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how do i tell a friend that i think im to old to hang out wit them in the nicest possibleway??? plese help! (link)
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whats the age gap? if it isnt to horrible then you can still hang out with them every once in a while. im 18 and theres this 12 year old girl that is my friend. yeah sometimes i really dont feel like haning out with a little kid but every once in a while its ok. Basically just lie every once in a while and say your busy, but do hang out with them a little. in a few years the age gap wont be as bad and true friends are hard to find out there
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I know the subject is wrong... anyways, over the summer i got a lot of freckles on my face and I never really noticed it until someone mentioned it today. How can you make them disapear, besides massive makeup? (link)
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hey freckles are cute why would you want to get rid of them?
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Hey, here is my problem, I want to go to a pretty "high up there" college, meaning the price is really "high up there" too. I am going into my senior year, and I am about to start the application process. I am most definitely filing for financial aid (as will every other college bound senior in the country)... I have also created an account at Fastweb.com to get scholarship information. My question is this: Does anyone else know of any other sites or places/books that I can find scholarships? Thank you all. (link)
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http://apps.collegeboard.com/cbsearch_ss/welcome.jsp will overwhelm you with scholarships. i recomend applying for a bunch of little ones that most people wouldnt apply for theres some really obscure ones out there like ones that live on streets anmed after presidents.
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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks! (link)
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flirt, find out if he likes you back some guys are really shy. your age would help so add the info and ill come back here later today and edit my answer
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Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/ (link)
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three possible scenarios here
1. he could jsut be friendly and you have nothing to worry about
2. he has pedophillia disorder (and yes it is a psycholical disorder) he cant help how he feels but it is highly unlikely that he will try anything
3. he is a willing pedoophile (think michael jackson and r.kelly) and you should carry protection (mace works the best)
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okay well my bf has a bff they went out before me and im kool with her but it's like she spends more time with him then i do and then there is another boi that is also his bff and all 3 of them hang out im kool with all of them but they make me feel so left out and i guess my bf is trying to keep me in there group and i can talk to them but sometimes i feel like wut am i doing here or something and then when i hang out with my bff friends they r all hispanic and i am 2 but im more in the speaking english side and they treat me well.but my bfs friends dont really like them but they have no problem with my bf's friends and i guess im kinda in the middle but wut im asking 4 is should i just go away when all 3 of them r talking so i wont feel left out or hang out with my bff friends but half the things they say i barly understand but they treat me well its just where ever iam i am left out somehow....help me plzzzz (link)
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if they treat you well you can always ask them to speak english im sure theyll understand.
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what are some good sites that allow u to have a free photo album besides photobucket.com and picturetrail.com? i really need to kno so i can check them out.
thanks i rate high.
Manda (link)
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boomspeed.com
xerocreative.com (its actualy a gaming forum but the free account comes with an image gallery.)
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How can i become a more confident person? (link)
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A quote from an old but good movie called.. eh i foget the name but anyways "Feel the fear and go for it" Confidence/bravery is not the absence of fear, its acting in spite of it. Everyone is afraid theyve jsut learned to deal with it.
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I really need help... I started dating an ex of mine thursday night.. Well today we started fighting. My cousin told me that he was just using me for sex. and I guess I kinda believed it. but I've been acting kinda shady towards him and he asked why. So i kinda mentioned it to him. and now hes really pissed off.. he hates my cousin.. he doesnt want me around him when I'm with her. and I'm almost always with her. but then hes like I'm going to bed.. I was like dont be mad at me. and he got off.. didnt even tell me he loved me. I'm afraid I really ruined things with him. and I love him more then anything in the world. I dont/cant lose him.. HELP! I'm crying here.. I dont know what to do!! (link)
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i have friends that dont get along with each other, i hate one of my best friends friend. we just dont hang out at the same time problem solved really. gotta wonder how would your cousin know? i dont think hed tell him. anyways i think you might have ruined it. contrary to popular beliefs guys do have feelings, and they are fragile. my guess is he really does like you, however when you said that he probably felt like if he ever did want to fool around with you youd think he was just using you. basically the best thing you can do is appoligize and then kiss him.
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Well I'm not looking forward to a root canal I'm doing on my tooth after New Years..haha ive heard it hurts sooo much!!! and if ne of u has seen finding nemo the guy is like freaking out LoL! so if u have done a root canal or know someone who has tell me..does it hurt? a lot? what happens..thanks i'll rate high..even if your answer isint the best cuz i dont wanna be mean! haha (link)
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my friend had it done she said it doesnt hurt that bad but its not exactly pleasant either
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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do? (link)
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were you going out with him? no. do you own him or her? no did you ask her not to do anything with him? im guessing no. the fact that she promised not to do this to you does make me see your side of the story so im sorry i was harsh on you, but still that isnt unforgiveable. forgiveness isnt an emotion it is an action, you are in control of it if you want to forgive her you can. the thing is if she was stoned then her judgment was seriously impaired. My friend did it with another guy once when he was stoned and hes been feeling dirty about it ever since. now im not saying what she did was OK, it definitly was wrong, however it isnt something worth ending such a clsoe friendship over.
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what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?
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well my mom does trust me and the world so this is a foreign problem to me. are you a guy or girl? if youre a girl buy pepper spray, and tell her you can defend yourself jsut in case. you can also get a cell phone and tell her she can check up on you whenever she wants and you can call in every hour to check in. she will most likely not take you up on that offer but become a little looser. do you have a friend she trusts? if so jsut tell her your hanging out with your friend, not technically a lie but other people can be there.
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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her? (link)
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Id say dont go for it. You are most likely misreading the signals, this same thing happened to me and i did go for it, anyways bad idea. If she has to reject you again it will get very uncomfortable between you two and you will probably loose her as a friend. now you can still palyfully flirt with her stuff like that and if she likes you she will make the first move.
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ok well i have this one friend and she used to get high and drunk and all that and she was really suicidal. i mean she was in the hospital for like 2 weeks. and then i had to talk her out of it again. but then she went edge and didnt do it at all and punched one of the kids who tryed to get her to. but now shes doing it again and its really scaring me. i mean she lives about an hour away from me so i cant really keep an eye on her or anything. and i dont see her much either but we used to be best friends and now were just good friends i guess. i dont like it when she does this but i cant stop her. i dont know what to tell her so she understands how i feel about this. please help! (link)
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you know drugs arent really a bad thing if she keeps them under control. certain drugs, such as marijuana are mood elavators and would actualy make her happier (again if kept under control) so it may be wahts stopping her from commiting suicide. i guess there really isnt much you can do, sorry i dont have better advice for you but in order for you to keep an eye on her you would need to be with her when she does drugs and then youd be subject to peer pressure to do them yourself.
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hey, i asked a question before about the whole tutor thing and not being sure about what people would say... i have another thing that brings me down. i just went to freshman orientation and everyone was looking at eachothers schedules and i learned that all of my friends are in honors classes and i'm the only one in CP classes. and i'm not exaggerating when i say all of my friends i do mean ALL of my friends. this might sound really consited and selfish but I'M the one that has the higher goals in life and I'M the one that wants to have a great future and they mostly just throw their lives away focusing on boys and partying. the majority of them just want to become like a hair dresser or something like that and i'm the only one that wants to do something great and that's goint to help people I'M the one that wants to be a doctor. why can't I have the good grades??? i'm the one that needs it! i want to be a doctor while all my other friends hardly even want to plan their future! i find this totaly unfair! i feel so stupid sometimes and i just want to sit and cry. what can i do to make myself feel better about all of this!?PLEASE help i rate high! (link)
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freshman year grades/classes matter very little. on your college transcript they dont even count. taking honors in freshamna year is a way to set yourself up for taking AP or advanced classes sophmore year. Class isnt really a time to scoicalize anyway you can have fun with your friends at lunch. also make new friends in class thats what high school is for.
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i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.
- lheather llynn x (link)
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if your mom is reasonable then ask her what made her think that he is saying stuff about you behind your back, she will most likely give you the "boys will be boys" speach in which case you will respond with "but then why did you go out with dad?" she will most likely asnwer with "I was older then you are" you then answer "back then that was the age to start dating, did grandma (important to use grandma and not "your mom") let you go out with dad? she will say "no but thats different" at that point she ahs backed herself into a corner keep asking her why its different and you will get your way
option #2
Have her meet the guy and see how nice he is
option #3
lie
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ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
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lets see im going to take no fo 800 alex. do not meet him IRL. no matter how comfortable you feel, pics are easy to fake, even live webcams can be fakes, though thats harder. tell your parents what your doing and where you going, if you do decide to go. they will most likely forbid you from going and lock in your room which should happen anyways. there are predetors out there online. anyways if you absolutely feel you must meet him then tell a close friend to tell your parents if you dont come back by a set time, that way the police will have something to go on just in case,
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When I first met the guy I like right now he would always tell me to call him and stuff and we'd always talk no matter where or what we were doing.Well now that school started we hardly talk but I still like hime very much.Well last Sat.when I was at his house we made out and he was holding me and stuff and when I said I was cold he would pull me closer you know he was very sweet! Well it's tues and I haven't talked to him since Sun.I like him alot and He makes me happy.But I hate calling him other then when he tells me too{{ i feel like im bugging him}} So..Should I call him?Im 13 female. (link)
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call him every once in a while, he should call you every once in a while too. dont worry though 2 days is nothing, now if he doesnt call you for 2 weeks then you worry.
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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering. (link)
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depends on how gamer they are. if they play everquest 24/7 then they would be hardpressed to find a gf. but if they are like me and play occasionaly, know quite a bit about computers but arent nerds, the it should be fine. met one of my GFs because she needed help with an assignment in comp sci
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Ok well last year all my dreams had come true. The guy I had feel for since I layed eyes on him 3 years ago, had finally liked me (though, we were going out or anything). I was pretty, popular... and I liked it. I wasnt conceited... I tried to act like I didnt know what people thought about me... but really I did. I heard ppl talk... I'm not stupid. Some goths said they didnt like me, some punks said I was too preppy. But I was me... and I liked it! I had my bff by my side always! The guys would usually fall for me... but it wasnt worth it, i had my eye on that one boy (from before). And now I notice that my bff was kind of my follower. I didnt mean to do it. I mean everyone knew we were bff's and we always hung out with the same people... but she didnt get as much attention from boy as me I guess. THEN something terrible happened... My middle school split up into different high schools... I didnt want this to happen at all... I loved my life, and now it was all changing!!! ANYWAYS i went to high school... and now that a year there has passed me and my bff are still friends... we have a lot of the same friends... but things are different. She's the one getting all the guys. Shes more popular because of sports and church and all. And I feel as if I'm the one following her. I hate it! Before it was perfect! my life was great! I felt so comfortable being myself! But now I feel different... I dont want to make a wrong move, I dont know what to say! I need some major help! not like 'be yourslef and everything will be great...'blah blah blah... Ive tried that... nothing changed. I just wanna be popular again! HELP ME. My friend just took my life (link)
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well you seem to know why shes popular so do the same things. you apparently dont care about being yourself. go to church, play sports etc. become more popular then your friend and make her the follower again. thatll show her to be more popular than you!
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