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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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i've been "talking" to this guy for almost a month now. we text almost everyday for like hours. for 2 days this week we got to go into school late so he called me in the morning for a wake up call (both days) and he asked me to bring him to school (he has alot of friends that drive). he asked me to hang out last night with a few friends to watch a movie and we cuddled and he held my hand. then when we were alone we just made out and he held me and we talked and made out some more hah but he didn't go in my pants or anything, just lots of kissing haha. i fell asleep in his arms then woke up this morning in his arms :) but a girl i met told me he's a player, that's why i'm worried. i might be starting to fall for this guy but i don't wanna get played. his facebook says he's looking for a relationship though..what do you think i should do? like i usually let him text me first (he always does) and i'm not coming off as desperate at all. any opinion or advice would be greatt! thanks!
Hey there okay first let me just say awww =)
that sounds so cute.
okay anyway..
this is a tough situation you cant always go on what people tell you about others.
you need to make your own judgements and opinions on people I feel anyway
if you listened to one persons view on another and used that as an excuse not to talk or get close to anyone when you think about it youd never meet new people.
she may be right she may be wrong but you need to make up your own mind. from what youve said he seems great so far.
don't listen to what could be a bias opinion of a girl who could be jealous or just craving attention or whatever.
you have to take risks on people sometimes they work out sometimes they dont but thats how we learn from our mistakes.
you seem to really like this guy so I say go for it.
if your hearing from alot of people that hes a player just be wary and cautious see if hes changed and is serious about starting a relatioship.
if it was just that one girl then i wouldnt even think twice about it,everyone has different opinions and impressions of people that are often sometimes wrong.
I hope this helped and made some sense :) id advice you to listen to your gut instinct its almost 99.99 percent right :) if you have a good feeling go for it if not be wary :)
good luck and keep me posted!
Much
me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and lately he seems extremely emotionless and uninterested around me, especially in public. but then we'll be alone and everything will be good. i think im just freaking myself out and every little thing he does that makes it seem like hes uninterested absolutely kills me. he says hes tired or hes sore from conditioning or something (which i understand) but sometimes have a hard time believing. am i just freaking myself out? what should i do to calm myself down, and whats he really thinking?
Hey there :)
Okay hm this is a tough one,as nobody really knows for sure but him. unfortunately I or no one else on here can really tell you what hes thinking all we can really do is make persumptions.
Ok so what you need to do is ask yourself how often does it happen?
it must be happening alot to make you actually wonder about it.
Is he constantly making excuses for his lack of interest? or has it just been ocasional when he genuninely is tired or whater?
your instincts should be able to tell you. go with your gut feeling.
if you feel in your heart that theres definately something up then 99.99% of the time there is.
So ask him straight out whats up..the only way to solve this and to stop torturing yourself is communication.
ask him why hes asking this way and to just be honest with you.
If you dont want to do that just yet leave it another little while just to make sure 100% your not jumping to conclusions.
Don't stress yourself out any longer and just find out once and for all youl feel better when you do :)
I hope this helped in any way.
any more questions please feel free to inbox me.
Much
okay so i dated a guy for a year, we broke up cause we lost the 'connection', then we started hanging out, got back together, then broke up cause we lost the 'connection' again. (he ended it both times)
i kinda like being single but i miss him a ton. he tells me he thinks about me more than he should. i didn't say anything like i miss him or anything, i'm kinda jsut playing it cool and being friends for now. i want to like be something like a kind of friends with benefits kinda deal though...i know some people think its stupid but since college is coming i wanna try and be single but if we hang out or something i just want to like jump on him and cuddle. do guys like the whole friends w benefits thing? and like, how should i bring it up? thank youu
Hey there,
firstly im sorry its been so long since ive replied Ive been really busy.
Okay so friends with benefits.. its a risky one
Id advice you Not to get into it if you think your going to devolop old feelings and want the relationship to actually go somewhere again.
If you wanna go into it you have to make sure you both have the same intentions of it just being a fun kinda get with you when I see you thing then its okay as long as you both agree thats all it is a fun fling.
Personally I think its a bad idea,your only gonna find yourself opening up old wounds and growing even more attacthed and hes gonna start to think he can have you when he wants,And no girl wants that trust me. as long as your okay as being seen in that light but in my opinion you deserve better. Ive done the whole friends with benefits and from my experience it doesnt work it ends up ugly and the girl almost always ends up hurt and worse off.
your best bet is to either ask him what the deal is if he still thinks about you why doesnt he want to be with you and make a proper go? or let go and move on and enjoy college with new experiences.
and to answer your question about guys liking it they love it. it means they have a girl they can practicly just get with whenever they feel like with no strings attached the ideal situation. dont subject yourself to that unless you know for sure youd be happy with just that and seeing him probably get with other girls at the same time.
Its totally up to you but thats how I feel on the whole thing,be friends just friends a couple or nothing at all but dont get involved in the tangled mess that is friends with benfits!
I hope this helped and made some sense to you :)
again sorry its a late reply,anymore questions please feel free to ask :)
Much
im 16/male my girlfriend and i have been togther just over 7 months shes also 16 and lately weve talked about sex were both virgins im still nervous my penis is not that big and im worried that i wont be any good but im still dont think im ready for sex yet she seems keen im nervus about talking to her what should i do?
hey there okay I think youve practicly answered the question there by saying your not ready.
if your not ready then whatever you do don't let yourself become pressured into doing it,its your body your choice for whenever you feel you want to do it.
I know your nervous but you need to tell her how you feel shes your gf she should understand and not push you and want to wait.
After all your just 16 theres soo much time before you have to get down to that there are plenty of other things you can do to express how your feeling.
and dont forget all the risks associated you have to know how to put a condom on properly..when you do decide to do it make sure you practice putting one on first (I know it sounds silly but trust me you wouldnt believe the amount of guys who do it wrong,better safe then sorry)
Honestly talk to you gf and wait until you have no doubts and feel 100% ready,if she doesnt understand then shes honestly not worth it.
I hope this helps and let me just say I think its great you wanna wait you have a very level head on your shoulders and don't let anyone make you give in you dont see that often in a guy :)
good luck,and much
Do u ever wake up have nothing planned and feel sad. SOmetimes I wake up and I feel like I dont want to call anybody I just want to have something to do...like school or a career i enjoyed or a place to go...somewhere I can go when im feeling down...something I can do???...do you ever feel this way...what do you do when you wake up feeling BLAH! I felt this way today and all I wanted to do was call my bf becasue he is who i turn to but I understand that he has his own things to do and doesnt want to here me complain. So i spoke to some friends on the phone and heard them complain...this didnt help me and so i watched a movie by myself...still felling BLAH! what should I do to put me in a more positive mood???
Heyy there.
Oh trust me ive had plenttyyy of those days myself like when your in that sh*tty mood and you don't even know why? sometimes your fine and it just comes from no where and you cant really describe it.
its best not to really go to friends because your in that sort of mood where you dont know what you want to do and you can get really iritable.
what I usually do is get creative, I write some stuff sometimes about how im feeling or a crappy little poem or something like that then rip it up it makes me feel a lot better sometimes I write down all the good things in my life or old funny memories to brighten my mood.
Or I listen to music that always helps I don't know why.
I go for a walk sometimes,everyones different for me I just have to take a step back to be by myself and just shake it off it usually doesnt take long until im all bubbly again lol.
organise something fun for the weekend or something like that which will give you something to look forward to?
another thing i sometimes do is bake something yummy to make myself feel better lool like cookies or cupcakes or something :) it works suprisingly.
I dont know they are just some ideas that work for me you could give them a try if you want :)
Hope this helps much
Hi I'm 19 year old female and I'm in my second semester of college. I have a great boyfriend and I was talking to him today. And well he has a lot of friends and is very out going and I'm the complete opposite. And we were talking and I was trying to explain to him why I don't have hardly any friends. When I walk into a room I automatically think that people are judging me. I don't start talking to strangers unless I have known them for a while. I feel uncomfortable when I am around a bunch of people I don't know. I know it sounds like I'm just shy. But i don't understand why I get so scared and nervous and feel like people are practically out to get me. I was just wondering if maybe it was possible that I am just over reacting or if something is maybe wrong. Thank you for your time!
hey there :)
okay let me just say theres absolutely nothing wrong with you!
many people feel this way from time to time others have always been naturally shy its just in your nature thats all and its all about learning and gaining the confidence to come out of your shell abit.
First you should think about all your great qualities,you know what makes me, me. sort of thing.
remind yourself your a fun loving nice to be around kinda person.
when meeting new people relax and try to put it to the back of your mind,pretend they are like friends youve known for years,bring up a general topic of interest you know music tv shows just ask the person stuff about themselves and get to know them.I know it seems scary but it gets easier the more you relax and the more you do it.
Just be yourself and let people see the wonderful person that you are and that your boyfriend sees.
maybe next time your out get talking to people together it might make it easier on you :)
Just remember and try to do all theese things and hopefully things will get better
I hope I helped :)
Much
This is kinda random-but I've come to realize i really don't have a best friend?- I used to have one,from when i was 3 up until about 3 years ago (she's older, going to college,working-ect)and we've just grown apart. So lately i've been looking around a noticing- everyone has a best friend. I sort of feel like i've missed my chance at getting that title, because i'm 16 and usually your best friend's the one you've known since you were little,you know? I really have no one, i mean i have awesome close close friends-but none that i'd really consider that one best friend-anymore. Am I alone in this? Am I..missing something? I guess it's got me feeling kind of down XD.
Hey there :)
Aw your not alone theese things happens to girls all the time bestfriends come in and out of our lives and only those who are really lucky have like one forever.
Its something that happens unfortuntately I know it can be a little upsetting sometimes but try not to get yourself down over it,concentrate on you and as you said your awesome friends dont be looking at others and comparing who says everyone HAS to have like one best friend theyve known for ages..I know plenty who dont. a friend of mine is going through a similar situation she grew apart from her bf and now doesnt really have that label but shes fine with it you move on and learn to accept it its a case of time really and just being happy being with your other friends..maybe one will emerge you never know :)
dont spend your time feeling lonely when youv got good friends. go out have fun !
hope I helped
Much
ok so my boyfriend fingered me the other day
hes done it before usually one or two fingers..im really tight.
but the other day he tried three and since then ive been in pain
and i checked it out in a mirror today, and its really swollen, and my vagina is really swollen and much tighter than usual...and theres white in the hole...what the heck is wrong with me?
it hurts really bad and itches and it hurts when i pee...
WHAT IS THIS IM SO SCARED
please help!!
hey there.. ok im not a docotor so I cant tell you for sure but I can make a rough guestimation!
It could be down to a number of reasons..seeing as he used three fingers he could have been a little rough causing some tearing and swelling of your vagina
but considering the other symptoms youve described your boyfriend could of caused some kind of infection if his fingernails were too long or werent clean that sort of thing.
but as i said i could be completely wrong or right.. could be nothing and pass in a few days or could be something lol you wont know for sure unless you go get checked out by the doctor as embarassing as those kinda situations may seem its better to be safe then sorry!
Hope I helped Much
So, theres this guy.. he is only in one of my classes this semester, but i've known him forever. I don't have a crush on him or anything, but hes a cool guy to just hang out with. He is the kind of person who would pick up my binder if I dropped it, make a joke to make someone smile, or help me with an assignment if I asked him. Otherwise, he is pretty quiet at school. Whenever I see him at least. I don't know what he does on the weekends, besides avoiding his parents and hanging out with his buddies.
He sits at the back of the class, and he tends to keep to himself unless he is with his few guy friends then he shows his real personality. We tend to get along well when we do talk. If anything, he would be like a fun brother to me.
Around the beggining of the year, about two months into school he decided to ask me, when I am sitting alone on the bench with no one around, if I wanted to be his escort for Grad. I said yes :) I was kind of surprised he would ask me and so early in the year, but I was thinking he would be a fun guy to go with (plus hes one of the actual nice guys). He smiled and then we talked about what color of tux he would get and what I was going to wear that would match.
Basically I am wondering if the reason he asked me is because he likes me or he asked me when we were alone for he didn't want his guy friends to know, and/or he wanted to ask me before someone else did. Or if he just asked me for some other reason.
This is now three months since then, but should I sit beside him next semester if we are in more classes together? I don't want grad to come and all of a sudden it is a little awkward. Actually, I think it should work out for we both have good personalities. How do I know if he does likes me? We are both 17.
I was thinking when it gets real close to grad I should smile and ask him 'so why did you want me to be your escort?' :) Hmm, please answer all my questions and tell me what you think about him asking me :p
Hey there
Okay I think this guy sounds awesome your very lucky to have a guy friend like that :)
and I can relate to this somewhat because my best guy friend asked me to his Debs (Prom) next august.
Its hard to read the guys mind but what you need to do is figure out his intentions and your own.
youve already said you just see him as like a brother are you 100% sure about that?
I wouldnt worry about it being awkward if you get on well itl be a blast.
you should definately sit beside him I mean why not?
hes a friend right?
you figure out how he likes you roughly by reading his body lanuage towards you doe she flirt in a subtle way? smile at you alot touch you alot?
go out of his way to talk to you?
I think the question you came up with at the end is the perfect one :) and you should definately ask him,but that comes with risks too you dont want him confessing to you he really likes you and you saying then you just wanna be friends then it would look like youve led him on so you should deal with it early on and say ok are we going as friends then (after youve come to a fairly solid estimation as to whether he likes you and your truely sure about your feelings)
because then its going to get awkward.
Its hard at times trying to figure out guys me and my bestfriend decided were just going as friends because I found out he liked me as more for a while but I didnt feel the same way.
I hope I made some sense and you understand where im coming from lol and that everything works out and you guys have a great time
much
im 18/f.
i need a new look for my bedroom, right now the walls are like an aqua blue w/ purple trim. my bed spread/sheets are blue, purple and green. i just need an updated look, something more sosphicated. any ideas? thanks :)
Hey there :)
hmm lets see This might be a bit hard because I dont know the colours or stlyes you like or might go for but Il just trash some ideas out there see what you think :)
I personally think that a black and white themed room is great its sophisticated yet edgey at the same time (I know some feel it might be a bit dark but if done right can look fab)
sometihing like this bedspread maybe..
http://www.retro-housewife.com/images/furniture/2000/2008/2008-black-white-room.jpg
whats also nice is black and fuicha pink my friend has her room that way shes got a plain sorbet pink on the wall and has brought it out with a black bedspread with fuisha pink designs and lots of cushins
if thats too severe you could go like a warm nuteral colour and bring it out just a small bit like lilac or light purple and cream
theres so many different looks you can choose from..do you want something dark or bright? its hard to go on!
anyway there just some ideas of mine I dont know if they will be of your taste heh but i do hope it helped in some way
much
Me and this guy,joe have been talking for about a month. We chilled every weekend atleast once except this weekend.We chilled during the week too and at school he would accompany me to my locker ,to lunch,to class and kiss me before class.Friday we made plans but he told me his brother was coming down and it was his bro's birthday so he couldn't chill.He texted me the next day,just to talk but it wasn't for very long.Then he texted me again later that night just to talk as well.His brother left the next day but he told me he had a formal party to go to that night (which is true because another one of my friends was there and saw him) and so he couldn't chill but he said after the party ,he could hangout.He never called me after the party and it's been a whole day since he's texted me.Am I being crazy? I'll see him at school tomorrow for sure because I have a class with him.But is he just busy this weekend? or is he trying to brush me off?We were going so good and last weekend he told me he really liked me .Nothing bad happened between us either!Also,if he does continue to talk to me at school,should i confront him about it? or will he just think im nagging? I guess we aren't going out,so i don't really have the right to be mad but I'm worried!
Hey there :)
ok I can relate to what your saying as im sure many girls on here can! classic guy really.
they get close to you then they get scared and start to distance them selves a little bit because they are usually afraid of commitment or clinginess or whatever,its totally normal it could be that he just wants time to him self for a while and youve nothing to worry about,just give him some space for like a week or so and wait for him to text you,still talk to him and stuff but let him make the plans so your making sure your not coming off pushy.
try not to worry yourself too much you could be reading too much into it i tend to do it aloot my self! over anaylise.
So id leave things for now see how they go if he continuodly starts to make plans i would say somethings up and you need to ask him is he avoiding you but not just yet as he might get a bit creeped.you know what guys are like lol
I hope that helped in anyway and I cleared some stuff up.
anymore questions please feel free to inbox me
Much
is there anyway of downloading pictures form my laptop on to my lg cookie ? thanks
Hey there yep as far as I know there is.. did the phone come with a USB? is so plug it into your phone then your usb port on your computer and a little window should come up prompting you on what to do. there should be a manual with the phone explaining in it anyway =)
thats all I know really hope it helped somehow
much
So last Saturday me and this guy had sex, wasn't the first time I had with him but we were drunk. well he busted but I didnt realize and the condom broke after, inside of me. oh I'm 15... what are the chance that i got pregnant I got off my period not that long ago... but just i dont know what to do !
Hey there,
Ok I know this is what you want to here.. but yea theres a high risk that you are pregnant if the condom broke nobody can say 100% until your due your period if your late,then your in trouble and u should take a test,if i were you id get the morning after pill it might be too late but as far as I know it lasts 72hours..
you should really be more carefull and avoid getting into situations by sleeping with random guys when your drunk your only 15 your better then that trust me. have some self respect and dignity it will go along way and if you are gonna do it be careful..ive seen first hand the consequences im not trying to be harsh but you need to be more responsible if your gonna be having sex you run the risk of stuff like this and you definately wont be mature enough to handle a baby at the moment think about it.
Anyway I hope I helped you probably wont like what ive said but its the truth I really do Hope things are okay this time and you are not pregnant for your sake.
Much
i dated a guy for over a year. he broke up with me like a little over a month ago, i was crushed and devestated but i'm getting over it now. i saw he was in a relationship so i texted him. he ended up calling me that night saying that he met someone that he needed as a friend, to be there and to understand him and then that girl just started liking him so he went along with it. (he was depression and not many real friends) he said that the more he hangs out with he's finding out that she's annoying. he told me he also told her that he needed a month to himself. i know he has depression (his parents are going through a divorce) but i'm getting scared that he's now suicidal. he asked me how i was taking the whole 'breaking up' thing and i was i was doing really well..then he said "we like switched roles this time" (we broke up once before and i was the one who was really upset) so yeah he told me he's never told anyone these secrets. he didn't tell me, but he hinted to me and came extremely close to. i know he's suicidal, just don't know the details. i also told him that if he ever needed a shoulder, i'm always here. and he said it meant alot and stuff.
so yeah he's dating this girl that he thinks is annoying, he says she caught him on the rebound and he's suicidal. his girlfriend obviously doesn't know about it. and i'm pretty sure i'm the only one who does since he said he can't open up to anyone at his school or his home. what do i do? i want him to open up to me. i didn't try to force it out of him but i told him i'm here. and what do you think of this whole girlfriend thing? i just need your opinion and any advice would be amazingg. thanks.
Hey there :) sorry its taken me this long to reply ive been super busy with school anyway.
okay firstly let me say I think its great how well your dealing with the break up espically considering it was a long relationship.
I can relate to this in a small way as regards the suicidal part,(an ex of mine was extremely depressed also over family issues) what your doing so far is perfect,telling him that youl be there as a friend to help as best you can and that hes not alone. thats really important keep reminding him of that because depressed people sometimes feel completely isolated.
The main thing is try not to panic and stress yourself,I know its so scary but it could just be a phase in his process of coming to terms with the divorce and that. but then again it might pass or it could be serious I would say watch him closly over the next little while his behaviour constantly remind him of the good things in life and to be positive if he seems to be getting worse,I know he told you not to tell anyone but itl come to the stage where youl have to if he cant get through this by himself or with your support.
Its alot for you to have to deal with alone too he will thank you in the long run too.
as for that gf id but it down to him just trying to find consolation in someone else basicly a rebound. she obviously didnt mean much to him if he didnt confide in her and has already broken up so I wouldnt read too much into it.
Thats really all I can advice you for now just watch and see if he starts to pick up if not someone else needs to be told like a family member so he can get help.
I really hope I helped in some way!
Much
15/f
So I'm going out with this guy since the beginning of November. He cares about me alot and its crazy. I do like him. But the thing is, when he first asked me out. I liked another guy but still decided to give my boyfriend a chance. I still like the other guy, alot. He's one of my friends so he's harder to get over. He likes me too but he doesn't know how I feel about him. He's definitely not happy about me getting another boyfriend and tells me about it. I don't let his opinion change what I do. It's just, I still have feelings for him but I still like my boyfriend. It's not easy to forget about him because I talk to him every week. We see each other like 3 or 4 times a week and I'm friends with his sister so I see him way more.
I don't really know what to do. I haven't mentioned any of this to anyone except one friend. She thinks the guy I'm dating now is better for me. I totally agree because he treats me so good but you know, there is always something about your guy friends. I've liked him for about a year so this one isn't gonna be quick to get over.
What should I do? Thanks
Hey there okay i can really relate to to this in a big way.
Its like you love your bf but this other guy just has that something you cant resist and youve got alot of history and what not.
From what youve said I can see you love your friend and you only care about your bf.
you need to look at both characters,is your friend a good guy?would he ever hurt you? is he the player type?would he treat you right?
if no to all of them I would highly start to consider the fact that you may be with the wrong person theres no point fooling yourself into staying in a relationship with someone when your heart is elsewhere and your truely not`100/% in it I know its hard and nobody likes getting hurt or being the one to do it but you cant help who you fall for its not fair on you or your bf.
so I would say in that case end it and follow your heart and true feelings.
If your doubting some of those questions and arent sure if the other guy is good for you well dont throw away what you have with your bf stick to your guns and do your best to bury your feelings dont see him as much.
Its a risky situaton but honestly you already know the answer in your heart.
with the guy I really liked while with my bf he was sort of a player type and at one stage I was considering taking the risk but I didnt and Im so glad I didnt.
but everyones different and this guy may be totally different and the choice is completely yours but I hope I helped give a little insight into it.
good luck and much
ok so im keep telling myself im over my freind let's call him ron, i mean he is dating my friends lets call her tracy. Ron liked her a lot it was really annoying and i had feelings for him at the time. so i got those two together and im happy they are. but everytime i see them together i get this sharp pain in my chest for a moment and than im fine. the thing is i want to be over ron so bad i've like him to long and i need to move on, but i just can't. I DON'T KNOW WHY!! it is so freakin annoying. Its my last semester in high school and its time to tie up lose ends but this problem will not go away. what should i do? i thought getting together would help and i be over this but its just become worse. UGH HELP!!!
Hey there
I tend to agree and disagree with the last answer ok let me just first say Ive been there as have a loott of girls and I completely understand that sharp pain :(
the way I see it you have two choices :
1st is to go with the last answer and confess how youve always felt.. it has its pros and cons youl feel like a huge weight has been lifted and maybe he might just see you the same,or if not it might make it easier to move on. but if he doesnt feel the same you run the risk of ruining two good friendships. nobody wants that right before the end of the semester.
Option 2. I hate to say it but pretty much what youve been doing,grinning and bearing it.
I know how hard it is but the trick is time and to keep yourself busy and distracted from even thinking of him and them two together you did a very brave and selfless thing by getting them together you should be proud and keep trying to move on with your live and enjoy it have fun.
dont keep stressing over him hes just one piece of the puzzle of all the future love interests to come keep optimistic dont let it get you down and in time i promise you it will ease and eventually youl be able to look at him and her and say ok im over you im fine with this.
The choice is completely yours and I wish you luck in whatever you choose to do and I hope this helps and things get easier its a sucky thing to have to go through but even think of this to get you through it they wont last forever chances are unlikely that helped me alot to get over it because I was in the exact same situation.
Hope it all works out much
okay. so i have ben dating this guy for over a year now and we are so close we have done everything really so there im close to his family well close enough for now and im 17 i think it would be okay if i slept at his house with my mom knowing it would be great i wouldnt have to leave and id be happy his mom doesnt care if she talks to my mom. but my mom wont even let us in my room together whatever but so here what is a way that i could talk my mom into letting me go sleep at his house or let him in my room when he comes over.????
Hey there,
this is an issue that some parents find really hard to deal with trusting their daughter with her bf.
you guys have been dating a year and thats seriously longer then most couples alot stay in the same room after a few months,sit down and talk with your mom show her how mature you are and that you really care about your bf and you respect her enough to ask and not sneak around behind her back.
moms are like that always trying to protect us tell her your growing up and she has to give you some freedom sometime would she rather you lie and sneak around?
if she sticks to her guns dont get upset about it be mature and handle it well in front of her
In my opinion you guys are more then ready and should be alowed sleep in the same room and stay over in each others houses ive only been with my bf 4months and luckily my mom lets me.
like you said try getting his mom to talk yours around.
I hope that helps in some way
good luck :)
much
my period ended about a week ago and my periods are normal (they come every 28 days, every month) i've had sex for the past two days and today i was bleeding a little.. could i be pregnant? or am i just being paranoid and it's too soon to be showing any signs of pregnancy? thank you in advance
Hey there, ok well its quite dificult to tell sometimes periods are irregular for the strangest of reasons.
First thing im gonna ask is did you use protection and/or are you on birth control?
if so chances are very unlikely and you are probably just stressing that it didnt come bang on time which can contribute to them being later.
I wouldnt jump to conclusions just yet,wait a week after the day you were due your period still no sign then id go to the doctor or take a test dont worry too much from what youve said chances seem slim :)
hope everything works out and that I helped much
I like this guy I met over Myspace. I found out he goes to my school but, he's one year younger! We ended up exchanging numbers and I ended up really liking him, but he has had many girlfriends and they're all way prettier than me. I honestly don't think I stand a chance. The worst part is at times he flirts with me and I flirt back, but other times I text him and he doesn't write back. I don't know if he likes me or not, I'm getting all these mixed signals. Please help me, does he like me and do I stand a chance?
hey there :)
ok firstly what il say to you is dont compare yourself to other girls like that! everyones pretty in different ways and i bet you are too you just don't realise have a bit more confidence in yourself :)
thats the first thing you have to do is believe in yourself because if you dont like yourself how do you expect anyone else to?
ok its very hard for me to say whether he likes you are not guys are soo confusing id run out of fingers and toes trying to count the amount of times ive gotten mixed signals from guys.
I think you definately stand a chance tho keep chatting and flirting and dropping subtle hints and find out where its going from there dont knock yourself out before youve even entered the ring as they say vi wouldnt read to much into the not texting back thing he probably forgets sometimes. take the risk put yourself out there youl never know if you dont hope I helped im sorry I couldnt exaclty answer your question but i do hope that gave some insight sorry its taken me a while to reply was busy with christmas and that :)
good luck and much
ive got a built in webcam on my laptop and when i go on web cam with people on msn i wot to be able to make it go black and white does anyone know how i could do this ? ivegot windows live messanger by the way :)
hey there im not 100 % sure I havnt used my webcam in ages but you could try this I do hope it helps
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