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does he like me? or just wants some...


Question Posted Saturday March 6 2010, 8:42 pm

i've been "talking" to this guy for almost a month now. we text almost everyday for like hours. for 2 days this week we got to go into school late so he called me in the morning for a wake up call (both days) and he asked me to bring him to school (he has alot of friends that drive). he asked me to hang out last night with a few friends to watch a movie and we cuddled and he held my hand. then when we were alone we just made out and he held me and we talked and made out some more hah but he didn't go in my pants or anything, just lots of kissing haha. i fell asleep in his arms then woke up this morning in his arms :) but a girl i met told me he's a player, that's why i'm worried. i might be starting to fall for this guy but i don't wanna get played. his facebook says he's looking for a relationship though..what do you think i should do? like i usually let him text me first (he always does) and i'm not coming off as desperate at all. any opinion or advice would be greatt! thanks!

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JustJessOx answered Monday March 8 2010, 4:16 pm:
Hey there okay first let me just say awww =)
that sounds so cute.
okay anyway..
this is a tough situation you cant always go on what people tell you about others.
you need to make your own judgements and opinions on people I feel anyway
if you listened to one persons view on another and used that as an excuse not to talk or get close to anyone when you think about it youd never meet new people.
she may be right she may be wrong but you need to make up your own mind. from what youve said he seems great so far.
don't listen to what could be a bias opinion of a girl who could be jealous or just craving attention or whatever.
you have to take risks on people sometimes they work out sometimes they dont but thats how we learn from our mistakes.
you seem to really like this guy so I say go for it.
if your hearing from alot of people that hes a player just be wary and cautious see if hes changed and is serious about starting a relatioship.
if it was just that one girl then i wouldnt even think twice about it,everyone has different opinions and impressions of people that are often sometimes wrong.
I hope this helped and made some sense :) id advice you to listen to your gut instinct its almost 99.99 percent right :) if you have a good feeling go for it if not be wary :)
good luck and keep me posted!
Much <3
Jess

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