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talking to my mom about private things
my mom and i have a very close relationship. she is my best friend. i thought i could talk to her about anything. she knows almost everything about me. she isn't one of those moms that let me do anything. she is very protective. i get to stay out late but i have to get good grades. so she is the perfect level of protective. i love it. but me and my bf are now sexually intimate. but this is where things get tough, she doesnt knwo we are dating, adn she adn i decided i would tell her when i get active. now my bf wants me to talk to her about it, and to get b/c. what can i do adn say. ill rate high
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you & your mom has a awsome relationship. i think you should talk to your mom. you should sit down and maybe take the conversation slow. dont beat around the bush, but make sure it all comes out nicely. seeing how you & your moms relatioship is she'll take it good.
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It sounds like you have a great relationship with your mom. I wish I could say the same about mine. Anyway, I would sit down with her and calmly tell her that you've been seeing someone and you've decided to take the step into a more intimate relationship. Tell her you wanted to let her know because of your agreement and also to get set up with birth control. She'll probably be surprised, but I think she'll respect the fact that you were honest about it and also that you are making an effort to protect yourself.
A couple things to remember about birth control. It's not 100% effective and it doesn't protect against STDs. Even if you go on the pill (or whatever), I would highly recommend using condoms as well to protect yourself.
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your mom sounds awsome anyway you do need to talk to your mom say to her wel mom i know we tak alot and you wanted me to tell you when i get sexually intimate well i have and it is with a really kind guy ask your boy if he wants to meat your mom before you talk to your mom so you can add that to your conversation
hope i helped
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say to your mom- mom, i know me and you talk about everything, and we decided i would tell you when i get sexually active. well.. nows the time for me to tell you." sit her down and tell her, dont make it completely random, because then it'll be uncomfortable. hope i helped, and good luck! ♥ ashley
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