. This can help to burn the fat around the area.
You do not want to focus solely on cardio, because even if you are slim, then you will develop a layer a thin layer of fat around your muscles. You get rid of this by doing weight based exercises. Deadlifts are effective. But also try using the various machines available around a gym. If you do not have access to a gym, then simple crunches and sit ups can be effective to a point, but weight based gym equipment that focuses on the abdomen is most effective.
Also be sure to focus on diet. Half of your plate should be fruit and vegetables. A pack of game card sized amount of protein (eggs, chicken, turkey, beef, lamb, beans, etc) and the rest should be carbs like wholegrain pasta or rice, and a small amount of fat (healthy fats such as olive oil are better than butter).
In short: a good mix of weight training and cardio, along with a healthy diet is the best option. The abdomen is one of the hardest areas of the body to train, so do not give up if you don't see results easily.
Good luck :)
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Can you help me figure out how to get rid of gas pains? I don't know what I ate that gave me these awful gas pains but I need relief or I feel like I am going to burst!
Can anyone susggest a way to make this stop? (link)
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There are some things you can do to help:
Chew fennel seeds
Drink tea such as ginger, peppermint, fennel, etc. See a link below for a tea I drink for pains*
Let it out: find a private place, like a restroom, and release the gas if you can.
Try and release your bowels (go for a poo) if you can
Gently exercise your abdomen area. Simple exercises like moving your body.
Go to a pharmacy and see if they can give you some over the counter medication to help.
If it is extremely painful or it happens often, visit a doctor. It may be embarrassing, but there may be something serious wrong. It's best to check it out in advance.
* Here is a link to an online tea shop does does an "after dinner blend" which contains peppermint, licorice, fennel, etc. which all help with pains in the stomach. I think they only ship to the UK, but at least you can get a general idea - It tastes quite nice and does the job: it's where I buy mine from:
http://www.empireteaandspice.com/product_p/adb-po.htm
Good luck, and I hope I helped :)
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I have a best guy friend who I have secret feelings for. He's so pride full and likes when girls beg him. Sometimes he dropped hints and I feel as if he likes me. Most of the time though hes such a jerk. Does this sound like mind games?
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It sounds like it, but the only real way is to tell him how you feel. You must understand that your friendship may never be the same again after that however. It's a judgement you have to make.
However, if he plays mind games like this, and he likes the idea of girls begging him, then he clearly is a jerk, and is not worth being with. Find someone who doesn't have a big head, and doesn't get a kick out of making other people feel bad.
In short: If you really like him, speak to him. But it's not worth it in my honest opinion. It could ruin your friendship, and he sounds like a jerk anyway.
Good luck:)
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22 F Boyfriend 19
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 11 months now. I love him to death and he would do anything for me and loves me endlessly. But his mom is getting re-married in almost 2 weeks. This wouldn't be a problem if his mom stole $5,000 from him and lied to him about it behind his back just a few months ago. Him and his mom were close before this happened but now he won't answer her phone calls and can't even look at her face to face. My boyfriend respects and likes his soon to be step-dad. He doesn't know if he is going to be in the wedding though due to what his mom did behind his back. I told him I didn't think he should go and then he has his family who knows it's not right what his mom did but still thinks he should be in the wedding for the respect of his family and his soon to be step-dad. They are making him feel guilty beyond belief.
I told him I wouldn't be happy if he went and that I couldn't necessarily support it either. I know he's in a tough place. He's cried to me just talking about it because he has such a tough decision to make. I feel terrible now and am going to tell him that I will support him in whatever he decides to do. He told me that he knows I won't go to the wedding but he wishes I would to be there for him because if he did go it'd be a really hard day for him; having to see his mom and all. I'm now debating on whether or not to go just to support him and be there for him.
I wouldn't know anyone at this wedding. Only his mom (which I can barely even look at) his aunt and uncle and his grandparents. I'd have to go on the party bus with the wedding party since my boyfriend would be going, and I would basically be by myself half the time (well his uncle said I could be with him). But i still think it'd be awkward, not to mention i'm a shy/quiet girl to begin with. I'm starting to be torn. Do I go and suffer this awkward night just to support my boyfriend even though I would be stuck alone half the time? (link)
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Hello.
I think you should go. I don't really agree with what you said you did earlier regarding telling him that you don't want him to go, because you should allow him to make the decision and then support him in whatever he decides. But like you said, you will say that, which is good.
I think you should definitely go because your boyfriend wants you to go. You will be there to support him, not to make friends or whatever. You just need to be civil. If he decides to talk to his mother, then you should do the same. No one is asking you to be bosom buddies, but say 'hello' and 'how are you' and just be civil.
Like you acknowledge, you are there to support your boyfriend. He is obviously finding this situation hard, and your job is to make it a little bit more endurable by being there for him, even if you will be alone. But you don't have to be: you don't know half the people, so this is a great way to get to know some people. Not everyone would have stabbed your boyfriend in the back, and so taking to people you don't know and getting to know them will help you pass the time and also to get to know the family.
There is not really much else I can say.
Good luck :)
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whatever reason for rectal bleeding coming & whatever treatment in rectal bleeding? (link)
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We don't know. See a doctor.
It could be something simple like a torn muscle, or it could be cancer. Only a doctor knows. We are not doctors.
It's best to get it checked out as soon as possible to rule anything out.
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I feel like I am losing my memory as I am getting older, but I am still WAY to young to be having this kind of problem. Can any of you please give me tips or advice on preventing and reversing memory loss? Thank you! (link)
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Hello.
Well, the thing with memory loss, is that it isn't really normal. Just because you get older, it doesn't mean that you should start losing your memory. Because of this, if you are worried, you should really see a doctor. But in the mean time, there are a few simple things you can do to help:
EXERCISE helps to stimulate your mind and your body.
STIMULATE YOUR BRAIN by learning something. Read books, do puzzles, play an instrument etc, to sharpen your mind
STOPPING SMOKING may help because there is some evidence that suggests smokers are less able to remember peoples faces and names.
EATING HEALTHILY can of course help, to ensure your body is in top form, and to ensure you are getting all the right vitamins and nutrients. This is of course what we hear all the time: plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables.
SLEEP WELL to again, ensure your brain is focused properly. Get 8 hours, and have a routine.
TAKING VITAMINS may help. Some studies show that taking vitamins E and C helps to prevent memory loss. The study is not conclusive, but there is no real harm in taking vitamins in recommended doses.
These are all everyday things you can do to slow down memory loss, but like I say, you should visit your doctor as there may be something serious behind the problem.
Good luck :)
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My girlfriend is a virgin and when fingering her i noticed she bled on me, i thought it only does this once but it continued to do it. What is this and how long does it go on for? (link)
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The first time is normal. It is the hymen breaking.
If it is really bad, it may be something serious. You may have torn some some of muscle, and this can cause serious problems.
Best advice: tell her to see a doctor. It may be nothing, but it may just be serious.
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hi, we have been dating for almost 3 years now and we live together. we love each other and we're saving up but he's a single father and his ex seems to be very manipulative because they have a kid together therefore he lives quite close to his kid. sometimes she asks for a money quite early before his actual pay day and we always have to take money out from our savings for his ex which i don't like coz it has happened couple of times. it's always something. i told him next time she has to wait until he gets paid, that's where he said if i keep talking like that about his ex then that would split us up, now guys, what does he actually mean? does he still loves his ex or what is it? does he still care about her? i'm a possessive person but i care about the kid as well. he says hates his ex. he's only staying this close coz of his kid. she's so unreliable as she persuaded him that he can't go or move anywhere far as he has a kid which i find very selfish of her just because they have a kid together. it's terribly hard. thanks u all. (link)
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I can really only think of one reason: He obviously cares about his child, and that's the reason he is so touchy about it. He isn't just giving money to his ex, he is giving her money to look after the child that he made. The child cannot wait for payday to eat: the child needs 3 meals a day and cannot wait.
So when you're criticizing him, you are not able to understand what he is doing, and why so. So you need to really understand that his number one priority is to look after his child: not you. If you cannot understand this, then there may be a problem.
If you feel really bad about this, you should speak to him, and explain that instead of threatening to end the relationship, he should speak to you rationally about it.
Good luck.
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