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A guy at work and I became friends and things were going ok and when he did not get the position he wanted at work, I supported him and we started flirting. Well he found another job. Well, before he left he gave me a picture of him and email address. We seemed to be closer. We both agreed to keep in contact via email. I kept my part and he didn't his. He acted like he wanted to be friends and more and even called me babe. Why, after being "friends" he won't email, hasn't called nothing. Why is he treating me now like I don't exsist?
maybe he found someone else, or was afraid to get in a 'more than friends' relationship with you. talk to him. tell him how you feel and that you'd like it if you guys talked more. he'll understand.
good luck!
okay, i know this is pretty weird, but i read on this health site that if you take your height from when you were 2, and double it.. it`s your adult height. does anyone know if this is a true fact and if anyone has their height from when they were two and you are fully grown .. can you let me know =] thankss!!
i think that's untrue, because you can't really predict. like guys grow slower than girls, so they're heights would be diff, and stuff w/ growth spurts..so yeah that isn't true.
-hope that helped!
Im 14 male and i am running cross country..so i have to get a physical..is it bad??
physicals aren't bad whatsoever. they juss check general stuff. don't worry about it.
good luck!
Hey
it depends on what shots you already got yet. usually they don't give you any at physicals, but if you're missing them, they will since you're there already. don't worry about it.
good luck!
ya well for night i know ur supposed to wear pads but i have the dinky to go ones.. n i used my sisters but i dont want her ot know and now she like has none.. so i dont have any to wear at night and my mom is outta town with my dad (not like im goin to ask him) n i cant ask my sisters! what should i do!!!!!
i rate 5's
NO GAY ASS ANSWERS PLEASE!
oh and i have my period right now and idk what to do!!! about the pad thing
ask your sister, because she probably would give it to you and plus, all girls get their period. if not, go call up a friend and tell them you can't get to the grocery store right now.
good luck!
how do yyou know your ready for sex? im a virgin..and when im with this guy and we do stuff i really want to do it..but ik its cuz im horny or w/e...
uhh i guess if you feel that you're ready for sex you are. you should really truly be ready though, because i know a lot of people that regret having sex before marriage, even though they love their bf a lot.
good luck!
im 14 and a freshman in high school! i have been going out with this guy for almost a 2 months now and he is moving slow cuase he doesnt want me to dump him with i wont but I Want to makeout with him but i dont want to make that move you no..so how can i like tell him that i want to make out wiht him with out me like just going for it?
its confusing sorry
tell him that you really do like him and won't dump him and stuff. maybe if you somehow hint the fact you wanna make out with him by sitting close and being touchy, etc.
good luck!
♥ Im suuuper bored right now. && I usually dont play games on the internet lol. But it sounds like fun riight now. Anyone know anyone good sites with lots of games? just like easy ones not like the sports ones. Thanks!!
there's a really good 1! it has a whole diff types of games like helicopter, ping pong, spank the monkey haha and such.
www.addictinggames.com
-hope that helped!
Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?
tell him how you feel. tell him that you really wanna stay with your bf, but he's a good guy and you don't wanna lose your guys' friendship.
good luck!
This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp!
it's a little bit late, but my cousin didn't get her period until 16, and she had to take pills to get it, but she got it. some people might juss call you lucky, but i think you should go to a doctor before er when you turn 16.
-hope that helped!
Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS!
everyones different so you can't really tell if they like you are not. it seems like he does like you, but doesn't want to seem obsessed er anything so he doesn't IM you all the time. talk to him and ask him how he feels.
good luck!
well i got my cell like two weeks ago.. and i set up my voicemail to the original verizon message thing... and i want to create my own.. but i don't know what to do.. i odn't really want to be like hey this is ____ please leave a message blah blah or like hey... who is this... ohh hey whats up... ohh well im not here right now so leave a message .. i want something else.. can you help me out? easy 5
there's some cool ones. maybe a song, and then juss you're name and # at the end. i know alot of people that get it off radios. it gives people something to listen to while they're waiting to leave a message.
-hope that helped!
okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?
thanks
talk to her about it. tell her exactly what you juss typed and explain to her that you want people to respect her and to not have a bad reputation. after you talk to her, maybe she'll explain to her bf too.
good luck!
Okay, I know you're going to roll your eyes and say "oh no, not another period question" but please read before you do that.
Well I started my period for the first time in March of this year, like the last week of March. I had it for 6 or 7 days, I think I started the 20th, and I know for a fact I ended Easter day. Anyway, I'm kind of worried because I know your period is random the first few years, but so random that you go without it for almost 5 months?! I've talked to my mom about it, and she said if I still don't have it, then when I go for my physical I can ask my doctor about it, but she's not going to schedule me an appointment about it or anything like that, and the thing is, my physical isn't until October and I honestly don't want to wait that long.
I know you all aren't doctors, so you don't know 100% whats going on, but I'm looking more for "This happened to me...etc" I've NEVER had sex, I'm NOT pregnant, Okay, well I'm thanking you in advance, I do rate everything, and leave feedback, depending on the answer depending on the rating.
Jackass=1s and 2s
funny/sarcastic/unhelpful 3's (depending on how much maybe even a 4)
and well thought out, well writting answers= 5
Go ahead now, answer!
i think you should definately get checked out sooner. i know alot of girls that skip periods every other month, but not months straight. since you probably aren't involved in sexual activity, it could juss be a problem that a doctor can fix with pills. if you are involved in sexual activity, then thats a different story. i think 5 months is a lil too long to not have it in a row.
good luck!
Dear Advicenators,
Okay. Here's the deal. I'm a girl about to start college, and I've got problems with trust. I don't trust even my closest friends, don't trust that they actually want to be my friend. It's quite horrid, because it makes me feel like I have no friends.
Reason behind my distrust of people? I've been repeatedly burned in the past by trusting too much.
How do I allow myself to trust people who I somewhere deep down know that they only care about me and don't have ulterior motives for my friendship?
Signed,
Untrusting.
trusting people is a difficult thing to do if you got hurt in the past. you need to do it by steps. don't totally let them in, but you need to trust people eventually. take it slow and careful. get to know the person a lot and tell them how you were hurt in the past and explain that you don't want to be hurt again. that way they'll know how you feel. if they think that they'll hurt you they'll step back, but if they know they won't you guys can have a good friendship.
good luck!
lol okay not so much a problem as a general wondering of action here... i'm 16, this guy at work - also 16 - has been telling a bunch of his collegues I've been "checking him out" and he reckons I fancy him and he fancies me blah blah blah. I heard all this off a friend/collegue and didn't even know who the guy was :| ... anyhow fast forward a few days.. I know who the guy is now and today when I was around doing some jobs and needed help he was available and was all...showing off whilst helping me... which was funny... but I remained normal as to not give him any signals. Let's just say... im not interested in him, especially since he told his collegues I was checking him out :S
Anyway near the end of my shift his mate comes up to me and hands me over a piece of paper with this guys name and mobile number on... haha which made me laugh... and he managed to work the last half hour of his shift right by me...but not quite near enough for speech.
Anyway what do you reckon I should do now? Umm.. I don't wanna be mean but I'm totally not interested but wouldn't mind being a mate and crap.
Should I talk to him next time I see him in the store (which may be next week) say I lost the paper? or text him tell him im not interested ect... lol how would be the best way to put this?
Help muchly appreciated! xoxo
hmm to be nice, i'd say you're interested in someone else even if you're not. then you aren't giving a dumb answer for not being interested. maybe you shouldn't go out and say "uhh yeah i'm not interested" but don't like hide it either. next time he, er 1 of his friends, makes a pass at you for himself, tell him you aren't interested because of the fact that you sorta like someone else. it may be mean to lie, maybe its not even a lie, but it's also being nice at the same time without hurting his feelings. i'd leave it go until he tried something again.
good luck!
ok well im 14/f n i dont consider my self as " ugly" but i still didnt have my first kiss but im not like some girls out there who are like freaked out bcuz they aint sure how to kiss. im ready n all but i want to kiss soon hehe. i dotn wanna b like 17 n still didnt kiss so my question is it better to tell the guy that you are about to kiss that you never kissed b4 or just go with the flow.srri its kinda long.
go with the flow. you don't have to tell him you never kissed anyone, but you can if you want to be honest. he probably won't care too much.
good luck!
welll how do i start....well i start from the very start....i went out with this guy because i knew him from high school..we went out before...now were grow into mature people, and was attracted to each other....every thing was goin great for 6 months...but within the last month he started treating me differently, like he didnt appreciate me...one day he called it off, he said he can see that were not right for each other...i begged and cried and cried...i was so shocked we just spent the weekend together and it seemed great but he said he doesnt love me anymore..i begged him twice and i stopped after that....he tells me im doin great getting over him..so i snapped and yelled at him and said he was unfair and told him that relationships are about communication and honesty...he said loving me and missing me will just go away which mean he would consider going back out with me, i gave up but told him for the last time what i loved about him...then he kissed me and cried....so yup he decided to go out with me again...but left the decision for the weekend..i had to wait 3 days....
yup so we went out...the first three days seemed great..well he was good at making me believe it was great....and i think he was deliberately driving me away and finally broke it off and said he hasnt loved me for the past month although im a beatiful person...we lost the chemistry....i didnt cry this time....but he seem angry at me...i said you lied and he said i should be thankful he didnt lead me on for long...he also said he doesnt care about my feelings about this...and he only went out with me because he didnt wanna deal with breaking up....
now although im badly hurt im realizing he wasnt treating me the right way...everything was based around his feelings, his thoughts, and his doubts. What kind of guy is he? he doesnt know what he wants...
How long am i going to keep feeling lonely and sad about this...
i know hes not worth it but a part of me wants him or maybe just the companionship..
is worth it?? is he gonna comeback?? if he did should i take him back??
im dealing with this better than the first time we broke up but i still get moments where i cry too much, and i cant sleep or eat.
he only cared about his band and friends, i wasnt even special..he said i was, but i could feel i wasnt...
it seemed really good at one stage and he just stopped loving me as he said...
i see him everyday and it seems like hes dealing with it fine...but i dunno how he truly feels behind closed doors...
sorry to hear about this. you really need to get over him. even if he does decide to go back out with you, how do you know he's not going to break up with you again? would you really wanna marry someone like this? he seems confused and doesn't really know what he's doing. you deserve better than he's been treating you, and there's a lot of guys out there that will treat you right. i know it might seem difficult getting over him, but you have to. he obviously messed up twice, and doesn't know what he wants. don't waste your time with him. you need to move on and find someone that loves you for you. someone that won't hurt you, that loves you, and that will treat you right. let him keep making mistakes and find girls that are wrong for him. they're his decisions. stay strong.
good luck!
hey,
ok well here's the problem --- see if you can do the math. Ok my friend Eric is the FUNNIEST guy i've ever met, he's my sunshine in total *u*king darkness... like i talk to him to help me deal with my oh-so-emo life. He's always there for me, and i'm always there for him. I'd help him with ALL kinds of his problems, but then he just got a new (and totally bad!) one.. that i cant seem to solve. His girlfriend broke up with him, and they went out for 2 years, the breakup was REALLY hard on him *he thought he was gonna marry her or something* and he really wants a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he's on the rebound, but i dont think so. He's 16 and driving this September, and yet he cant get a girlfriend. He's semi-hot, but looks dont matter *even though they sorta do but..*. He said that he knows alot of girls and has alot of friends that ARE girls, but they are all taken. He dosent see the beauty of being single--yet. But he's been really depressed and so have i, i got threatend to be killed, and i wanted him to help me cope with it through laughter, but he was just as upset. Also, he's in my band, and the band is me and him lol, and we both make lyrics, and my lyrics are serious and emo because i'm going through that stage in life when everything sucks, and he makes the fun, jump-in, dance, funny, sorta lyrics, but ever since he's been depressed, his lyrics are just like mine, and i dont want everyone to think our band is emo and gothy. Also, i want the best for him, cause he's my homeboy lol. My friends and i talked to him about dying his hair and stuff *changing his apperance* but he's a band jocky, and he's a lost cause. WHAT DO I DO?! I rate high!!!
tell him all that. since you guys are good friends, he'll probably take your advice. he has alot of time to find a good gf. maybe you can help him find someone by hanging out with him places and meeting new people. tell him how you feel first.
good luck!
Hey,
ok there is this church- it's REALLY close to me, and it's the church all my friends go to. They also hold a youth group there- also where all my friends go. But my problem is, my family hates the preacher and preist, and they hate us. But i REALLY need religious guidance, and i thought it'd be cool if my friends were there with me. And all my friends went to summer camp -- without me! lol, see the camp was held by the people from the church, and my parents wouldnt let me go! So they have all this fun at camp and they know SO much more about God than i do.. so to tell the truth, i really have no idea who/what God is! I cant read the bible because (to me) it makes no sence!! too many big words.. lol. I want to go to a church.. I REALLY do, it's just i feel like my friends will have more to talk about without me. And i dont want them to go to a differnet church, because that would be selfish. I love God, I do! BUT WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?!?! I rate high!
talk to your parents about it. when you turn 18 you can pick your religion and your parents can't really stop you. you should tell them your interested in it and when you get older you'll probably pick a religion anyway, so why not start early. try to get them to help you, because church is good to go to. any church is good.
good luck!