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I'm in love with a crossdresser
Well hi I really need help. I saw this guy that is my frinds friend and we r going out. Then one day when we were at dinner he told me that he is a crossdresser. Ya no not a guy that dresses like a girl, a GIRL! that dresses like a guy! I was petrified! I didnt know what to do. I mean im in love with a girl, now I felt dumb that I was d8ing a girl the whole time. She keeps on calling trying to apologize but I dont want to pick up! What do I do?
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA thats funny
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Why does it matter, you don't choose love, love chooses you! In my opinion if you love someone nothing else matters. Also is it a love like a sister or like romantically? Ask yourself, you maybe panincing over nothing.
~Nokomis~
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wow thats insane...if you don't mind my asking, does the shman have boobs? and doesnt it look like a girl? and what about the voice, guys have deep voices- did u ever have any suspicions?
thats just for my curiosity, but in response, if you really love it than you should forgive her. that doesn't mean you have to continue going out with it. however, if you cannot forgive the girl, tell her that you cannot accept being a part of the lie she had imposed on you for so long, or you cannot see yourself being lesbian. whatever you do, you need to talk to her for her to know...but you need to tell her how you feel. hope i helped!
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well theres the thing that you have to think about. you were talking and everything and went out, you know her now and since you thought it was a guy, you feel in love, but here you say you feel dumb now cause your in love with a girl. maybe you should really think if that really makes any difference or not. im not saying that you should go bi or go lesbian, but perhaps you can tell her that you want to be good friends, or maybe you can just see how things can go. it all depends on what you really want to do. think about this hard and the thing that mostly sticks with you on what you should do, go ahead and do it. its the best advice probably anyone can give you, that you need to think about this on your own, and decide on what you should do. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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Wow, what a situation.
I think you should be honest with her. Tell her you can't trust her anymore since she lied to you about something so huge and that you feel uncomfortable about it. Avoiding it is one of the worst things you could do just be honest and maybe you guys could be friend. Although me, personally, I'd be freaked out so much I'd feel weird being friends with her haha.
I doubt you were actually in LOVE with this girl or else you wouldn't of cared what sex she was ;] you were probably in lust not in love. Meaning she atracted you.
Good Luck, hun.
♥Em
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Be honest tell him/her what ever it is that you feel uncomfortable been with him and dont wanna do it any more. Its better that you say something soon because if not now you will never get round to it.
luv roxie
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Be honest with her and tell her that this really freaked you out. She would definetly understand and probably try to make things work out again.
♥ Always,
Maria
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talk to her and tell her how you feel..and i'm sure you're not in LOVE with her (b4 you found out) right? everything should work out if you talk things out..or just ignore the calls..haha
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OMG...what a situation you are in here. If I were you, I would tell her how you really feel, because that was mean of her to trick you like that. See where it goes from there...and then get back to me if you want more of my help! I hope I helped you out here though! :-)
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You should talk to her and tell her what you feel. Maybe you could just be friends with her.
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