I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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ok so all i want to know is do you HAVE to be 18 to drop out? I dont want anyone sayin that im making a mistake because i've heard it all before and i dont care its my life and i will live it how i want and if i am making a mistake thats fine i will have to live with it so dont tell me what a huge mistake i am making. (link)
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It's really up to the area in which you live and personal preference.
I left school when I was 17 and I can honestly say it was the best decision for me. I may not have finished my exams or gone to university but I have a life that I am lucky to have and would never otherwise would have had.
I left school because I was suffering quite badly with depression and I had been through a tough ordeal at my school which meant I wasn't in the right frame of mind to continue my education at that point. Knowing I could return to education at any time made me feel better.
However, I would stress that if you do drop out, you could find you miss out on a lot of opportunities and you could be left with a lot of regrets. Although it is possible to return to education later in life if you want to, it's a LOT harder the second time round.
What you need to do is sit down and think hard about what exactly it is you want and how you can achieve that. If you really don't think education is the best way forward in your life right now and you're sure you can make a go of it if you drop out, then do it. You just need to accept that it won't be easy.
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Okay well about a week or so ago I had sex. well the guy didnt use a condom which I know is bad but he did pull it out before spermen. n when he did that some had got on the inner lining of my underwear by my croch area. I manage to whip alot of it off but am I still at risk.
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I'm afraid you are, yes.
When a man is aroused, he still secretes sperm, whether he actually reaches climax or not. This means that although he didn't orgasm inside you, sperm can and most likely did get inside you. No matter how small the amount, it is enough for you to conceive.
Whenever you have sex, unless you are specifically trying to get pregnant you should always use protection. Other than the risk of pregnancy, you are at risk of Sexually Transmitted Infections such as Chlamydia, which you would not experience immediate symptoms of but can cause infertility in women. You could also catch Sexually Transmitted Diseases such as HIV so you can really never be too careful.
For extra security when having sex, ensure that you are on the Pill and use condoms. The condoms will protect against STI's and STD's effectively but the Pill is the most effective form of contraception, as it is around 99.9% effective if you take it correctly. This method is what they call going 'Double Dutch' in Holland and ensures you are as protected as you can be.
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I know this is kinda gross but... i kind of fart... a lot! I have gotten a nickname...Frootlootsfartsalot. they call me FLFA for short. :(. To make matters worse everybody knows i am the farter!My mom says only men can fart but i cant help it! it feels good! I NEED UR HELP!!!!!
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I'm not sure where your Mum got that idea but everybody breaks wind. It's a natural way for the body to expel excess gas from inside the digestive system. However, I will grant her that men tend to be less discreet about it than women.
I really wouldn't worry too much about it because breaking wind is normal. However, if you are finding you do it more than most then you might find speaking to your doctor about it will help. I know how embarrassing it is believe me. I have had to do it myself and was later diagnosed with Irritable Bowel Syndrome (I had other symptoms beyond a gassy stomach however). Alternatively, if you have a look around your local chemist, you might be able to track down some medication to dispell wind. I know of a product called Wind-eze which is available here in the UK but I'm not sure if you have them in America.
It's always worth looking into these things so if you have any other symptoms that are digestive system related (diarrhoea, bloating or constipation for example) then do try to see your doctor about it. It will be worth braving it if they can find a way to help.
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sims 2 fans out there
hey guys i was wondering what expansion pack i should get uni or nightlife for the sims 2. i was thinking of getting uni because it comes with the antique camera and makeup station and thats mainly the reason why i want to get it but i heard NL is better but i dont no which one to choose (anad unfortuantly i cant have both) so which one and please tell me why
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Personally, I prefer Nightlife because although University is really good, unless you have some teens that are already through school, you have to get a couple together, have a kid and raise it through all the stages before you can get to uni!!!!
It is a good game, don't get me wrong but Nightlife you can start playing straightaway and it has more possibilities than University so I find it more interesting.
That being said, I really want to get Open For Business, which is also said to be very good.
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my boyfriend is a cousin ov mine.we have been together for one year and are mad about each other.just lately we have been arguing alot and he has started to get paranoid about us been seen together. im really scared of losing him. does he love me or not?
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Jesus, I really hate the ignorant thinking of those below who have said that it's wrong or disgusting to date a cousin!! And that your children would be mentally challenged!?!?! That really is a complete fallicy!!!!
My Grandparents are cousins and they have been together for over 50 years. They have a wonderful, happy marriage and nobody has ever been prejudiced towards them or discriminated against them because they are cousins. For one thing, cousins are not related enough for it to be considered incest. I do understand there are some placed in America where it is illegal for cousins to marry but overall, it's legal and there is nothing at all wrong with it.
I would also like to stress that neither my Mother, my sister nor myself suffer from any sort of mental illness (still reeling that someone would ever suggest that!!!!!) and in every sense of the word, we are a normal family with the same bodies, minds and behaviourisms as everyone else in the world!
Your boyfriend should completely ignore what everyone else thinks. What matters is how you feel about each other because there are only two people in your relationship. You can't help who you fall in love with and although I can't say if you will be together forever, you shouldn't let the ignorant beliefs of thoughtless people affect what you do with your lives. Nobody should.
Have a talk with him about this and explain that there are PLENTY of cousins who have relationships and go on to live very long, very happy and very fulfillled lives together. He needs to overcome his fears of other people's reactions before you can continue the relationship because at the end of the day, if you aren't both comfortable in it then it isn't much of a relationship at all.
I wish you both the very best of luck and I hope you can stay strong in spite of everything.
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okay I'm 14 and I have alot of stretch marks on my thighs and they are starting to get lighter as I age and everything but I'm still really worried that maybe if a guy sees them he will find it a huge turn off and then I dont know what. :[ I'm not really fat or skinny but I've had these marks since I was 12 and I'm really worried that a guy will think less of me physicaly because of them....would a guy be? My mom had alot of stretch marks when my dad met her and he had no problem but I'm still worried. Please help! (link)
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There are a *lot* of women out there who have stretchmarks and almost every one of them is worried that men will turned off by them as a result.
In actual truth, surveys have been completed which show that things like stretchmarks aren't even noticed by the majority of men! Half of the world's married couples consist of husbands that don't even realise their wives have stretchmarks!
Unfortunately, stretchmarks are a natural part of growing up. It sucks but it's true. We are all destined to get them on our legs, bums and boobs and there's very little we can do to help it. However, if you are very concerned, medical research shows that the use of cocoa butter helps to reduce the visibility of stretchmarks so if they are noticeable, please bear in mind first of all that time will allow them to fade from being a reddish purple to being white and that cocoa butter may help just to reduce the discolouration. It will not get rid of them completely.
Please don't worry. If you find a man worth showing your body to in the first place, I can promise you he really won't care about any stretchmarks, scars or blemishes that are on it.
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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet? (link)
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Oh yes, it's absoloutely normal.
You know, I'm 21 now and I didn't have my first kiss (of any kind) until I was 17 and it was my best friend, turned boyfriend, who I am now living with.
I used to feel EXACTLY the same way as you do now. I'd see all my friends going out with all these guys and kissing them all the time and feel so left out and miserable. I always thought there must be something wrong with me! Then, I went to a school disco and danced with a guy who first tried to grope me and then tried to kiss me. I didn't know his name, his age or anything and that was when I realised...
What was I jealous of?? My friends were getting guys and kissing them, sure. But why would I want to waste my first kiss on some guy I'd never met and would never see again just because all of my friends were? I wanted my first kiss to be something I would always remember and feel happy about, unlike my friends, most of whom said their first kisses were awful!!
I know you feel like you're being left on the shelf but you only get one first kiss. Don't let your friends make you feel you have to waste it on some random guy, instead of someone you truly care about and WANT to kiss. Be strong and stand up againt peer pressure. It's a waste of time to go along with things just because your friends are and believe you me, that is not the way to find your happiness.
You'll know when the right guy comes along, don't worry.
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Does Witch Hazel really help acne/pimples? I have a bottle of it but I don't know if I should waste my time. Has anybody tried it, and did it work? (link)
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There are skin products that contain witch hazel and they are actually recommended quite highly.
Basically it is an astringent which helps to cleanse blocked pores and remove the build up of sebum that can lead to spots.
However, although the products are good, I wouldn't use witch hazel neat on your skin, as it might be too harsh. The lotions, creams and cleansers you can buy that contain it also contain ingredients that make it suitable for it to be used in delicate places like your face.
Another good product by the way is Tea Tree oil. A lot of products contain this and you can buy 'spot sticks', which also work a treat.
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Hello,
We bought a used 1998 Seinna minivan from Toyota with their Gold Extra Care warranty. A spark plug blew in the engine which rendered the engine useless. They estimate the damage to be over $6000 dollars. Toyota Extra Care say they will not honor the warranty because it does not cover spark plugs. We have talked to Extra Care Toyota Relations and the dealership who sold us the car. They to refuse to do anything for us. What recourse do we have? Is there anyone we could talk to in Toyota that can help us?
Thank you for your time,
Mark stinga
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I work for a motor insurer in England (used to be Motor Claims, now Motor Complaints), so I'm hoping I can offer you some advice, having some across similar situations in the past.
Unfortunately, because your vehicle is second hand and eight years old, they are actually free of obligation to cover this item.
Spark plugs aren't designed to last for such a significant period of time and should, in theory, be changed upon services to your vehicle. If this has not been completed during the time the vehicle has been in ownership, either yours or the previous owner's, Toyota can happily turn round and refuse to cover it on a wear and tear basis. As a rule of thumb, almost nobody in the motor industry will cover damage that is caused as a result of general wear and tear.
However, if the spark plug has been replaced, again they are not under obligation to cover the item as it is not manufacturer fitted and in most cases, companies such as Toyota will not cover items that were not fitted originally by the manufacturer. This means that had your vehicle been involved in an accident and a part was replaced by another garage, the warranty would be invalid.
I know that it's not pleasent and I really do sympathise with you. I have dealt with many problems such as this in the past and it's always tough. Sadly, though, they have managed to wriggle successfully out of this one.
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I am going to the doctor Monday, but reading online I think i have anemia
I loose my breath
I am pale
I have a hard time breathing
I have loss of appitite
And I crave unusual things like paper, and grass
So.
Can someone please help me. Like when I go to the doctor, and he thinks i might have it. What should i expect
I hate needles. I hate them and im scared that they will need to do blood tests
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I have had severe anaemia myself (apparently I narrowly escaped a blood transfusion) but I had to admit, your symptoms aren't typical of anaemia, the main symptoms of which are extreme tiredness which does not disappear regardless of sleep, dizziness and headaches. When I was at my worst with it, it got to the point where I would stand up, walk a few metres and my legs would give way from under me, which was horribley inconvenient at work!!
The normal procedure with anaemia is to perform a blood test first of all to confirm it. They will normally take a tube or two but if you haven't had a recent set of tests, or if they feel your symptoms relate to something else, they may take more.
Following confirmation of low iron stores in your blood, they will put you on a course of iron suppletments, which you will need to take one of a day (in severe cases two a day) and at the same time, they will need to determine the cause of the deficiency. This will depend upon the other symptoms. In my case, the anaemia was related to a digestive illness called Coeliac Disease, which can cause malabsorbtion. However, anaemia can be caused by any number of different illnesses so this is always best left to the doctor.
There really isn't any need to worry. Although the loss of appetite and cravings are not typical of anaemia, should they diagnose you with this, treatment is really very simple and I can assure you that the blood test really doesn't hurt. If you are scared of needles, you can ask them to take the blood from the upper arm, rather than the crook of the arm, as this always hurts me less.
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Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.
Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.
But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
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Oh, I feel so bad for you. Not only are your parents considering a separation but they are actually having the nerve to blame you for it!!
Let me tell you something, if they can honestly blame that little incident for their separation, there were quite clearly huge rifts between them in the first place.
I know you're upset right now and worried that this is all somehow your fault. It isn't and I really hope that you will understand that in the long run. Let's face it, if you are madly in love with someone, finding out that they got in a fight with your child in which they (hopefully) accidentally hit a bit too hard wouldn't be enough to split the whole relationship in half.
I really think you need to speak to your parents about this. I would suggest whichever parent you get on with best but bearing in mind it was your Mother who first basically told you it was because of you, I would recommend speaking to her first and just ask her if it really was your fault. Wait until things have calmed down a little before you ask because in the heat of the moment, people can say things they don't mean.
Whatever happens, please don't let them make you feel guilty over this. You might have upset your Mother by letting her know your Father had hit you too hard but that alone would NEVER be the only reason for a happily married couple to separate.
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Alrighty i like to straighten my hair and i was wondering if anybody knows of any kind of Straighten balm or stuff you put in youre hair before you blow dry it that will make it soft and straighten it?
And does anyone know of a good conditioner? I need one my hair isnt dead but its a little dry i guess you can say. Any ideas?
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Generally, I find that Sunsilk No Kinks (the purple one) works really well, especially when you dry it straight after applying it. It keeps your hair nice and soft and unlike a lot of serums, it doesn't make your hair greasy, sticky or crunchy afterwards.
As for conditioners, the best one I can recommend is Aussie Three Minute Miracle. It's incredible and I can honestly say my hair has never looked or felt better than since I started using it. My one piece of advice is that if your hair is very dry, leave it on a little longer than the stated three minutes. I find 5-8 minutes works best. Also, wash your hair with a jet of cold water after you've washed it. I couldn't tell you why but it really helps to improve manageability and shine.
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I recently upgraded to MSN live Messenger, it was working fine for a couple of days and then it woudlnt sign me in at all.. Only on one account though, which is the account i use all the time.
I made a new addy and it worked fine signing in.
When i sign into my old one it says:..
the whole troubleshoot thing and then..
Error Code: 80004005
Okay so i have been troubleshooting and repairing for like 2 hours non-stop and still no luck, i clicked help and tried to find the error code and the reasons it has done this but the code is nowhere..
Does anybody know how i can solve this and get my account back because if i dont sort it i have lost almost 500 contacts. my friend signed into my acc on her comp and saved and sent me my contacts but many of them dont accept multiple account addys so i dont know what to do!
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I hope this helps because it is really the only thing I can think of and nobody else has replied...
When I tried to download it, I was having a read through some of the information and although it doesn't say *anywhere* on most of the information, there is a tiny area on one page where it says it will not work unless you have Windows XP. By this point, it had downloaded around 30% so I had to cancel it.
I am wondering if perhaps this is why it is not working on your PC? It's the only reason I can think of...
Unfortunately, as for solving it, you could try uninstalling MSN Live Messenger but as I believe it is an expansion on the original MSN package, I don't know that this would work. If it is just an expansion, unfortunately (and I hate to tell you this) there really is no way to get rid of it and get your old MSN system back.
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In the morning, when I wake up, my stomach is nice and flat. But after I drink something, or even take two bites of food, it pooches out really big. No matter what I eat or drink, its always puffs out, and if like I`m wearing a cute tank top, after I drink water or something it becomes totally unflattering. What should I do? (link)
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Normally, bloating happens as a result of trapped wind, which can be caused by a number of things from eating too quickly, to eating foods that are gassy, to a digestive or gastrointestinal illness or disorder. If you aren't getting any other problems at the same time as the bloating, my guess would be that it is either the food you are eating or the way you are eating it.
You could try slowing down when you eat. I naturally eat very quickly so I always have the same problem myself. When you eat, make yourself chew each mouthful at least 20 times before swallowing and don't take another mouthful until a few seconds after swallowing.
You could also try a probiotic yoghurt or drink, as these contain an ingredient (at this particular moment in time i can't quite remember what it is) that helps to reduce abdominal discomfort and bloating. Activia and Actimel are both very good for this and most often these products can be located at normal supermarkets. They recommend you have at least one a day and you should notice a difference.
If after a period of time, you notice that it gets worse or you are starting to experience other symptoms, such as constipation or diarrhoea (or both) then make sure you speak to your doctor about the possibility of Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS).
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i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?
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I think you know what you need to do. Walk away and don't look back.
I know that you like him, but he's treating you like a doormat. He's cheated on you and you've taken him back so many times now that he knows he will be able to get away with it as many times as he likes! After all, what's to stop him if his girlfriend is willing to stay with him after he's been unfaithful?
You need to stand up for yourself. Think about this for a moment. If one of your friends said their guy had done this to them, what would you tell them to do? Hopefully, it would be to slap the guy good and hard round the face and walk away!! Now, I don't want to encourage physical violence here. However, I do want you to put this guy in his place. You need to break up with him once and for all, in a way that lets him know that you deserve better than him and that he can't get away with treating people like this.
Tell him that you care about him, but he's not a good guy and you don't want to be with someone you can't trust not to stray whenever you turn your back on him. Let him know that you deserve better than a two timing loser who wouldn't know fidelity if it bit him in the armpit and then go find yourself a guy who knows how to treat you (not to mention the female race) with a bit of respect.
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Every single time i go to bed, all my life i've had problems falling asleep. ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY. I CANNOT get comfortable, i toss and turn for hours before i can find a good stop, NONSTOP. Something is always bothering me, either my leg is not covred, or its covered too much, i'm bretahing on myself, y covers are itchy, tehres not enouhg covers, my leg is up too high, im falling off the bed, the lsit goes on and on! Most people ignore these thigns but tehy bug the heck out of me, i thought maybe i havr RLS (restless leg syndrome) but idk. does ANYBODY have any idea wat this is? or am i just like that and tehres nothing i can do about it (link)
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I have had a look at the following website regarding Restless Leg Syndrome:
http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/restless_legs/detail_restless_legs.htm
To be honest, it doesn't sound as though you have regless leg syndrome. However, it does sound as though you might just be plain restless. I have to admit, I have the same problem. As soon as I lie down to go to sleep, EVERYTHING bugs me!! My pillows don't feel right, I'm too hot, too cold, I hear every damn sound around, why am I breathing funny?! Things like that.
I highly suspect that rather than being any sort of condition, your body is so alert when you go to bed that your brain can't switch off properly to let you sleep. You could try reading a book for 10 minutes before you go to sleep, as they say that watching TV or being on the computer can be too stimulating to allow the body to fall asleep straight away.
If you still have the same problem after trying this, you could speak to your doctor and see if they can recommend something to help you get to sleep. I would also recommend you take a look at:
http://www.well.com/~mick/insomnia/
It provides a lot of useful tips to help you sleep. In addition to this, try getting some lavender essential oil or special lavender pillow spray. Lavender helps the body to relax and is commonly used to treat insomnia.
I would also like to add that the person before me who said you have OCD is completely incorrect. Your symptoms in no way suggest you have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which consists mainly of repetitive compulsive actions.
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Can having surgery affect your period? cause i just had my appendix out, and now my periods all weird. This never happens, so i'm kinda worried! (link)
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If you had surgery then yes, it's possible that it has had an effect on your periods. As has been said previously, stress can cause periods to become more irregular.
Medicine can also effect your cycle so if you have been on any prior to or following surgery, this is another possible cause.
Don't worry, it will settle down but it is natural for your body, especially your hormones, to react in such a way when it has suffered a trauma such as appendictis and subsequently surgery.
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Me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he fingered me while I gave him a handjob. I touched myself and I'm a little paranoid I'm pregnant. I asked him later if he "came" and he said no and not to worry. should I?
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To be absoloutely honest, the likelihood of you conceiving from that is slim to none, as there would only have been a small amount of sperm, if any on your hands when you touched yourself.
However, in the future, don't forget that mean produce sperm whether they ejaculate or not. When they are turned on, there is always an amount of 'leakage', for want of a better word and although this is a small amount by comparison, it is still enough to get you pregnant.
Please don't worry too much for now. I really don't think you could have conceived. If your period is late or you experience any other symptoms then by all means, do a test. Otherwise, chalk it up to experience and remember not to do the same thing next time.
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one of my best friends is reall y mean to me. everything i do is wrong and its always MY fault. she gets mad at the littleist things. all i have to do is call her cell phone and she starts a HUGE fight. im sick and tierd of it!!!!!!! but shes also best friends with all my other best friends and she rides my bus. so i cant avoid her and its kinda hard not to be friends with her since we have been friends for a while but i dont know what to do!!! i need help so i would love it thank in advance!! (link)
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I actually had a similar problem with a friend a while ago and although it is hard, it does reach a point where you just have to draw the line.
I know that it is difficult but try to look at it this way...if you just met her today, would you still want to be her friend? If you are having difficulties with friends, this is often the best way to assess the situation. If in your heart of hearts you know she is not really a good friend to you, then you need to get out of the friendship.
The chances are, it won't be as easy as just breaking off contact with her so you may need to stand up for yourself during the next argument and tell her you want nothing more to do with her. After this point, she may well try to get back in contact with you and make you be friends with her. If she makes you miserable now, resist this. It's easy to go back and you will end up going through the same thing again. Sadly, I know this from experience.
Stand up for yourself, tell her you deserve better from a friend and leave it at that. Then, go and make the most of your other friends or make new ones.
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What can you put on your skin to make it softer?
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Depends really on the area of skin in question. There are lots of moisturisers out there that will help different areas. Moisturisers for legs, face, hands, etc.
However, the overall best moisturiser I have found for making skin soft and supple is actually foot moisturiser. It has seaweed extract in it, which I believes helps a lot but I use it on my legs and arms and within two days of applying it morning and night, I can really feel the difference. Only discovered it because I ran out of my other moisturiser one day!!
If those are the general areas you are thinking of, that would be best. For hands, E45 cream works wonders. You really don't need to buy expensive stuff. Simple products can be very effective.
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