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This is all totally honest. We're both 17. I'm a girl.
Okay on Friday I had about 5 friends over, and well we drank a little. And everyone passed out except me and this guy. And he was kinda all over me, trying to kiss me and stuff. And I passed out and when I woke up we were cuddling I guess you could say. But now I feel totally violated. I mean, nothing happened between us that was "bad", if you will..'Cause I'm pritty sure I would remember. But I don't understand why I feel this way? 'Cause it was only cuddling right? Why do I feel like this? Is it normal? Is there something wrong with me? Help. =(
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What you're feeling is normal. When you drink to the point of passing out you really don't remember what you might have did or said. Its a creepy feeling. It will also pass. :)
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Nothing is wrong with you. He took advantage of the situation. I am glad he didn't do anything more. You should not be drinking at your age but if you must he shouldn't be your drinking buddy.
Men have forced themselves on women before while the woman was under the influence.
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How much did you drink? You might just not remember the entire thing because of the effects of alcohol on your body. Maybe you feel violated because you don't know what happened previous to your waking up and finding yourself cuddling some guy...It's normal, nothings wrong with you.
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You THINK you would remember it, but you may not. My 6th grade teacher was at a party once a long time ago and she was so drunk she was passed out unconscience & vomitting. She said she doesn't remember A SINGLE THING! before then. It's pretty sad.
Only cuddling? Not necessarily. But I wasn't there so I can't tell you that. You could've been having sex as far as any of us know including yourself. It may not be the most likely possibility of them all, but consider it anyway.
You feel this way because you're practically giving yourself ulcers so don't get so worked up about it. Yeah... it's a pretty big deal and you need to get to the bottom of it but a health crisis isn't what you need at a time like this. You feel this way because you were drunk and confused, and you feel violated. I'd be worried if you didn't.
Yes these feelings are normal
And no there is nothing at all wrong with you. Just cut back on the drinking and maybe avoid that group of friends you were at the party with, sounds like a dangerous bunch. Bad influences, I mean... I'm sure they're great people and it's not fair for me to judge them by what you've said because I don't know any of them but maybe re-think the friendships there.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
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