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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)
I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)


Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)


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i just turned 14 and in janurary or feburary i got my first period. now its april and i havent had it since, i know irreguar periods are normal but for this long?!?!

Don't worry! It's totally normal!! The more you stress about it, the longer it could delay...Just relax and when it comes, it comes! Plus, you don't want it anyway..right? Hope I helped!

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Hey. I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade at the moment. Right now I'm registering for high school classes for next year. I'm definitely taking Latin 1. Since there aren't very many honors classes for freshmans, I think I want to take Spanish 1 also (it's not a honors class. I want to take it because I think I can use it a lot in the real world or w/e). My question is, do you think I should take 2 languages?

Thanks.

If you feel that that it's what you want to do, then go ahead and take it! Also, consider the number of credits you'll recieve from all your classes. I think 2 languages will be rewarding in the end..but definetely hard during the year because it will be a lot of work. Right now, I'm taking Spanish 1 and it's really hard..just do what you feel is best for you..most likely..YES. :-d

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is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice)

Don't do that...that's unhealthy. When you do get your period, you can read the directions on the box and it will tell you what to do..hope i helped..

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?!

I think he likes you! You should make a move or like try talking to him..he might just be too shy to do it first..so why don't you make the first move! Tell me how it turns out! Hope I helped!

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

I hate when people write like that..I usually ignore ones that are like that though.

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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high

Do not lick your lips...They will dry them out even more...a solution to get your lips moisterized is to get this thing called Aquaphor...I am sooo addicted to this stuff..It keeps my lips very soft and not dry! It's a little pricey but worth it! Also, dry Burt's Beeswax..It's kind of like a chapstick..It's made from Beeswax..and when you put it on, It feels refreshing! Or, if you like flavorful stuff, get yourself a tube of tasty lipgloss! Hope I helped!

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Today, April fourteenth, 2005, is National I Love You Day. So, in honor of this, classic, yet slightly ... odd day, I tell all of you columnits this with feeling:

I love you!!

This, of course, has greater meaning to some than for others. But, hey! You're loved! If you love someone, tell them today!

Nuhh uhhh..I LOVE YOU MORE!!!

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I stareted writing a story today at school, its about 6 pages long. So far it is about a girl, Melody, and she has the best boyfriend ever, Justin, and some friends, Ashley, Kirsten, and Kirstens boyfriend to be, Mike, and i'll add some other people too.

well melody and kirsten are best friends, and they have a double date, and are going shopping.

thats what i have so far!!

I need some cute names and if you have any good ideas, or just soemthing cool to put in the story!!

Thanks In Advance-

-*KeLs*-

I just want to know why you are so interested in names...lol..because one time, you had a question about baby names...but yeah here are some..Kristie, Ally, Britney, Nicole, Tara, Lauren, Erica, Caitlin, Alexandra, Natalie, Jenny, Kelly, Lorrie, Sara...

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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

Oh wow this is really sad..he has touched alot of lives and whoever is the next pope has bigggg shoes to fill..he was like the only Pope that most of us knew..R.I.P.

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OK ive been to a few sweet 16's this year and everyone has the same thing : music and food for like 3-4 hours. People who arent the dancing queens and are dancing all night..tend to say they are bored, etc. For mine..i def dont want that to happen.

Is it a cool idea to go swimming for 2 hours at the hotel(im having my party there) with my closer friends ..then a half hour later the actual party starts? There are showers and i could bring a hair dryer (its a nice place) so my friends could do my hair so its not sopping wet. Also, there are a ton of pretty cool games i found off the internet which i was figuring would keep everyone happy.

Examples are :

(twister,hula hoop contest,game where two teams and together as a train..everyone has to walk to the finish line in single file while everyone has a bananna they have to get across without using their hands..they have to press it against the backs of the other ppl,

guy belly dancing contest, dancing/singing contest,pinata,limbo, and the human string relay, where there are two teams in a single file line. The first person has a spoon tied to yarn, and they have to put it down their shirt and pants..pass it back..same thing happens,,whoever is done first wins, "Roast" where people get up and tell funny story about guest of honor (me), game where as guests come in..you give them a necklace and tell them if they say any form of "yes" then the person who hears that can take their necklace away..person with most necklaces at the end wins.

for all these games i was thinking spending $50 on prizes for the night and for the winners i would hand out prizes

if you dont like these could you give me an idea on how to keep everyone happy and for my sweet 16 to be different and unique? thanks!! 5's for everyone who isnt rude because i know this is super long..but its really important to me

thank you again! :)

wow your party is going to be a BLAST!!! and im not just saying that!! If I was your friend, I would definetely go!!! Have fun!! also it was a good idea on making yours diffrent and unique from everyone elses..:-D

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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP!

Yes talk to him! This isn't appropriate since you are older than him and you aren't interested in having a relationship with him...also, if his parents caught him doing that, your job would be on the line...talk to him and tell him to stop it or i suggest you go looking for another job..hope i helped and didn't sound too critical..

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i've gotten everything... sweaty armpits... can't fit into shoes.. pubic hair... vaginal discharge... everything! i went to the doctors last year in march or april... and they said my period would be coming in about 6 months - a year... and its the end of march now and it still hasn't come... my discharge has been heavy lately... how much longer will i have to wait

oo just wait a little longer ;-)

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how do i make my day more stress free

relax-don't overreact over nothing..listen to music..go to a spa if you can...have funn and just let the little things go..hang out with friends...

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so i REALLY wanna be a freshman cheerleader but the problem is when i get in front of the judges i like freeze up and forget stuff like last year i messed up on my cheer and wasn't very loud cuz i was like omg judges so does anyone know how i could get over my fear of the judges?

ahh i tried out for freshman cheerleading last year..i didn't make it..wanna know why? I totally froze up infront of the judges and messed up the cheer like reallyyyy bad!! so i suggest maybe practicing the cheer alot around people and start out slow (because it may seem like you're going slow but really, you'll get faster))also the judge want you to be loud..just pretend that you're in your room by youself..hope i helped..

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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

Go see it with Lauren and Sarah..and then see it again another time with Sarah and Krystal..Have fun

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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.

I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.

I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.

Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits?

keep talking to him. Let him know how much this is killing you. If he doesn't stop, get some help. Occasional drinking is ok i guess..I mean what guy doesn't drink every now and then? But if it's like out of control, you need to step up and help him stop before this gets out of hand.

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Well hi I really need help. I saw this guy that is my frinds friend and we r going out. Then one day when we were at dinner he told me that he is a crossdresser. Ya no not a guy that dresses like a girl, a GIRL! that dresses like a guy! I was petrified! I didnt know what to do. I mean im in love with a girl, now I felt dumb that I was d8ing a girl the whole time. She keeps on calling trying to apologize but I dont want to pick up! What do I do?

talk to her and tell her how you feel..and i'm sure you're not in LOVE with her (b4 you found out) right? everything should work out if you talk things out..or just ignore the calls..haha

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Ok what I want to know is each side of the story. I want to know why people like pro-choice and why others like pro-life. Give me feedback and I will rate high.

Well I'm catholic and they're against abortion. I am too and I would NEVER kill an innocent baby. But I am pro-choice because some people make mistakes in their life and they have no way out. Also, the government can't control our personal choices because it's not theirs to make.

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i have a whole spring break to make 300$! i need it at the end of the week! i borrowed my sisters ipod for a day and then someone stole it out of my purse! i have filed a police report but the chances fo finding it are very slim. PLEASE give me ideas besides just babysitting to come up with 300$ in a week! i dont have a job because im 15 but i dont have enough time to apply and make 300 in a week.

PLEASE give me any idea you have! i'll take it! I RATE! I"LL DO ANYTHING!

TIMES GOING FAST!

carwash! loan parent's money! garage sale? selling cookies! buy candy at walmart and then sell it for higher prices..doing extra chores..borrow money and work it off in the future..sorry thats all i can think off..

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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

Tell his mom or your mom...he's only nine and he shouldn't even be saying these inappropiate things!

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