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make out
im 14 and a freshman in high school! i have been going out with this guy for almost a 2 months now and he is moving slow cuase he doesnt want me to dump him with i wont but I Want to makeout with him but i dont want to make that move you no..so how can i like tell him that i want to make out wiht him with out me like just going for it?
its confusing sorry
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Taking it slow is good, they say good friendships make great realationships. As for the making out, wait for the right time then lay it on him good.
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..Well a guy always likes when a girl makes the first move..But you shouldnt make the first move..Talk to him about things..Tell him that you really think you are ready to take your realationship to the next level..Tell him you think that you are ready to try new things..And just wait until he is ready to do it..If it takes to long just go in there and kiss him..But make sure it is the right timing..Hope i helped`
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Have a talk with him about it, say that you like the pace that hes going at but you wouldnt mind making out with him once and a while, and ask if hes ready for that. If he is, then go for it and also tell him that your scared to do the first move kind of thing and ask if he wouldnt mind doing that also. hahah this sounds so lame, but try that =)
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Everyone likes to go at different paces. Let him know that you want to make out, but don't tell him directly. When you are ready to do it. Get close to him and keep looking at him in the eyes. Lick your lips and do something that will draw attention to them. Be flirty and if he doesn't get the clue then you can make the first move. i know it's scary, but guys will likie you for that. it takes the pressure off of them because they're worried you might think they're going too fast. If you are to scared to, then you could bring it up subtley in a conversation.. say something like youv'e always wanted to make out in the rain, or that you caught your friends making out.. this will bring the thought to his mind. good luck to you.. hope i helped! <3
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well a really easy way is to play truth or dare with a bunch of friends. when you get up to go to the bathroom or somthing tell one of your other frineds to dare him to make out with you. after that it shouldnt be hard.after the first time its pretty easy.you could also talk to him and ask him if hes ready to move the relationship up to the next level.
hope i helped XoXo
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Ok well spend time with him just you and him alone having a great time.Be very close to him and try to set the kissing mood.Or heres another thing ask him if he's comfordble with making out or if hes ready already because its been 2 months and you feel its time if he says yes then slowly get into the making out express.LOL!Hope it works out!
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Don't tell him "I want to make out with you" just go to a movie, and when the time is right, you'll feel it, and so will he, so just reach over and plant it. Hope I helped!
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tell him that you really do like him and won't dump him and stuff. maybe if you somehow hint the fact you wanna make out with him by sitting close and being touchy, etc.
good luck!
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it maybe outfront but if you talk to him online or on the phone it wouldnt be that hard to simply ask him why he hasnt kissed you, that or get into the topic of how you feel men should make moves first, or you feel girls shouldnt ask guys ya know, play it up, even if thats not what you belive haha, but simply saying 'why havent you kissed me.. do you not like me that much?' thats not embarrising because id make him kinda feel bad or like he needs to. ..it puts it on him.. steada sayin KISS ME
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well you have some options here
- get a friend of yours and his to kind of nudge him along..tell him he should kiss you already
-when your alone, rest your head on his shoulder. hold his hand..hopefully he will get the hint
- kiss him on the cheek..then look him in the eyes..hopefully he will know to go in for the kiss
- tell your friends ahead of time when you play truth or dare to dare him to kiss you (i dont know if you would like that idea or if you want it to be special )
- if your watching a tv show,commercial, where you see people getting it on or kissing you should be like "we should try that"
lol i hope my ideas werent stupid..i personally would go with the first idea if i were in your situation
-melissa-
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