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matters of the heart
ok so im keep telling myself im over my freind let's call him ron, i mean he is dating my friends lets call her tracy. Ron liked her a lot it was really annoying and i had feelings for him at the time. so i got those two together and im happy they are. but everytime i see them together i get this sharp pain in my chest for a moment and than im fine. the thing is i want to be over ron so bad i've like him to long and i need to move on, but i just can't. I DON'T KNOW WHY!! it is so freakin annoying. Its my last semester in high school and its time to tie up lose ends but this problem will not go away. what should i do? i thought getting together would help and i be over this but its just become worse. UGH HELP!!!
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I think if you really really like Ron, then maybe you should tell him. But, you're going to have to deal with the consequences of liking a taken guy and admitting it to him.
But, you have to respect his choice if he stays with Tracy.
--Jack
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Hey there
I tend to agree and disagree with the last answer ok let me just first say Ive been there as have a loott of girls and I completely understand that sharp pain :(
the way I see it you have two choices :
1st is to go with the last answer and confess how youve always felt.. it has its pros and cons youl feel like a huge weight has been lifted and maybe he might just see you the same,or if not it might make it easier to move on. but if he doesnt feel the same you run the risk of ruining two good friendships. nobody wants that right before the end of the semester.
Option 2. I hate to say it but pretty much what youve been doing,grinning and bearing it.
I know how hard it is but the trick is time and to keep yourself busy and distracted from even thinking of him and them two together you did a very brave and selfless thing by getting them together you should be proud and keep trying to move on with your live and enjoy it have fun.
dont keep stressing over him hes just one piece of the puzzle of all the future love interests to come keep optimistic dont let it get you down and in time i promise you it will ease and eventually youl be able to look at him and her and say ok im over you im fine with this.
The choice is completely yours and I wish you luck in whatever you choose to do and I hope this helps and things get easier its a sucky thing to have to go through but even think of this to get you through it they wont last forever chances are unlikely that helped me alot to get over it because I was in the exact same situation.
Hope it all works out much <3
Jess 16/f
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Alright girlie, sounds like you have some confessing to do. You have to tell "Ron" your completly and totally in love with him. Then, from here on out, if he wants you enough he'll dump this "Tracey" and ask you to be his girl. That's my outlook; good luck!!
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