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Regret a breakup?
I recently broke up with my bf of 2 months because we hadn't been seeing each other as much and I felt a distance grow between us... and started to dislike things about him! At the time when we finished it it seemed right to go back to friendship because we get on well in that way, but now I'm really feeling like I shouldn't have split with him and I regret it! What should I do, will this pass or should I tell him how I feel? Even though I broke up with him? Would it be considered messing with his head? :( im not physically attracted to him either this is purely emotional relation...
im 16!
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My advice is to tell him. I would tell him but I wouldnt ask him out again. Wait to see what his reaction is. If he doesnt feel the same way, I would let it go. Sometimes you need to move on. Don't push things either, you don't can't make him like you again.
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I think you should just wait and see if the feeling passes. You say you aren't physically attracted to him so, I doubt it will be anything lasting...if that's what you're looking for. Stay friends for awhile and see if all that changes after some time. :)
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i would give it a bit more time and then talking to him about it...actually thats what im in the process of doing so im pretty sure about it. make sure you have made up your mind first tho. <3
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the best thing you can do is just tell him how you're feeling. its not messing with his head if thats really how yo feel. u just have to be sure. hope i helped xxoo -- Kelsey
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It should pass. Give it about a month, and if it doesn't pass, and seems the same, or worse, then tell him. Otherwise, this is just a normal thing that happens to most everyone.
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Well it seems like you ended the relationship for good reasons but..if you starting to regain feelings for him then I think you should talk to him. Because this hasnt happened more then once I'm pretty sure he wont think of it as messing with his head. Just tell him you think you made a mistake and would like to give your relationship another chance. Just remember he might not be into the idea so give him time to get over the recent breakup. Best of luck <3
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Physical attraction is not the most important thing in a relationship. If you are emotionally attached to him then it is different. Mostly what you are feeling are the consiquences of you going out for 2 months. You may hae loved him and can't release that feeling. I'd say that if you get to together with him at some point then see if you wish you were together now. If you feel this way that means you still have feelings for him and so you should tell him.
So, in otherwords...give it time
Hope i helped.
♥ Maddy
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You wont be messing with his head but he will be pretty curious. I dont think you should tell him how you feel right now because you dont seem like your mind is made up. I mean who knows if you will say you dont like him later again and stuff. I mean just wait like a week and see if you still have those feelings for him. If you do then defenetlly tell him!! xOo` ♥//
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