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Hey guys. my names ashley and im from new jersey. my friends are my life ♥ i think i give really good advice because ive been through i lot of things and i can relate to most people. so if you have any concerns or questions. make sure you ask! i hope i can help!

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I have a cell phone. IT's a Verizon LG VX3200. is it possible to get ringtones from online onto my phone? i know it'd get charged on my bill nd idc bout that. but are there any REAL ring tones .. like with lyrics not just the background music that i could get?

you can go to www.verizon.com and browse some ringtones for your type of phone. i have a verizon lg 6100 and i get all of my ringtones off of sony music box. on get it now. its very good and it gives you the lyrics instead of just the tune. the songs are also clear and are really good. hope i helped ♥ ashley

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ok so i have this guy friend and i sort of like him and he used to like me, only a few weeks ago, and i think my friends scared him away because they said i was a fake bitch around guys (and i dont' think i am but obiviously some of my friends do) and i dont' think he likes me anymore :(....its just that i don't want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW, is my chance over or should i just play it cool for now?

i would just play it cool for now and see what happens. maybe you won't end up going out, but you can still be friends. you didnt "scare" him away, maybe your friends were just bothering him. talk to him about it and see if he likes you still.. and maybe sparks will fly and you'll end up going out. but i would play it cool. theres always a chance. right? ♥ ashley

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Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high!

If you guys arent going out, but you like eachother, then why did u two break up in the first place? i would talk to this guy adam, cause ryan has another girlfriend! he got over you, and is dating another girl, so you should be able to date another guy. You are not cheating on him, dont worry. hope i helped.

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I just auditioned for my school talent show and I think I did really bad. I sang (Un Moto di Gioia) because my friends said I should. I have a terrible case of stage fright, and I thought this audition might help me get over it. I mean, some of the girls on the audition panel were laughing (which is very rude, but that's not the point). I am so embarassed, I don't think I'll ever show my face again. I dropped out of the show, of course. I'm questioning my talents as a singer right now. I have been singing for 6 years. I am very trained as a singer, was admitted into an Advanced Choir at an early age, but still...I think people think I'm a bad singer and don't want to tell me. Does anyone know what I mean?

are you the one who sent a message saying you didnt know what to do for your talent show? about singing an operatic piece? well.. anyway, i know what you mean. and i dont really see your question here. i wouldnt let it bother you about what other people think. just ignore it.. and if you got into advanced quior, you must be good. just keep re-assuring yourself.

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ok, i'm not going out with this guy....but i know he likes me and i think i like him, and people keep pushing us too hook up, and i would and i know he would....but is that slutish that we would and we're not going out?

if you both like eachother, it doesnt matter. i have plenty of friends who are not going out and have hooked up. its so fine.. its not slutty or whatever, its what you choose to do, and your friends should be fine with that. anyway, theyre the ones who are pushing you to hook-up! ♥ ashley

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i asked about the singing...i dont have the money for lessons but what was the channel for the on demand thing? thanks loads!

on on demand-- go to music, and then underneath there they have all these things you can do--guitar lessons, singing lessons, piano lessons. etc,etc.
♥ ashley

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what should you expect from your bf?? like talking wise, hanging out, etc etc.

thanks!!

it all depends on the guy. if hes very touchy feely, then expect him to be sweet, hugging and touching you a lot, and talking with you. if hes a little more on the shyer side, expect maybe, more of a talk in the halls and online and sometimes call or whatever kind of relationship. but normally- i can tell you this. if a guy never calls .. thats not good. if her calls/asks you to hang out/talks to you in school.. thats the kind of boyfriend your looking for. you will know he cares about you. no second guessing. ♥ ashley

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i was just wondering, how can you improve your singing voice. i know you dont have to be born with it and i know you dont like drink milk and drink waater but like idk i want to be a good singer but idk what to do?

like everyone else has said, singing lessons/school chorus/ practice! but if you dont want to pay for singing lessons, their is an easier way. go onto on demand, and there will be a button that tells you all these things you can do. they have singing lessons, and it basically gives you singing lessons for free! its really helpful.
♥ ashley

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my mom and i have a very close relationship. she is my best friend. i thought i could talk to her about anything. she knows almost everything about me. she isn't one of those moms that let me do anything. she is very protective. i get to stay out late but i have to get good grades. so she is the perfect level of protective. i love it. but me and my bf are now sexually intimate. but this is where things get tough, she doesnt knwo we are dating, adn she adn i decided i would tell her when i get active. now my bf wants me to talk to her about it, and to get b/c. what can i do adn say. ill rate high

say to your mom- mom, i know me and you talk about everything, and we decided i would tell you when i get sexually active. well.. nows the time for me to tell you." sit her down and tell her, dont make it completely random, because then it'll be uncomfortable. hope i helped, and good luck! ♥ ashley

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Im 13 in 7th grade and I want to be in the talent show and I've selected a really good piece---"Un Moto Di Gioia" from Marriage of Figaro. I know that I'm only 13 and all, but I've been singing for a really long time and my voice is plenty mature and operatic to sing this---my choir teacher assigned it to me as a solo last year at choir camp and I did a fine job, so don't give me a lecture on "your-voice-isn't-mature-enough" because it is. The only problem is, what if people, like, make fun of me for singing this in the 7th grade? I mean, everyone else will be doing stuff like rapping and pop like Mariah Carey and it'll just look...weird. Do you think I should lay back or go for it???

i would totally go for it! who cares what other poeple think, if your a good singer, and can sing operatic peices of music, i would show off your talen to everyone. who cares if everyone else is foing all those pop songs and stuff. do what you want, and dont let any body tell you what you can or can not do. in my talent shows ive been in, people have rapped, to elvis, to violin, to piano. it doesnt matter, do what you want!! it wont seem weird. trust me. ♥ ashley

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ok, so there is a guy that i no, (im a girl by the way) and he likes me, and i really like him too. and i gave him a note that said that i liked him and gave it to him and he replied with a note asking me out, and so i gave him another note that said i dont now becuz i mean i really like him a lot, but hes a really GOOD friend of mine and i dont want to ruin it by dating him
nd everyday i like him more and more and we talk on the fone forever and hang at school and stuff and hes so funny and hes way shprter than e, but i dont even care cuz hes so sweet and funny....
and so my question is
what should i do???

i know what your going through.. i would go out with him because you obviously like eachother. but make sure that you both are clear, that no matter what happens, you will still be friends and that your friendship will reamin the same. OR, you can just be friends.. (hang out, movies, phone) all the same stuff boyfriend and girlfriends do, except no strings attached. you can still see other people. thats basicaly the only difference between you too. hope i helped.. and good luck. i hate when that happens to me =]
♥ ashley

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Is it gross or weird for a girl with very dark and coarse hair to shave her arms?

i dont think its gross or wierd, instead of shaving it, you can bleach your arm hair to make it lighter, or go for a waxing if you want. ♥ ashley

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alright it always seems that when my brother has friends over that im always home, because all my friends are busy and there is no one to talk to on the phone. Now his friends are really hot so i dont want them to think im a loser its just a cowinsdense (sp) that im home when he has his friends over, and no i dont do it on purpose. I try calling people to talk so i dont look like a dork but of course no one is home when i need them . What do around the house so they dont think im a loser? and i know like watching t.v or something but last time i did that one of his friends went " why is she sitting there watching tv"
ill rate high for ANYTHING.

make plans in advance when you know your brother is going to have friends over. ask him;; and call your friends in advance- so you know your set and dont have to worry about being alone when they are over. or you can act cool and hang out with them if it doesnt annoy your brother. listen to music, instead of watching tv. try to socialize instead of not talking to them. hope i helped
♥ ashley

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is there any way to become, less depressed?

1) keep a journal- get your thoughts and feelings on paper, instead of keeping them bottled up inside of you.
2) go to friends- friends are there to help you, they make everything better.
3) speak to someone- tell them whats going through your mind, they wont judge you, they are there to help
4) write poems/ read happy books- get your thoughts of being depressed out of your mind.
hope i gave some good ideas =]
♥ ashley

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hey. my bf intimidates me cus hes a sk8r nd i love sk8r boys and hes in a grade up then me and there are these 2 girls that hate us going out cus he dumped thier friend (his ex) for me. what should i do???

--kimberly ♥--

i think you should talk to those 2 girls and say he dumped you, not me-- dont take your anger out on me, becuase it was not my fault. i dont want to fight with you. and if your boyfriend intimidates you, then why are you going out with him! i would speak to your boyfriend and tell him about the girls, and ask him to be nice to them and whatever so your all on good terms. --ashley ♥

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heyyy....

i like someone, but i know he likes someone else. i told him i liked him, but now what?

keep talking to him and try to be flirty and nice and stuff, dont change who you are, just talk to him and become his friend. being there friend is always better than not being friends at all. you cant change who someone likes- but you can become better friends and get closer. ♥ ashley

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Ashley.. Well I like this guy but hes like not friends with my friend and he like talks to me in some places but not in others usally in only one place but in other places he ignores me.Like I need help now.

it doesnt matter who hes friends with- personality/ not popularity. if he only talks to you in some places, and not others. maybe hes uncomfortable talking to you infront of poeple, but he likes talking to you alone. i dont really know what your asking me. but i would suggest talking to him more, and if he ignores you, then ask him why he talks to you in one place, but not the other. hope i helped
♥ ashley

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how do you make icons and put them on iconators.com?

you need to register and make an account. then you probably go into paint and make something, i dont really know, i would go onto iconators and ask one of the makers how to do it.sorry if i wasnt much help. ♥ ashley

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To get ringtones on your phone you have to like text message a certain number or w/e. Does anyone know a good place that has ringtones?

go to get it now, on ur phone. and go shopping, then get sony music box, it actually gives you the words, instead of just the tune. i use it and its very good. it has great ringtones too! ♥ ashley

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I know this is kind of stupid, but here it goes anyways.
I'm deathly afriad of shots! and i have to get one for high school in April or around then porbably sooner.
I'm terrified and i don't know how to get over this fear. I'll probably start to cry at the office.
Please help
5 unless your mean
thanks!
shot scaredy

OMG i know exactly what your going through. i am deathly afraid of shots too. this girl in my town had this disease and everyone had to get a shot. i was so scared, this is how i got over it: 1- dont look 2- think of something else ex: who you like, what ur going to do afterwards. shots dont actually hurt, you make them hurt. if your like "this isnt going to hurt, its gonna be easy" then it wont hurt. but if you make yourself scared, and tell yourself it is going to hurt, than it will. hope i helped!! ♥ ashley

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