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Boys,Rumors,Lies
Well i broke up with my exboyfriend about 2 weeks ago because there were rumors that he was playing me which i kno y people thought he was playin me but he wasnt i figured that story out but it made me get more aware and my eyes became more open well i broke up with him because another girl messaged me and told me he was goin out with her too but he says he wasnt and that the girl was just obsessed with him i really dont know who or what to believe i miss him and he tells me he misses me but i dont know what i should do i really need help im soo confused what do you think i should do? what would you do in this situation?
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Look into it. Get back together with him then find out if she is telling the truth. If she is dump him.
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Well,definitely don't go out with him again.If there is so much chaos going on it means that he is not the right one for you.I know your going to miss him because you still like him but eventually you will get over him.Just let him go.Stay aways from him until your completely over him.I don't want you to get hurt.Take time for yourself and think about what you really want out of life,I think you don't want to be the one who gets cheat on.Wish you the best,I know that later on you will find Mr.Right!:)
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Your first reaction is usually the right one. If you know in your gut and heart that he cheated on you then he probly did. Or if you feel like he didn't cheat on you, and you were only listening to the people who told you the lies then get back together. But maybe takiing some time off from each other is not a bad thing. But ultimately its your choice. Hoped I helped.
Lillian
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It is hard for a relationship to survive rumors. Without proof that it was or was not happening, there are always going to be those "what ifs" in the back of your mind. It makes it even more difficult that someone has come foward and said they dated him at the same time you were. Personally though, I would not try again. I was in the same situation as you a couple of years ago. Everyone in our high school told both of us the other was unfaithful. Since I knew I was loyal, it was easier for me to take his reassurances into consideration. However, our relationship was not healthy having to deal with the constant trust issues. It turned possessive, abusive and controlling. I'm not saying that this will necessarily happen. I'm just saying this issue is something that will always be brought up, and always get in the way of you two trying to be happy together.
I would not get back together with him anytime soon, if at all. If you really want to be with him again, I suggest you wait a while before trying again. Give him time to prove to you he is trustworthy.
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