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how do yyou know your ready for sex? im a virgin..and when im with this guy and we do stuff i really want to do it..but ik its cuz im horny or w/e...
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uhh i guess if you feel that you're ready for sex you are. you should really truly be ready though, because i know a lot of people that regret having sex before marriage, even though they love their bf a lot.
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ask yourself one thing. if he breaks up with you anytime, are you gonna regret it? sex doesnt have to always be about romantic love, it could simply be that you know this man is your best fing friend and hell never fu** you over. its what your saving yourself for, if your saving yourself for love then you have to know that hell never leave you and you KNOW that for a fact, but love youll find yourself, if its not that kinda thing to you, make sure the guy is a best friend, not just a boyfriend. and as long as you want to do it because you like him, and you wanna do it when your not in the moment, it usally means your not just horny
i knew i was ready because my bf even tells me that if he says he wants to break up, ignore him. if he hangs up on me, he calls me back within 15 mints. i can really count hah =), he needs me, and i kinda do need him to be happy. i know no matter what hes not leaving me. he loves my body, and was the first guy to really make me love my body too, he loves the imperfections and i know he does, and it takes alot to say you KNOW he does. if you say no to sex for awhile, hell be okay with it., and usally time helps, but i know i knew i loved my bf the day i went out with him, but i waited a year with him, not to sound stupid or anything...
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hormones hormomes hormones..i get horny too but im still a virgin..being horny doesnt mean your ready for sex. i think when your ready for sex you will know
-you wont be scared of getting hurt in the end
-you wont be scared of what he thinks of your body
-you will feel comfortable and "right"
-your educated and understand the possible consequenses
i think those are some things to ask yourself before losing your virginity. dont just do it because your horny though
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