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how do i tell a friend?
how do i tell a friend that i think im to old to hang out wit them in the nicest possibleway??? plese help!
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tell them that your maturing faster and you think they should find friends there age and interested in the same stuff!! x0x0 Kay
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how do you tell a friend that? this person is obviously not a friend but you shouldnt make up stuff, if your so much more mature than they are then tell them the truth. (honesty is the best policy). Why all of a sudden is age a problem its not like they got older over nite! Tell them that your busy or you cant "hang out". :*:SaRa:*:
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whats the age gap? if it isnt to horrible then you can still hang out with them every once in a while. im 18 and theres this 12 year old girl that is my friend. yeah sometimes i really dont feel like haning out with a little kid but every once in a while its ok. Basically just lie every once in a while and say your busy, but do hang out with them a little. in a few years the age gap wont be as bad and true friends are hard to find out there
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i had this EXACT problem b4 ..and the way i handled it was that i simply said "listen, you're a really good person and an awesome friend...but i think that the age difference is a bit much..and i kno it doesnt matter about age wen yur in a friendship but therez thingz that im going thru at my age that yu wuldnt understand yet..so we can still talk and everything but just not hang out as much.."
try that...hope this helped..if yu need more help..feel free to ask!! good luck!!!!
-aSh
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Just tell them that youn feel more confrotable with people your age because can relate more.hope i helped.
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I think telling them straight out might be hurtful. Maybe your friend will catch on if you get a friend of yours...who also talks to this friend..to bring up you as a subject and say " i think (your name) is gettin kinda old to chill with you.." Your friend should catch on.
Its a tough situation..good luck! :)
-melissa-
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Make up an excuse like your too busy to hang out with them cuz you have a lot of important things to do
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