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Q: I'm pretty sure this is in the wrong category, but this is the one that relates to my problem the closest.

I have swimmers ear, but I went swimming a few weeks ago [almost 2], and it still isn't gone. It's seriously getting bed. I can't hear out of my left ear, so I constantly ask people if I'm yelling or if I'm talking normal. I can't lower my voice because then I can't hear myself. Sometimes when I lay down, I can my hear my heartbeat in my left ear. It's really weird. I've had swimmers ear before, and it never lasted this song, so when is this going to go away? Or is it more serious than I think? Help! It's really annoying.

alrightttt well you should most def. go to the doctors to get like antibiotics. esp. since its not going away

i had it like last summer and i went to the doctors a few days after i started noticing itt. once you get antibiotics it should go away.. if its swimmers ear.

Q: okay, i have a wart on my foot and it hurts really really bad. i have an appt. with a dermatologist in a month to get it removed..it was the closest time they had. my question is..is there anything i can do with it to make it not so painful now? and how will they remove it?
thanks!

uck i had those last summer, they hurt so bad i feel your pain. with mine, i didnt get them removed, i just stuck it out, and was basically limping for a month. what i did is i got these like cushion pad things that you can get from like CVS and its like a circle that goes around your wart, and that worked for most of mine, except for one that was so big. also what my dad did was he put salicylic acid on it everynight, and that broke down the skin to the wart and like healed it faster. but since your getting it removed, just yeah wear shoes & socks and those pads which wil deffinitly help. good luck!

Q: I need a prank to play at my slumber party. Any ideas?

Hmm.

There are a lot you could always just try googling Funny Pranks or something.

But what i found was funny below me is like have someone go downstairs & call someone there on thier cell phone numerous time like heavily breathing or something, & have them go outside & bang on the window.. that always works

haha have fun xo

Q: Sorry i dunno what topic this is but i was wondering when you get your cell phone bill by mail do they also give you the record of all the incoming calls and the calls you made? And if you pay the cell phone bill online instead do they also give you a record of all your calls? Thanks in advance =]

wellll i have verizon & when they mail the bill it says all the calls, but idk you might be able to disable that. & im not sure about onlinee, but probably.

sorrrry if didnt help.
xox

Q:
so its like my dream to get really really good at wakeboarding. the thing is, whenever it's my time to wakeboard i chicken out and i can't do it. i'm really scared i'm going to have a horrible fall and hurt myself so i just cant get myself to go out in the water and do it. i've went wake boarding before but i had some pretty ugly falls and i suck at it.

first off how do i let myself get into the water to wakeboard without chickening out? and what are some tips for staying up on the board? please tell me everything there is to know about wakeboarding. i tried google but i just got confused.

hiii. i wakeboard in the summer alot. i have never gotten hurt. you usually arent going that fast that you are gonna get whipped off, and as long as you dont like lean forward and catch and edge your fine. if your just going and not doing any jumps you will probably fall, but you wont fall hard enough. my brother who does jumps & all of that stuff has only badly fallen once, and gotten a minor concussion, and that was after attempting a trick, which i cant remember

sorry if i didnt help.

Q: whats it called when you sign a contract, with other people, and it states that the last living person can keep whatever the contract is for. like in the simpsons? with the flying hellfish. thanks a lot

i dont really understand what you are really talking about, but do you mean like a will?

idk sorry if i didnt help.
xox

Q: I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

most important thing you need at
any resturant: chicken fingers :]

Q: In the grade 8 graduation they gave some awards for some subjects. How many are there and what are they?

it really does depend on your school, so i would reccomend asking someone. I know at my school they givee just like one, an outstanding student thing. sorrry if i didnt help

byeee xoxx :]

Q: i have been playing the piano for 7 years. i am looking for FREE piano sheet music for john legend and/or alicia keys. where can i find these?

heey.. i playyy piano too. and i found a site where you can download some. but im not sure if they have what you want but they have a lot of other cool stuff.

www.freewebs.com/sheetmusic123

sorrry if they dont have it.
byeee! xox :]

Q: 13/f
5'1
118.8 lbs.

about how much am i over weight? and what are good excersices to lose weight???

THANK YOU!!!! :]

Heey. Your BMI (body mass index) is 22.3. Which is normal :]

http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/

xox - allly

Q: hey I'm getting an iPod video in a few days
and I just wanna know

how many music videos can you hold ?
how many whole movies can you hold ?
how many pictures can you hold ?
how many songs can you hold ?

how much are the songs ?
how much are the videos ?
how much are the whole movies ?

how long does the battery last when charged ?

thank you
and I might have more questions , so heres my aim
okay miss meghan

haha
thankss

hey the personn below pretty much answered the questions . but if you get itunes, the songs are 99 cents. The prices of the TV shows and movies vary.

Q: I am 14 and a girl. I just shaved off all my pubes for the first time. Its all itchy. Thats probably because I didnt get the hairs close to the actual vagina. How do i get those without hurting myself?

Heyyy..

its best to use a new razor because it is sharper and will cut more closely.

Sorrrry but that is all i know

xox allyy

Q: what are the bases? like sexual i dont know what they are. thanks haha i feel so stupid.

oh and i was watching a movie and the girl and a girl named vanessa talked:
girl: so who have you made out with?
Vanessa: some kid who was into indie rock.
girl: anddd... the dirty details?
vanessa: idnn
Girl: at least give me numbers
Vanessa: ok definitely 1 and 2 and a little bit of three.

what do those numbers mean?

haha wow. wellll at my school itss like this. the 4 F's.

1- french
2- feel
3- finger
4- wellll.. all the way.

:)

Q: ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad???

um. well it would be kinda grosss acuse you'd beee likee eating thier bloodd.. it defff isnt sanitary. and you probb could get sick. aids. ha

Q: are most guys a boob man or an ass man?

im not a guy... but i know a lotta my guy friends likee butt's more. but then again they are def. interested in boobs. so it bascically depends on the guy.

xox

Q: My bf wants to go all the way but i am not sure i am ready. I keep having fantasies of us together but i stop myself. It's getting really hard because he brings condums every time we see each other. My friends and their bf's are doing it...should I?

age: 15/f
my bf: 18

hm. well if you are really questioning your self if you should do it or not, then you obviously arent ready. You are only 15.. and plus hes 18, and if you tell him that you dont wanna go all the way and he gets mad then he isnt good for you because he shouldnt pressure you into doing something you dont want to. & just cause all of your friends are doing it doesnt mean you should, haha i know it sounds lame but its the truth.

goood luck

Q: I love my mom so much. But most times she really scares me. She dresses like a hooker wearing really tight short shorts and and belly tops that reveal way too much. She goes to these late night clubs and always brings strange men home. I can almost swear that they are high. One guy showed me his gun and laughed histerically but never told me why he had it. I don't know what to do. She scares my friends away, and one time during a parent teacher conference my teacher almost called the cops. I was so humiliated.

What do i do?

heey.
if it really bothers you so much, you should probably sit down and talk to her. Try not to be so harsh, but you arent really going to be able to fix the problem unless she knows that it makes you uncomfortable and embarrassed. If you need anymore help justtt drop it in my inbox

good luck sweetie xox

Q: tommorw i have the my doctor physical .
i havent drank alcohol for about 19 days [ i havent been accually drunk for over 3 months], but im worried my doctor still be able to tell i drank by a blood or urine test ?

idk but one thing that i know is that when i usually have a physical they dont take a urine sample or a blood test unless you want to be tested or need to be. sorrry i couldnt help butt. he probably wont be able to tell dont worry about ittt.

Q: i think i have an addiction to that site.
neopets.
it's insane.
every day on the weekends, i get up IT'S NEOPETS ALL DAY!!
I play neopets everyday, all day.
after school=neopets
when i wake up=neopets until i have to go to bed again
i have a serious problem.
its like rotting my brain.
help me break the addiction!!
some would say i need a life.
so come right out with the cold hard truth in whatever way you can.
but be honest.
sometimes ive even said no to having plans with friends, or thought about it, BECAUSE I WANTED TO DO NEOPETS ALL DAY!!!
anything else i can do to be active?

wellll if you really want to stop.. just try like going on it less and less each day, eventually going down to not playing it at all. or you could block the website. it would probably be harder though to stop once and for all. you could also get involved with a sport or something that could make you more occupied. good luck . xoxo