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I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.

I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.

Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.

I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
Website: My Space
Gender: Female
Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
MSN: hottchickie@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 28, 2006
Answers: 1016
Last Update: March 5, 2009
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i have introduced him to them and hes a great guy. he doesnt smoke drink or anything like that. he goes to college he is a very intelligent guy. he does great in college and will be going somewhere with his life and become saomething. i am the same. grades are perfect i come home when they tell me too. i let them know (when he was here) that i was going out and id be back at what time and thats when i came. so you didnt really help my question or give me advice on it. but thanks for trying. Rating bumped to a 3 by an L2

True. I might say "what if??" I think I can bear with her. Thanks a lot Vikki!:)

Thank you so much for your answer! It was very helpful. I am 24 years old and hope my skin goes back to normal! I know I gained to much weight while pregnant--thats probably why I am so stretched out

thank you=) im happy for you.

Thanks! You were right, it's slowly going away!

thank you! even though thats not what i love to hear i really do think you are right. this helps me a lot

thanks

thanks for the advice

hey thanx!!! uv made everything much clearer for me.. *much appriciated* xxx

gee, thanks you really helped alot. (:

Thanks :]

ok thank yoooh =]

thanx yeah i told her yesterday and i guess she was okay with it. its so much better this way but now i feel a litttle awkward around her. oh well

thank you so much.. its been 5 months and she still doesn't talk to me.. i'm a wreck.. i want to kill myself **Rating changed by level II moderator**

thanks=]

Thank you so much. <3 :]

thankyou. i understand and i am not mad at her she seems like a super nice person and as a person i like her a lot. and the only reason i'm asking is because i've liked him since i was 13 and this is my 16th birthday and i just wouldn't feel great seening them there together on my birthday lol

Thanks for your help!

thank you, that helps a lot!

Thank you! You responded wonderfully! It really is what I was looking for! Thanks again!

THANKS SO MUCH. AND YOU KNOW WHAT? YOUR RIGHT. IM NOT GONNA BE A JUSTA NOTHER GIRL TO HIM.. ITS NEVER GONAN HAPPEN MWE AND HIM. THAKNS A HOLEE BUNCHH =]

Thanks its most definatly detailed! :)

Hey thanks and I understand all of that I wish I could remeber some of that at times.

omg thank you so much!!

Thank YOU!

thanx. none of us really know what happened but it's good to know that it couldve just been cuz we were sitting there for a long time. i didnt think about the nerve thing.

Thanks! long but sure as hell worth reading :)

thank u so much. you had the most and the best information!

thank you so much

Lol Really late reply!hah but cool thanks!

omg thanks that was a biiig help

thank you Vikki!

thank you so much, ive asked you a lot of questions and i can always trust that you'll give me a straight honest answer that usually works. thank you so much for making me realize it has to do with my outlook on life..and that it's just temporary. i pray that you'll go far in life and always be happy, you deserve it! & im sure people always get what they deserve..good o bad. so thank you. and good luck.

Thanx!

AHH! wow! awesome! awesome! if you could hear me applaud - i would so do it!! I've asked this question to a few people i see as good writers, but this was great! AMAZING! WOW! i cant say anything but WOW! you totally caught my attention and i loved it! Ill tell you how it went tomorrow :D :D

ty so much :]

Thanxs u really helped

Wowww that was wicked good advice thank you so much!

Wow, thank you so much!

Thanks.. .what are the consequences?

thanks

thanks.

Thanks soo much!!

Thank you!!!!!!!

THANKS<3333

Thank you very much, Vikki!

thanks

thanks ur great!

Thank you for the advice, we did have contact through myspace, but I don't think i'll be calling her my "friend" for much longer.

thank you u were lots of helped

Vikki thank you so much. I will look into this because it needs to stop. Your advice was great and you are right about him seeing people for help - I don't think he has at all.

Thanx so much! :)

Thanks so much! I use Frizz Eaze too and use two aveda products (One for my scalp and ends) and Paul Mitchelle (however u spell it) to make it shiny and dove spray...I think I might need a little more because parts are still BIG, especially my back parts of my hair

thankk youu. ill keep a list.and thanks now i dont feel like such a weirdo

thanx!!

If I could rate you higher than a five I would have. Thanks so much. :]

thanx so much for the advice

Thanks so much for your your help :] I already go to a counsular though <33

thanks

yea.. thanks=). i should go see a docotr.. ihave not been to a doctor about my knee.. yea, ive been wearing abrace for 3 years too.. i know i know i should get it checked out but until i am forced.. NO WAY. thanks again..

Thanks Vikki!

thank you soo much !!!!!

THANKS A LOT! i might just try that.

**Rating changed to match the others by L2 mod. Heck even the one saying def leopard got a 5!

well thanks.. it's just that my eyes were not like up and down before. it recently became that way. maybe its something else

thnx

Thanks this helps!

I answered you but in the question column, sorry.

thank you

Thanks. I have been diagnosed with depression. But the couselor hasen't helped so I stopped seeing her. I have lots of down days and sometimes I just need someone to tell me that it'll be okay. So thanks a whole bunch. I very much appreciate it!

Sorry its taken me so long to rate. Thanks though, you really helped! =] And thanks for taking time to really answer this in detail and not just a fly-by answer. You gave me a lot of very usefull information.

thankyou. it is vaginismus that i have, me and my boyfriend have researched it alot when we were stuggling to do anything. i just wasnt sure if i still have it because sex has become abit easier when we have done it, it took alot of time and patience though. i'm glad someone else knows what it is and understands :-)

Thanks. Since i posted this i stood up and fainted. So, yeah. Theres been such a big change today. =[ Thanks If you want to continue to talk about this my advice thing is lolitsjackie so just click ask a question and talk to me about it :)

Thanks for trying.. ive got XP so its not that thanks anyways x

Thank you so much! I just had a dream about their products. hah how weird!

thanks!!!!!!!

Gracias :)

thanks alot! this is really going to help me out! thanks!

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH...you were an AWESOME help;) <33

Thank you, you actually did provide good advice and help.

thanks so much

IT WORKED!! except.. my question got deleted lol

youre amazing, thank you

thanks alot that was really really sweet, I dont know what to do still, i know i like him and want to please him but im still a big girl and i wont do anything i dont want to or think im not ready for so thanks alot oh and by the way i am so a teenager lol lalagurly

thanks a bunch..i'll try it..

thankyou very much. my journey was fine too once i settled in :-) if i watch dvd i'd watch friends :-)

thank you so much!

I said nothing too dirty, but thanks anyway

Thanks,you gave me really great advice.....and I'm trying to help my brother the best I can.

How thoughtful your advice is. It's painful to read, though, that someone you thought you knew is really emotionally abusive and capable of hurting you. I do know his behavior does erode my self esteem and I'm always fighting to be understood. Thanks for letting me know what the real choice has to be.....

Thanks. I dont think I will.

thanks!

Ok, Ill do that! Thank you so muchas! <3

But it's concidered muder if someone else kills the mother AND the baby? See what I'm saying? It's kind of like saying, if the mother kills the baby then it's fine, because it's *just a fetus* but if someone other than the mother kills it, then it's murder.

wow thanks so much!!

Thank you so much

thanks so much. i like that you told me how it is from both perspectives. keep givin great advice!

thanks!

THANKS! =D

thankss =]

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