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boyfriend is emotionless
me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and lately he seems extremely emotionless and uninterested around me, especially in public. but then we'll be alone and everything will be good. i think im just freaking myself out and every little thing he does that makes it seem like hes uninterested absolutely kills me. he says hes tired or hes sore from conditioning or something (which i understand) but sometimes have a hard time believing. am i just freaking myself out? what should i do to calm myself down, and whats he really thinking?
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If your really worried about it you should talk to him. Because if he doesn't know he's some what hurtig you, he will keep doing it. I'm sure he is just a little tired from what ever sport he does also. He just might be a little tired going out and when he's alone with you he can just be relaxed. But if youy truly thinks theres more talk to him.
Lillian
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Hey there :)
Okay hm this is a tough one,as nobody really knows for sure but him. unfortunately I or no one else on here can really tell you what hes thinking all we can really do is make persumptions.
Ok so what you need to do is ask yourself how often does it happen?
it must be happening alot to make you actually wonder about it.
Is he constantly making excuses for his lack of interest? or has it just been ocasional when he genuninely is tired or whater?
your instincts should be able to tell you. go with your gut feeling.
if you feel in your heart that theres definately something up then 99.99% of the time there is.
So ask him straight out whats up..the only way to solve this and to stop torturing yourself is communication.
ask him why hes asking this way and to just be honest with you.
If you dont want to do that just yet leave it another little while just to make sure 100% your not jumping to conclusions.
Don't stress yourself out any longer and just find out once and for all youl feel better when you do :)
I hope this helped in any way.
any more questions please feel free to inbox me.
Much <3
Jess 16/f
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As for calming yourself down, enjoy the times when things are good. To find out what he is really thinking you have to bring the topic up again. Let him know you understand that he is sore from conditioning (ask him if he wants a massage!) but you are worried there is more to it. Having been together for almost a year, you guys should be able to talk about anything. Since things are not always this way, he probably has something on his mind or something he is going through. While talking with him about your feelings, let him know that you are there for him. Good luck. Hope I helped. If you need anything else, I'm here!
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