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Hi,
I'm a sixteen-year-old female, and I've been masterbating for a long time now. Although, I don't know if you can really call it masterbating. Whenever I heard something that aroused me, I would lie down on my stomach, put my hands on my crotch, and just push down until I felt pleasure. Well now, the skin outside my crotch has been stretched out, and the bone there, (or something hard) has been enlarged a lot. Whenever I wear any type of pants at all, my vagina looks large and basically like a penis almost. Please help! Please don't tell me to go to a doctor because I'm under 18 so my parents would have to come, and I really, truly don't want them to know that I've been masterbating. Is there any solution to get my vagina flat again and back to normal size? Is are there any cream or over-the-counter drug I could take? If i stop masterbating, will it eventually go back down to normal size or will I be stuck like this even if I stop? Please help. I can't have surgery because it's too expensive. Thank you so much.
Claire
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Its simple when you go to your doctor for a regular check up just ask your parents to leave for a minute and tell him/her your problem they well defiantly not tell if your truly uncomfurtable and try and help. im not a doctor though and i can't explain your problem but nothings worse then uncertainty
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Masturbating doesn't make your vaginal area look larger; it doesn't affect the soft tissue or the bone. I'm not a doctor, but I would guess that what has probably happened is simply that your body has continued changing normally as you grow. When you reach puberty, parts of your body change in response to hormones, particularly the breasts and genitals. Some people just have more "padding" in that area of their body. You may find a boyfriend who likes the way you have a softer "bumper" there someday when you're having sex with him. ;o)
This may sound crazy, but you might look at some porn sites online so you can see the tremendous variety of sizes, shapes, etc. in women's bodies.
Hope this helps -- don't worry so much. And if the way your crotch looks in pants bothers you, then wear pants that aren't so tight or shiny (or that have a pattern busy enough that any prominent areas aren't highlighted).
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TheSouthernChick
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I think you should go to a doctor. I don't know why this would happen. I am 23 and I masterbated since I was probably in my young teens. Nothing strange has ever happened to me so I don't understand why this could happened to you. Are you sure you need your parents to go with you? I have gone to the doctor before when I was younger and never needed anyone with me..Maybe if you need your parents to go you can just explain that something isn't right down there and not exactly go into the fact that you've been masterbating.Just tell them you aren't sure what it is wrong..unless of course they have to actually go inside the office with you..Hmm..like I said I never had to have my parents with me..Where I live we can go get the pill and not have our parents there with us..My sister has been on it since she was 17 and my dad didn't even know until a year or so later. So yes go to the doctor and hopefully it works out for you.
Holly
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For the love of God in Heaven Above, go to a doc..so what if your parents find out...at least youre not pregnant!It could be much worse, and dont wear tight pants...
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by just doing that i really dont know how it could enlarge it...i say stop and see what happens. if it doesnt change then see a doctor...dont know what else you can do...i doubt anyone else does either but im just tryin to help. <3
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Go to the Doctor it's never gonna get any better......and quit doin whatever you are doin to make it do that.....It' s sick and that is why some people kill their selves cause people call them freaks and other crap.....
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