I'm 21/F. I'm getting married in two months, and I love my fiance very much, but I am so nervous. I'm having second thoughts about the wedding, and I feel incredibly guilty, and horrible. I know he's not at all nevous. I want to talk to my fiance, but I'm afraid he'll be mad or think I don't love him, and I don't want that. I really do want to be his wife, I guess I'm just scared. Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I being a horrible fiance.
karenR answered Friday April 6 2007, 12:11 pm: You are normal. :)
This is the biggest step you've taken in your life so far! Things are changing.
If you are having a big wedding there is lots of planning. People giving you their opinions, which you may not always agree with.
So of course you are scared and nervous. Its ok for you to talk to your fiance about it. Just let him no right up front you aren't backing out and you still love him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xWACKYJACKIEx answered Thursday April 5 2007, 10:04 pm: You're not a bad fiance whatsoever.
Of course its normal.
Your best bet is to talk this over with him.
He will be completely understanding, don't worry.
Good luck :) [ xWACKYJACKIEx's advice column | Ask xWACKYJACKIEx A Question ]
beckss answered Thursday April 5 2007, 10:00 pm: Definately, called cold feet.
Talk to him, he's going to understand it's completely normal and happens to everyone! [ beckss's advice column | Ask beckss A Question ]
daddysgirl9262 answered Thursday April 5 2007, 9:55 pm: Yes it is definitly normal - almost every bride to be feels this way before thier wedding. so dont feel as though your a horrible fiance, your not, and talk to him!
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