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Girl Relationship Watch porn Educate self is this cheating?
Is is cheating if you watch porn only because you want to educate yourself (not trying to cheat)& when u watched it you were thinking if that was me giving my bf what he needs & wants for example how to give a blo job? I'm in my late teens and don't have a clue. I've read articles with mixed reviews which left me quite confused is it cheating or not?? Also if i wanted to cheat i would have gone out and psychically cheated.
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In my opinion, it's not cheating. But I also hate porn and everything about it.
If your boyfriend is accusing you of cheating, then maybe it's just how he sees it. If he's uncomfortable with the idea of it, then you shouldn't watch it.
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Watching porn is not cheating, Cheating is when you have physical relations with another person other then your partner. (In my eyes that's cheating) However, Everyone views things differently and has different opinions on the definition.
Viewing porn is actually quite normal. You'd be surprised at how many people view porn for educational purposes or even just for satisfaction. I don't think it's wrong at all
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For most people, watching porn isn't considered cheating. It's something that you need to define in your own relationship. However, one way to look at it is: would you be upset if your boyfriend were watching porn? If so, then it may not be cheating, but it IS hypocritical.
One important thing to bear in mind about watching porn for information about sex is that porn isn't really sex - it's a performance. It's about sex in the same way that Indiana Jones is about archaeology. It's idealized, choreographed, and in a word: fake. That doesn't mean that you can't get ANY useful information out of it, it just means that you should take whatever you get with a grain of salt.
Like lots of other things, sexual preferences are a matter of individual taste, and mutual communication is the best way to figure out what your boyfriend likes.
One piece of practical advice: Do not use your teeth unless you have a signed document from him saying that he likes it.
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