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Hi everyone! I'm Kiki! I love giving advice, and I can tell you alot about any subject you please!;)Trust me, whatever the question, I wont laugh at you....
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Being Hot
Age: 17
Member Since: June 23, 2005
Answers: 20
Last Update: August 11, 2005
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12/f
I'm not thinking of having sex until i'm 16 or something but my friend said you have to have your period to have sex....is that true? (link)
well, you can't get pregnant if you dont have your period, so i would hold off until then for sure, but dont do it now, 12 is too young, and it helps if you use tampons first also, so thats another reason(this is because it wont feel as weird to have something there).i hope ive been helpful ;)


okay so I'm just starting to use tampons more - i've always felt like i can feel them and stuff - but i think it's because i try and use them when my flow is really light... i've tried using them on a more heavy flow this time - ive pushed it in as far as it will go but i can like feel the string when i clench my muscles - is this norm? just something you get used to after a while? cuz right now it feels super weird i thought you arn't meant to feel them at all... (link)
you have to feel the string, otherwise you wont be able to take it out, the part yore not supposed to feel is the absorbant cotton that is inside of you.


What's a yest infection?

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a yeast infection is where that special areA of your body does not have enough air circulating, which combines with moisture, which breeds bacteria


my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and like all of a sudden i felt like alot of watery stuff..and i blamed it on him and was like u CUMMED on me..and he was like i didn't i didn't even feel anything..and so he takes the blame and says sorry..but still promises he didn't feel a thing and so i get up and notice the sheets are really wet only to find blood all over them..meaning that wet stuff was ME bleeding..is it possible to bleed THAT much? i mean it was everywhere (link)
he broke your hymen...its not your period...dont worry, yes it is alot of blood, if it happens again, it shouldnt be as much


I'm 20 years old, and going out with this guy this Friday. He's a little bit shy, but I know he's really nice and funny and smart, and I really like him. However, I kinda want the realationship to get a bit more serious. Any tips on how to break the ice?
Thanks~ (link)
i know what yore talking about exactly..ask about him...anything there wil;l be some topic that once you ask about, he wont shut up about...like his car, job, plans, family, favorite foods, whatever..


hi i have a huge problem i feel like everytime i make chicken sadnwhiches it gets soooooo soggey..is this because i am using too much dressing or is it my chicken!?PLEASE HELP ITS MY FAVORITE MEAL!!! (link)
is the chicken too wet or greasy>pat it down with a paper towel...it may be too much dressing also...trial and error is the best teacher


can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help. (link)
no, dont worry, you can only get pregnant from direct contact!!!the sperm is only going to stomach, not your uterus


What is the best way to disinfect cutting boards and sponges? (link)
bleach is the best disenfectant


My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids? (link)
pantene prov detangler


Does anybody know if Laney was adopted like you know in eminems songs. i know that halyey is his real kid but what about laney? i know its kind of a dumb question but i dont need to know that thank you! peace.xox (link)
Laney is Eminem's neice, and she was in a bad home so he adopted her...


HELP!! My semi-formal is on the 17th and I justtt got a cold yesterday and now I have a runny nose, stuffed up. It would be OKAY with me, except I have to sing at graduation!! What do i do?! Its LESS than a week away now..Im so mad and I dont know what to do. How can i get better besides resting? (link)
ok, drink lots of honey!it will help your throat, if you need to sleep, NyQuil should put you out, tea will help, sleep as much as possible...take cough syrup amd or medicines


Eh, I was just wondering who knew what the heck courtship was, or what it means, and if they could like explain it, cause its totally screwing with me right now, Thanks! (link)
Courtship is what they used to call dating in the olden days...y'know like romeo and juliet? basically what happens before you marry someone.


i told a guy that i liked him and he told me he doesn't feel the same way. i feel awful and i don't know what to, i'm trying to find ways to get him off my mind. i'm depressed and i don't know what to with myself today. What should I do? (link)
I would have to say, go eat some ice cream, do some crunhes put on a short skirt and go partying...you might make some new friends..


did destiny's child really break up? (link)
No, dont worry..they havent broken up yet, its only a rumour...you can sleep now..


My friends are getting ready to go to college, and I introduced them. They liked each other so much that they are going to room together. I know this sounds selfish, but I really don't want them to become better friends than was with either of them. They're going to see each other a lot obviously, and I don't know what I can do. Both of them know different things about me, and I don't want them to mix information and stuff. What can I do? (link)
i dont think that you have anything to worry about unless you just happen to be the local gossip centeral, but dont worry, cuz if you cant do anything about it, its not worth stressing over.also you can go up to each of them and verify that any secrets that you have shared during your friendship are not to be leaked under any circumstances.


well i am 13 and STILL havent gotten my period and well... i have tons of discharge and cramps like ALMOST EVERYDAY! could i be gettin my period soon? please help (link)
ok, yes, your time will come soon,seeing as you are 13 enjoy whats left of girlhood while ya still can...this depends on how long its been going on, so i cant give you a definite answer as to time...


how do you grind with a guy. Please don't just tell me you go with the music like I want to know how your body is soposed to move and shit like that
ill rate you a 5 for a good answer
thanks in advance (link)
ok, here goes, all you do(and for most of us, this is natural) is get as close as possible to him, with your ass in front of him. now, shake it like you have never shook before. turn around look him in the eye, and again, get as close as possible. Now if he's not gay, he should have his arms aroung you and be wantin to take you home. oh, and if you got them, shake your hips, ass or whatever alot.guys luv that stuff.


Hi,

I'm a sixteen-year-old female, and I've been masterbating for a long time now. Although, I don't know if you can really call it masterbating. Whenever I heard something that aroused me, I would lie down on my stomach, put my hands on my crotch, and just push down until I felt pleasure. Well now, the skin outside my crotch has been stretched out, and the bone there, (or something hard) has been enlarged a lot. Whenever I wear any type of pants at all, my vagina looks large and basically like a penis almost. Please help! Please don't tell me to go to a doctor because I'm under 18 so my parents would have to come, and I really, truly don't want them to know that I've been masterbating. Is there any solution to get my vagina flat again and back to normal size? Is are there any cream or over-the-counter drug I could take? If i stop masterbating, will it eventually go back down to normal size or will I be stuck like this even if I stop? Please help. I can't have surgery because it's too expensive. Thank you so much.

Claire
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For the love of God in Heaven Above, go to a doc..so what if your parents find out...at least youre not pregnant!It could be much worse, and dont wear tight pants...


I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX
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Sweetie, youre only sixteen, YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE HUGE BREASTS YET. There. However, I am in a much different boat, me being the same age but, how do you say, developed.Now, going on the pill will give you boobs. trust me.


Ok my name is Shannon, Im 15yrs old and im inlove with a boy named Steven see he lives away from me moved last yr to another place but I met this cool new kid thing is he is only 12 but he is turning um 13 july 31st he is really mature for his age first time I met him like I thought he was my age cause he was same height and acted mature and everything. And like I really love my x I realllly do but the thing is I hate like doing that cause I love him but at the same time I wanna be happy and not miserable? What should I do like I dont wanna hear something like well you love em you dont wanna hurt em I hear that to much and like I dont wanna hear stuff thats just I dont kno I really am gettin to like this kid I met but is it wrong or right for me to do that go out with a 13yr old sad thing is my brother is 12 lol its kinda embarresing, what should I do ? Help!

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Ok, honey, I see soooooo many things WRONG here. ummm, I would consider a 12 year old illegal. but y'know thats just me...i mean my bro-in-law is 12 so i understand the weirdness...I think that maybe you find a different dude..one thats over the age of 12 and can buy you stuff and is able to see over a steering wheel...but whatever..just be friends with the little gaffer and nothing more...everytime that you have "thoughts" about this 12 year old, just think of your bro.




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