im a freshman and this boy ... hes either a junior or senior . i noticed him about two weeks ago . i think hes really cute and he seems nice . should i just attempt to get to know him more ? i finally got passed the whole getting him to notice me part cause hes been looking at me in the halls and at lunch .
Chikitah answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 7:15 pm: I think that you should let him make the first move if he really is interested in you he should be the first one to talk not you.Also take in hand that he is older than you so that means he can use you and you can end up hurt.Most of the guys that are juniors and seniors are looking for one thing and I think you what it is.Also he is going to get out of highschool before you,so you going to like someone else.I recommend you to go out with someone your age or one year difference.Probably your mom won't be that happy of the idea of you going out with a junior or senior.Be careful and dont do nothing dumb that can affect your future forever.Good Luck:) [ Chikitah's advice column | Ask Chikitah A Question ]
Lilz answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 3:35 pm: I'm a freshman too. You should go for it. If your past that stage of getting him to notice you it should be easy after that somewhat. But always keep in the back of your mind that he is more mature than you and he knows a lot more. So he might also expect a little more out of a relationship if you knowe what I mean. So be careful and good luck.
cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday March 2 2010, 9:31 am: Yes, I think you should just walk up to him & strike up a conversation. Guys love it when a girl takes the lead & gets to know him. Walk up to him and introduce yourself and go from there, it will pay off.
Hope I Helped. :) [ cloudy_conscience's advice column | Ask cloudy_conscience A Question ]
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