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ok im asking you because youre a mom and give good advice.
my mom blames me for doing things that i didnt do.
i am a very honest person,and if i do something wrong,will deal with the consequences.i have 6 brothers and 2 sisters,and my brothers are almost ALWAYS the ones to do the wrong deed and i get blamed.
[i no they do it because i see them but i dont tell my mom cuz im close to them and dont wanna turn the, in]
so my question--what can i do to get her to believe me?
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Try having a talk with her about whats going on during a time when she isn't mad. Before the boys do
something you'll get blamed for again.
You really should rat them out though because while you may be close, they are letting you get in trouble for what they do. They are taking advantage of your good nature!
If you talk to her before something like that happens again, she might watch a little more closely
next time before just assuming you're to blame. :)
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I want to be remove from this site. what do i have to do? (link)
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Contact Dangernerd at dangernerd@gmail.com
He is the only one who can remove your personal info. :)
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what is vanity?? i was going to join this club called vanity kills coz it sounded cool but whats it mean and is it a good thing to like or join? (link)
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Excessive pride in one's appearance or accomplishments; conceited.
It is basically a group of probably really snotty
girls who think they are better than anyone else.
If that doesn't fit your description (and I really hope it doesn't!) then you probably wouldn't be comfortable being in this group. :)
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i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you! (link)
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We like to hope that everyone feels the same. Sadly we never know if we actually help people when all is said and done, but we hope, and keep trying. :)
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i have a ukulele, but no tab. i'm lookin' for a good website for tab\e-books on ukulele.
know of any?
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Heres some. Just punch in ukulele tabs for more, there are lots! :)
http://dominator.ukeland.com/index2.shtml
This site is full of uke tab links.
http://nwfolk.com/uketabs.html
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Has the show Friday Night Lights on NBC been canceled? (link)
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According to its website it returns in 2 weeks.
March 14th. 8pm/7 central time.
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20/f. I have become a part of my fiance's pseudo family and I'm having a bit of trouble deciding what I should call his parents. I'm not sure how old they are, but I would guess that they're in their late 50's to early 60's. I stay with my fiance at their house for a few months during the summer and during vacations from school. I've resorted to not calling them by name at all and even though this is possible, it sometimes gets very awkward. Since I'm part of the family, Mr. and Mrs. "Lastname" seems way too formal, but calling them by their first names takes away the respect that I feel I must give them, especially for taking me in after my parents ditched me and for being significantly older and old-fashioned than what I'm used to from my parents. They're like grandparents to me. Calling them Mom and Dad just doesn't seem right until I am actually married to their son. When talking about them with other people I just say my fiance's Mom and Dad. Should I just continue not calling them by name? What do you think I should call them? Thanks. (link)
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I would go ahead and address them as Mr or Mrs "lastname". They will let you know then what they prefer to be called if not that.
OR, you can just straight out tell them how you feel and ask how they would like you to address them. :)
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i got goldfish at a carnival and i want them to stay alive. what should i do to help them be alive and happy without spending a lotta money? how can i tell if one is a girl or boy? (one is orange and one is greyish). if one is a girl and one is a boy, if i get tank plants will they have a bigger chance of having babies?
any other extra info would help
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This is a good site. Should have all the information you'll need. :)
http://www.kokosgoldfish.com/care.html
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i'm having a quiz on adverbs tomorrow
and i suck at them! i can't tell the
difference between an adverb and other
parts of speech. i can do the ones that
end in "ly" but if it doesn't end in
"ly' than i'm screwed.
how can i tell if it's an adverb? does it answer the question when or who? (link)
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Here is what I got from wiki and its what I used in school. Just ask yourself these questions about a sentence and you have your adverb weather it ends in ly or not. :)
An adverb is a word used to tell more about a verb, and it almost always answers the questions how?, when?, where?, how often?, and in what way?. Words like slowly, loudly, carefully, quickly, or sadly are all adverbs. Adverbs usually, but not always, end in -ly.
Examples of adverbs in a sentence (with the adverb in italics):
* How did the man walk? The man walked slowly.
* How did the dogs bark? The dogs barked loudly.
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why do people always take they're ratings so seriously? one person answered my question wrong but i still gave them a 3 and they got mad and edited there answer with "its sooo annoying when just because you dont answer someones question SPECIFICALLY they give you 2's and 3's" do you guys think this is right? (link)
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If someone sends feedback or an edit like that ignore it. If they are rude file an abuse report.
I don't know why they are so eager to have a 5 rating. All that tells us is that they either suck up and don't give truthful answers, or they answer the simple questions that require little thought.
They are lucky they got a 3 and not a 2. :)
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14/f about 5'2
Ok so earlier in this yr I was about 92-94pounds, then around Dec I was 94-97. Now Im like 100-103. Was it just the winter months (we all gain a few pounds) or what? i really want to get back down into the mid 90s. Im starting to (ok today I started and will continue) eat better and excersise and only eating 'junk' food on the weekends.
I mean you dont notice it but my stomach is "puffy", theres no fat on my pelvic bone but my lower back is "puffier" too. (I guess im gettihng love-handles)
Is speed walking a good thing to do? I heard crunches/situps can make it puff out more. And about how long if you really commit to excersising to 3-4 days a week? (link)
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I would guess you aren't seeing yourself as others do. Normal weight for a girl 5'3" is 120. I know you are a little shorter but not by much. If anything you are underweight.
Exercise is very good for everybody and getting toned would help you. Concentrate on doing that instead of losing weight.
MikeCFT is a fitness trainer and I am sure he would give you some tips about lifting some weights or something to help you tone up and build a little muscle. Drop him a note about it. :)
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I've been contemplating becoming a Catholic missionary priest for quite some time. I'm scared to tell my friends and family that this is what I'm going to do. I'll be leaving a lot behind, but I feel called... (link)
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I'm curious what part you think they will object to?
Being a priest or being a missionary priest?
Regardless, you do what your heart tells you to do.
You're the one that will be living the life, not your family or friends. They will get used to it.
Have you talked to your priest about it? He may have some helpful advice on how to tell your family and friends so they will understand. He has been there himself.
If he has never done missionary work perhaps he can find some information for you to discuss with your family, or maybe he knows someone who can help you with that part.
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I had sex today while wearing a tampon.
I don't know where my tampon went.
I dont know if it came out or not.
I'm scared.
Does anyone know what will happen if it is in me and what I should do and if it was a good idea to have sex with a tampon in. (link)
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You do need to go to the doctor if you haven't already, or the ER. You have to have it removed because if you don't you run the risk of TSS or
a pelvic infection of some kind.
Chances of your being able to remove it yourself are
not good at all. Tampons can become lodged behind the cervix, it happens all the time and nothing to
feel embarrassed about. But they have to be removed by a doctor.
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are there any subsitutes for nail polish remover? i don't have any and i need to take off my nail polish.. i need answers quick!! (link)
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What I used to do is repaint and wipe it off one finger at a time. I have no idea if that works on polish anymore but its worth a try. You could also try alcohol. :)
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Alright, here's the deal. My best guy friend has recently sort of been brushing his hands up against mine and stuff, I don't know if it's accidental or on purpose, but it's been happening alot. I like him alot, nobody knows it. I want to hold his hand so bad, but i'm afraid that if I do i'll look like an idiot....like if what he has been doing is accidental, ya know. What should i dooooooo? It's killing me! Whenever he does it I get all nervous and giddy! (link)
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Its not accidental. Hes just testing your reaction.
Next time go ahead and take his hand. I don't think you will be disappointed. :)
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is it possible to have sex then get your period and after your period you become pregnant with out having sexual intercourse due to the previous sexual act? (link)
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I can't believe nobody "got" your question. :)
No, it isn't possible for you to get pregnant from a past encounter once you have had your period. Consider your period to be a cleansing of all things
that would make you pregnant.
Should you have sex again use protection. I know you know this already but I feel compelled to mention it. Not using it is just not worth the risk...or the worry waiting for your period. :)
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Okay on Friday I had about 5 friends over, and well we drank a little. And everyone passed out except me and this guy. And he was kinda all over me, trying to kiss me and stuff. And I passed out and when I woke up we were cuddling I guess you could say. But now I feel totally violated. I mean, nothing happened between us that was "bad", if you will..'Cause I'm pritty sure I would remember. But I don't understand why I feel this way? 'Cause it was only cuddling right? Why do I feel like this? Is it normal? Is there something wrong with me? Help. =( (link)
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What you're feeling is normal. When you drink to the point of passing out you really don't remember what you might have did or said. Its a creepy feeling. It will also pass. :)
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Joan and Betsy are coworkers, but not in the same office and they saw each other a total of three times spread out over in a year. Joan is 5 feet 6 inches and Betsey is 5 feet 1 inch. Any way they were talking and Betsey said "I cannot get clothes in Blondies because they come in people size like you". Joan (who is thin) changed the topic. They spoke about other things. And then Joan said: Betsey you are always saying you are short, how tall are you" Betsey said "5 feet one inch, I have to shop in the little people department." Joan told her friends the story and they said "All Betsey is saying is you are tall and she is short so she cannot buy clothes for tall people. MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK ALL BETSEY IS SAYING IS THAT SHE IS SHORT AND CANNOT SHOP IN TO MANY PLACES BECAUSE THEY ARE FOR TALL PEOPLE AND THAT IS ALL SHE IS SAYING?
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Yes I think that is all she is saying.
I have an ex daughter in law who is 4'3". It is very hard for her to find "adult clothes". She has to shop in children's departments. They don't always have the same fashions one would expect an adult to wear. It is really frustrating for an adult.
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hiii,
i have a big problem with my mom. my parents divorsed when i was about 5 years old. my dad remarried and has kids. i have never been close to my dad so it doesnt really matter to me. he hurt me a lot so i am not close to him. My mom has a bf and its really hard for me to be okay wit this. i really want my mom to be happy but i think this guy is just going to come in my life and try to boss me around and be like my dad. i have never had a dad i dunno how it feels but all i know i dont want him here. can you guys pliz help me i dont know what to do about this? thankz (link)
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Of course its going to be hard to deal with mom having a boyfriend. Thats natural. So is being a little jealous of the guy.
I can't believe some of the answers you have gotten.
You treat this man, who cares about your mom, as you would anyone else. He didn't make your dad leave and he probably won't come in and start bossing you around. Unless he is doing that now, he probably won't.
What you are afraid of is change. You don't want to share mom with some guy. One day though you will be out on your own. Your mom has to have a life of her own now.
This guy shouldn't be considered a dad replacement. I'm sure he doesn't want to be that either. Mom likes him. He may make a good friend at least. Give the guy a chance. :)
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my dad and mum seperated before i was born, and when i was 11 they finally divorced.My dad abused my mum and my mother put a restraining order on him so i wasnt allowed to meet him.I have to wait till im 18 to meet him wich really sucks!I know what he looks like cause i saw the wedding pix.I really want to meet him but i dont want to wait!Im thinking of leaving to meet him when im 16 and have my licence should i or not? (link)
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You need to talk to your mom about this. If he was abusive to her he could be towards you too.
Think about it. Has he tried to contact you? Has he gone to court to get visitation? If he isn't considered a danger to you then he would have every right to see YOU regardless of how your mom feels. Has he sought help for this problem?
Do not just go off and meet him without talking to your mom. I understand your curiosity about him and its awful you have to pay for the mistakes he made.
Someone in authority with more information on the situation than you have has decided its in your best interests not to see him. Don't do something you might regret.
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