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i feel like i am cheating...
Well, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and we were in love and we still like eachother ALOT but he has another girlfriend and i like this guy (Adam) but i feel like i am cheating on Ryan(my ex) because i like Adam but i still spend alot of time with Ryan and hang out with him and we act like we're going out but he has a girlfriend i like this guy named Adam but i dont know i feel like i am cheating on Ryan what should i do even though we're not going out!! I rate high!
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If you arent dating Ryan your not cheating on him.Do nothing except go out with Adam. If Ryan has a gf but still likes you, thats his problem he should have tried to get you back. Forget about Ryan your not cheating on him. Acting like your going out isnt going out-if he thought about it that way HE would be the one cheating. But hes not and your not. Choose who u want.
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hun, if ryan has a new girlfriend then you really have no obligation to him, but it is understandable why you feel that way. but you should try going with adam for a little bit, and maybe the feeling will fade away, but if it doesnt you can just end it with adam, and maybe you could tell ryan how you feel.
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Ryan has a girlfriends, so you should definetly be able to have a boyfriend, or at least like another guy. It's not cheating. If it really bothers you then think about who you like more, and try to steer clear of the other one. but i think it's fine to like Adam.
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If Ryan has a girlfriend, then why can't you have a boyfriend or hang out with other guys? I wouldn't worry about it if Ryan has a girlfriend. If you're REALLY concerned, then I would just talk to your ex and ask him if he still has feelings for you. You should also be sure to tell him how you feel about him. As for the other guy, Adam, just go with it and if a relationship emerges then just do what feels right..if you think you are still in love with Ryan then let Ryan know, but if you want to be with Adam then I would suggest forgetting about Ryan. And you are definetley not cheating on Ryan since you're not technically dating Ryan OR Adam. Hope I could help & Good Luck;; ♥ Rachel
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If you guys arent going out, but you like eachother, then why did u two break up in the first place? i would talk to this guy adam, cause ryan has another girlfriend! he got over you, and is dating another girl, so you should be able to date another guy. You are not cheating on him, dont worry. hope i helped.
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Look if you guys still like each other, you have to talk about it! It's not fair to you to think your cheating on a guy who has a girlfriend! Its not fair to his girlfriend either! you need to talk about this with Ryan. If he wants to get back together, great, you just have to decide between him and adam, if not, then this guys a total jerk if he likes you but wont get back together with you, and you should go after adam in an attempt to get over him and move on (which u both shud, move on i mean). You need to tell Ryan, he has a girlfriend, so stop making it seem like you two are together. Unless you sort out what both of you are feeling, your never going to be able to move on.
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My advice is yo stop spending time with your ex. That is just going to make you feel more guilty plus he has a girls friend so top hanging on. You should really give this guy Adam a chance you should be able to move on just like your ex & you never know this could be something good.
xo Erikanne ♥
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If you feel guilty stop doing it. Never go against your conscience. It is your best judgement and be very carefull not to rationalize your actions. Your conscience is like a compass if it is set to North (Good compass) and you go against it enough times your compass will begin to lead you in the wrong direction and you will really be in hot water. SO my best advice is to use your best judgement and do the things that you know in your heart are right. Just because you like somebody does not mean that it is ok to act on it. I.E. Married man likes his secretary and spends a lot of time with her and does nothing physically wrong he is still not off the hook.
I hope I helped.
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everything is ok .... if you like adam than try to give that relationship a try .... you are not cheating because ryan has a girlfriend ...... and i bet he dont feel like he is cheating on you .... you can be really good friends with ryan but still go out with adam and if things dont go right with ryans relationship and things dont go right with you and adam maybe you and ryan can give it another go! i hope i helped! good luck with the guys!
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hey well if you dont offical go out with someone your nto cheating on anyone. your a signle person. so dont worry about it. cait ♥
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