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Good luck chuck Ok this may sound a little weird but the other day I saw the dane cook movie good luck chuck. It got me thinking and every girl that I've been intimate with has gone on to marry, or get engaged after breaking up with me. A friend of mine went through a yearbook even and looked up my prom date from senior year that we haven't seen in years it turns out she is also happily married with a young child. Ok soo is this just a strange coincidence or do I really just have the worst luck ever and pass on good luck I really don't know.
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Part of the weirdness of the situation depends on the timing. Is this immediately after you, or are you looking from a few years back?
Depending on your age, it's not so uncommon to look back and see that a bunch of exes have moved on to get married and even have kids. It's not necessarily so much you sending them into commitment as it is that time of peoples' lives, where they're looking to settle down with someone.
Finding the right person isn't just about luck. It's about working hard to make your life mesh with that other person once you find them, about compromising and accepting things about them that you may not like. Eventually, you will find someone worth working for. Until then, just keep searching :) ]
Well, your question is really whether luck exists.
By definition, luck exists. If something happens, and you think you're lucky, you're labeling the sequence of events as being 'lucky'.
But does luck exist on it own? As an entity or a force that controls us, beyond our grasp? I don't think so.
It's just all a coincidence. But you probably won't get two same answers to this question. Luck is like god: no-one knows if 'lady luck' is looking down on us. I however, doubt it.
Good luck (ironic, I know). ]
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