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im a 14/f, almost 15, and im around 5'4 or 5'5 and about 135 pounds, but im muscular. how many shots would be safe to drink? i drink for fun, but i want to be sure i dont get blood alcohol poisioning. what would the safe amount to drink be?

well im not gonna try to stop you but its not good for you. dont go over 2 or 3 and youll be ok.

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I've had my period for two years now. It's verrrrry irregular. It will skip months and come anytime during the month. I've gone 3 months with out my period. I never know when it's going to show up. I've heard that sometimes if you're skinny that might have something to do with it. I'm like 5'6 and i weigh 105 pounds. Do you think it has anything to do with it? What do you think i should do? Thanks.

oh my, yes i really think it has something to do with your weight. same thing happens to people that are anorexic or very athletic. i think you should see a doctor to see what you can do...its not healthy to skip.

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♥ I was wondering what all the bases were. like 1st 2nd 3rd and home. THANKS! X-o0o-x

well ive heard multiple variations of this when people have asked this. here are some of them:
1. first-french, second-feel, third-finger, home-fuck (the 4 fs)
2. first-makeout, second-mutual masturbation, third-oral, home-sex

ive heard making out as second base too so really just do what your comfortable with, not a particular base because its different everywhere. hope this helps!

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i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal

its your first time...i think you are normal. if it doesnt change in 2 years, ask a doctor.

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i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do?

it should pretty much be done by then...i say go. the water stops it (seriously!) so dont wear a tampon. theres prolly not enough to need one by then really. have fun!

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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe

as long as it stays inside the pants its perfectly fine. if its hanging wayy out there for all to see, yeah you would get a lot of people to think of you as a hoe. just save yourself the trouble and dont go around tellin everyone that you are wearin one.

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hey, i'm 13/f and weigh 95.. Ive been wanting to lose weight because im really skinny but my theighs and butt are really big. So I started not eating wendy's/mcdonalds/burger king/soda/desserts.. I've been doing that for about a month and I havent lost any weight, so I started exercising daily after every meal. I did that for about 2 weeks.. and still, I didnt lose any weight. Should I just go back to eating everything I normally would because eating healthy isnt doing anything and exercising isnt doing anything and I want to keep my metabolism high! what do I do?

well you just have to keep up what you are doing cept DO NOT EXCERSIZE RIGHT AFTER MEALS!! its not good for you! do it in the morning when you wake up or a while after you eat. unless you are like 4'5 you are not fat and dont need to lose weight.

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Okay... my old friend constantly had boyfriends but I know I am prettier than her...and people have told me that but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All the guys just want to have sex but not be in a relationship with me. I am 17 and have never been in a relationship. I know I can get a boyfriend but they all want to just have sex. Is there something wrong with me?

theres nothing wrong with you...a lot of guys a afraid to approach girls like you when they want you for more than a piece of ass. theres nothing wrong with you, youre gonna have to deal with this for a long time. what i would do is be nice and get closer to people that i would actually want to be with that really like you for more than sex. usually thats not the super-popular crowd...i say go for the dorks. ok not the typical dork but guys that dont get all that much attention. theyre a lot of fun.

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I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!?

i say wait a while then if you really want him, take him back and make him swear not to do things with other people and if he does, its over..forever. do what you think is right tho, i dont know your guy or his reputation.

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Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..

love maddie

well i am also going into highschool so i joined the theater program over the summer and i met some new friends b/c i dont like the sitch with my friends SO get involved in something you like to do. for me it was theater so i am with people that like the same things i do. as for guys, dont change. it looks a bit desperate. if you dont have a guy within the first week, dont freak out. just wait for the right guy to come around and then become good friends first. i think thats what you were missing in your relationships. hope this helps!

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do you need to be a certain age to buy condoms or can anyone buy them?

anyone can buy them.

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13/f
ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!!

you are 13...your friend's relationships arent going to last that long, seriously. just stay friends with the guy friends you have b/c they are a lot more than "holding hands and kissing". im 14 and i have had a bf that ended in sadness and ive never been kissed so really, there is nothing to worry about! being single is really not that bad.

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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....

i think you should just tell her so you can keep wearing them and most importantly, washing them! if you said it was a friends everytime she found one she would eventually find out and be pretty mad so next time it comes up, "yeah thats mine"

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I recently broke up with my bf of 2 months because we hadn't been seeing each other as much and I felt a distance grow between us... and started to dislike things about him! At the time when we finished it it seemed right to go back to friendship because we get on well in that way, but now I'm really feeling like I shouldn't have split with him and I regret it! What should I do, will this pass or should I tell him how I feel? Even though I broke up with him? Would it be considered messing with his head? :( im not physically attracted to him either this is purely emotional relation...
im 16!

i would give it a bit more time and then talking to him about it...actually thats what im in the process of doing so im pretty sure about it. make sure you have made up your mind first tho.

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I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX

theres no food that will help with this and rarely do pills work without having negative side effects. padded bras & waiting & gaining weight. thats all you can do.

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Hi,

I'm a sixteen-year-old female, and I've been masterbating for a long time now. Although, I don't know if you can really call it masterbating. Whenever I heard something that aroused me, I would lie down on my stomach, put my hands on my crotch, and just push down until I felt pleasure. Well now, the skin outside my crotch has been stretched out, and the bone there, (or something hard) has been enlarged a lot. Whenever I wear any type of pants at all, my vagina looks large and basically like a penis almost. Please help! Please don't tell me to go to a doctor because I'm under 18 so my parents would have to come, and I really, truly don't want them to know that I've been masterbating. Is there any solution to get my vagina flat again and back to normal size? Is are there any cream or over-the-counter drug I could take? If i stop masterbating, will it eventually go back down to normal size or will I be stuck like this even if I stop? Please help. I can't have surgery because it's too expensive. Thank you so much.

Claire

by just doing that i really dont know how it could enlarge it...i say stop and see what happens. if it doesnt change then see a doctor...dont know what else you can do...i doubt anyone else does either but im just tryin to help.

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hey im burning a cd for when im in bad moods and i need some songs. like slow emo // punk // sad songs ya know? thanks a bunch! i'll rate 5!!!!

well im totally into classics and i suggest metallica - fade to black. its one of those "i-just-wanna-drop-dead-right-now" type songs. another random song is headstrong by trapt. hope this helps!

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This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

thanks! ill rate 5's!!

yep he likes you...most guys will do that before they tell you they like you.

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theres this boy that i like. But his like my best best best guy friend. sometimes he flirts with me, we do everything together, his brother n'd my brother are friends... what should i do?? should i ask him out or should i wait until he makes the move?...

my view is dont ruin a great friendship of a short-term relationship. i could not live with myself knowing that i lost someone like that. but that just my opinion. if you want to, go for it.

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Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.

just dont talk to her, give her any attention or invite her to anything you do.

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