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Ok I posted a question about anxiety and when I knew what it meant I finally knew the word that i'm going through but I'm 13 is it safe for me to take pills? Do you need a prescription? (link)
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You cannot die from anxiety attacks. You can get chest pains and have trouble breathing, it can feel as if you are having a heart attack. Get a paper bag, not a plastic one but a smaller lunch size paper bag. Carry it with you. If you start having trouble breathing, breathe into the paper bag. In and out, don't remove the bag to exhale. Do this until you calm down and are breathing normally. Shouldn't take long. Also stop doing whatever is causing you to stress out.
What you do when you get an anxiety attack is you hyperventilate. More info...Click search.
If you go to an emergency room, they will hand you a paper bag and charge you a fortune for it. :)
As for medication to prevent them, see your doctor. You can be given medication for it if it
is a big problem for you. I don't believe there is
anything over-the -counter that would help you.
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Tips on focusing on reading with out distracting with train thoughts and others (link)
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I've started reading during a commercial and had the show go off without my ever realizing it!
The secret is you have to find a book you can really get into. If it is a school lesson and a bit boring you will have to find a quiet place and just read. If it is reading for pleasure, just make sure it is interesting to you. If it isn't there are lots more books to choose from. :)
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hi!my boyfriend and i have been going out for six weeks.he has told me he loves me.we dont go to the same school and we dont live near each other.we can never meet up in the evenings it is like a far away relationship.i'm afraid he will break up with me.we havent kissed yet we were going to but then my younger sister turned up.what should i do i really like him i dont want to break up with him.can you give me some advice?please.just to let you know i am a teenage girl. (link)
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Tough one! The problem with long distance romance and teens is you just don't get to spend much time together. He has his school functions and you have yours.
The best thing you can do right now is see each other as often as you can. Talk to him about weather or not he would come to your school dances, and you his. If you can work that out, it would be great.
If not you may have to have an online/phone relationship until he can drive to pick you up. :)
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I'm 21/F. I'm getting married in two months, and I love my fiance very much, but I am so nervous. I'm having second thoughts about the wedding, and I feel incredibly guilty, and horrible. I know he's not at all nevous. I want to talk to my fiance, but I'm afraid he'll be mad or think I don't love him, and I don't want that. I really do want to be his wife, I guess I'm just scared. Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I being a horrible fiance. (link)
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You are normal. :)
This is the biggest step you've taken in your life so far! Things are changing.
If you are having a big wedding there is lots of planning. People giving you their opinions, which you may not always agree with.
So of course you are scared and nervous. Its ok for you to talk to your fiance about it. Just let him no right up front you aren't backing out and you still love him. :)
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I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence? (link)
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I don't know why that happens. It is pretty freaky though. My husband always looks at the odometer on our vehicles when the last three numbers are 222. So, it does happen to others too, if that helps any. :)
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Is it true that wearing a wired bra to bed stops your boobs from growing as much, and wearing a sports bra makes them have room to grow? (link)
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Your boobs will grow, bra or no bra, no matter what kind of bra. :)
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hey.
i get really pissed off when i get a 4 or lower.
i get mad because i spend SO much time on each
question & try to answer it the best i can, but
some people are just mean! i dont feel as bad
when that person gave EVERYONE a 4 or 3,
but when other people got 5s with answers that
i think are worse than mine, i get really upset.
like, i know it's "just a website" but i really would
love to have a really high rating, like 4.95 or higher.
but i went through a chain of 5s & got up to 4.9 &
now i got ONE four & i went back down to 4.89!
do i have like, OCD or something? why am i
so obsessed with getting a 5? can someone
try to make me feel better? & i know i can get
into trouble for this - but i always give people a
5 even if their answer was TOTALLY not relevant
to my question! i just think, "omg but if I got a 4,
i would be soooo upset!" i know it's not fair or
anything but i just can't help it.
thanks in advv. :] (link)
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Tina is absolutely right. If you answer truthfully,
you aren't always going to be getting a 5. Realistically a 5 should be a rare thing.
The goal of this site is to help others. Not see how high of a rating you can carry. Mine is always about 4.78. Sometimes lower. I do get a 4.9 something now and then but it goes back down pretty quickly. It isn't something I even look at most of the time.
What you have to try and understand is that you can give very good advice and not carry a 5..ever. As has been said usually its because someone didn't like what you told them. Most people who get all 5's aren't helping anyone. They just tell the person whatever they want to hear.
So, when you aren't getting all 5's. You are actually helping people. not kissing their little bottoms. :)
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Hi, this is andalixsays
(I'm not mad about this, Im just curious... just so you don't think i'm yelling at you)
I answered a question: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=484072
I was rated a one, and i reported. I saw that it was only changed to a two(and that you changed it; that's why i'm coming to you.)
Why was my answer a bad one? (link)
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I changed it to a 3. Thats as high as we change it most of the time. After reading it again, I see you didn't call her skanky as she claimed. :)
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search jokes/search (link)
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where could you buy a mini bansai tree? (link)
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Try your local plant/tree nursery. Some floral shops might also sell them. :)
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Yeah, so i have 2 dogs and im hearing about this recall on certain dog foods and more and more on on the list daily. What are the ones so far that you know FOR SURE. and please dont give tell me to google because i have done that
Thank you (link)
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Click search on Theymos answer and it will take you to the many lists.
A vet on my local news today said that the one thing common to all the pet foods being recalled is wheat
gluten. So if you are like me and want to be sure your dog food is safe (even though maybe not on list yet), look for dog food that does not contain wheat gluten. All dog food lists the ingredients right on the label. :)
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the song goes like this:
jesse is a friend, ya he is a good friend of mine...
chorous:
you know i wish that i had jesse's girl (repeated a lot)
please tell me the title/artise of this song! i think the title might be Jesse's Girl but i'm not sure! thx! (link)
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The song is Jessie's Girl and is sang by Rick Springfield.
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how much should someone 5'3" weigh? (link)
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About 120. :)
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I NEED ADVICE!!! ASAP!!!
My boyfriendis leaving for two whole years. He is getting his mission paperthsi wednesday and I need to break up with him and I really do not know how to break the news to him, I really don't I mena i jave been with him for almost 11 months and I just don't know how to tell him that he need to concentrate on his mission that's why i'm breaking up with him two months before he leaves!
I'm 16 years old (link)
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You just simply tell him it wouldn't be fair for either of you to put your lives on hold for 2 years.
Thats a long time at your age.
Tell him you'll write to him and that you will stay in touch. See how you both feel about each other after he is done. :)
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I'm almost 20 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 months. Everything about our relationship is perfect; we were friends for a year prior to making anything official, so I consider us to be very close. The topic of sex came up recently and I found out he's waiting to "lose" his virginity whenever he decides to. I respect that and think its great to go out with someone who is not anxious to have sex. But the only reason he's waiting is because he's scared to get a girl pregnant. I have told him there are a number of things he can do to prevent that from happening (such as multiple forms of protection at once: birth control pills, condom, and using the pull out method.) But he still isn't comfortable with the idea of having sex. As I've said before, I completely respect his decisions. But I, on the other hand, am ready (and protected) to become sexually active. We have a very sexual relationship, but I get very frustrated knowing I cannot share something like this with him. I certainly would not pressure him into anything because I am not that type of person. And I would never throw away our relationship just because of his choice to wait. (I respect that more than anything.) But does anyone have any input or opinions on my situation? Thank you. (link)
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I first want to say that your question is wonderful! It is so nice to know there are still some who really take the time to know each other and think things through before taking the big step. Maybe all is not lost after all. This is the kind of questions we should be seeing in this category.
Have you told him you are interested in having sex with him? Not hinted around now...I mean really told him you are ready for it? If not do. Tell him of course you respect his decision, but that you are ready when he is.
Do some research and get him some statistics. Birth control pills alone are enough. Condoms for disease protection and to help him feel more comfortable if he has real worries. I wouldn't recommend the pull-out method while using a condom. It might come off at the wrong time and cause him to panic. Needlessly if you are on the pill but no reason to cause him panic.
I am assuming you are a virgin. If not then he could be afraid he will do something wrong. If you are, he may be even more afraid. He might think he will hurt you or that it won't be a great experience for you both. Reassure him either way.
Let him know you realize the first time may not be perfect. It takes time to know a partners likes and dislikes. Once the nervousness is gone you will both do fine.
I am rambling on like Dr Ruth! I hope it works out
great for you. Sounds like you found yourself a wonderful guy! :)
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I guess I probably just need someone to tell me I'm being an idiot for this, but I'm really pissed off right now.
19/F.
I've been living with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We're both university students. We've become really close over the time we've been dating, so it's not just a casual relationship.
Today is our six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really nice for him, because he's been really good to me. I told him about my plans, and he okayed them. I wanted to have a nice romantic evening and cook dinner for him.
He was at military training this weekend (for the reserves) and he got back about an hour ago.
He brought his brother with him. He knows I don't really like his brother at the best of times. He doesn't know when to back off and leave the two of us alone. He's loud and irritating, and he's obsessed with a certain children's card game (even though he's 20 years old).
This brother of his is staying all night. Instead of the nice dinner I had planned, we're either ordering pizza or having tacos, then they're playing video games.
I'm really hurt, because this anniversary really means a lot to me. He doesn't seem to see what the problem is (because I have a math test to study for).
Am I silly for being hurt? If I am, feel free to tell me. I really suspect that I am, and it would help if someone gave me a figurative slap across the face. If I'm not, I'll bring it up with him later tonight.
Thank you! (link)
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What!? No you are not silly for being hurt. I would be too. It isn't like it was a surprise, he knew your plans.
Bring it up, tell him it hurt you. Try not to get in a big argument because nothing can be done about tonight. HOWEVER, he owes you one. Next weekend, 6 months and a week. HE does the dinner, you want candles and the whole romantic theme. Don't help him, make him look up ideas on the internet! ;)
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I am a 17 y/o male. My "love" is not talking to me because she wants someone taller and heavier than herself. I am 5'10", 130 lbs, and she is 5'9", 130 lbs. She feels that i must be heavier, not just the same weight. Since my weight is distributed throughout muscle, she is insecure. I have trouble gaining weight, so what should i do? (link)
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OK I'm rolling with the 1's today but I'm not just going to give a kiss-up answer.
Do her one better and go out with someone else.
Seriously, this is ridiculous. I'd guess you can't gain to much or that wouldn't complete the picture either.
If she "loves" you, it will be regardless of how tall you are, how much you weight, what impression others have about you, or how you look as a couple.
Insecure? Nah, superficial. There are other girls out there. Tell this one to accept you for who you are or you will find someone who will. :)
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do adults do bj's. like would my parents? or is it just a teen thing? (link)
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Yes. As often as they can get one. It is not just a teen thing. Not by a long shot. :)
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i hate this... i had an advice column a couple of years ago, but i forgot my password, so i made a new one. that one ended up just not working. now i got another one last night, and now the stupid thing won't let me log on! i got my correct username, correct password, but i sitll can't. ok, so i click on this thing tha says "frgot your password?" and type in my email, but it says there isn't an email like that in the database or something like that... whatthe heck is going on?? why can't i log on? anything i can try that will work? will i be able to log on AT ALL anymore? i don't wanna start over! (link)
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The only one who can help you out is Dangernerd.
You can contact him at dangernerd@gmail.com
He can straighten it out for you. :)
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Hi, YG. I hope you are well! I see you still giving kick-*** advice all the time. :)
I'm writing today because someone sent me a message with her phone number in it and asked me to call her. I replied that I didn't think it was a good idea. I didn't realize that would then put her phone number in my column. Is there any way to remove it? I'm uncomfortable knowing that her phone is there for anyone to see.
Thanks and take care!
Sabine (link)
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I'll have dangernerd take care of that for you Sabine. I think he can remove the question. :)
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