Question Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 7:26 pm
im 16/male my girlfriend and i have been togther just over 7 months shes also 16 and lately weve talked about sex were both virgins im still nervous my penis is not that big and im worried that i wont be any good but im still dont think im ready for sex yet she seems keen im nervus about talking to her what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Thursday January 21 2010, 6:12 pm: hey there okay I think youve practicly answered the question there by saying your not ready.
if your not ready then whatever you do don't let yourself become pressured into doing it,its your body your choice for whenever you feel you want to do it.
I know your nervous but you need to tell her how you feel shes your gf she should understand and not push you and want to wait.
After all your just 16 theres soo much time before you have to get down to that there are plenty of other things you can do to express how your feeling.
and dont forget all the risks associated you have to know how to put a condom on properly..when you do decide to do it make sure you practice putting one on first (I know it sounds silly but trust me you wouldnt believe the amount of guys who do it wrong,better safe then sorry)
Honestly talk to you gf and wait until you have no doubts and feel 100% ready,if she doesnt understand then shes honestly not worth it.
I hope this helps and let me just say I think its great you wanna wait you have a very level head on your shoulders and don't let anyone make you give in you dont see that often in a guy :)
good luck,and much <3
Jess 16/f
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