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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

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BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway

advice

ok so there Is this guy and he is(how do I word it correctly)...GORGEOUS!!!! and I really want to talk to him but I have know idea what to say I dont have any classes with him but hes in my lunch and I see him around. I need to talk to him but what do I say to someone that i dont know and dont have classes with? I'm not usually the type who cant find words but for some dumb reason I get way nervous and dont know what to say around him! please help!

do you know his name?

yes- then just be casual and if you're in the hallway or something be like "hey (his name)! Whats up?) or you could ask him a simple question and be like "(his name) do you know what the lunch is for today?)

no- again, be casual and ask him a simple question, like the lunch question above. If you want my opinon, I think it is too desperate to just be like "hi, my name is ____ what's yours?" But you could try the plain old Hey. But only say that if he looks at you and you look at him. If he's not looking at you, he will think you're talking to someone else and get confused.

Just be normal. Some guys actually think nervous girls are brave to talk to them.

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I really like him and all but I'm really not sure how to get him to try things with me. Help?
How do you let him know you're ready for him to kiss you, or hold your hand or something like that. I don't want to be the one to start.
:/ Anyone?

If you don't start it, then how will he know you're ready for this?

Maybe try something easier, like when you're standing, stand really close by him and have your arms touch each other. If you're sitting, scoot in closer. If you're looking at him, gaze into his eyes. Those are some signs that he will understand that you are really into him and want to go further.

If none of those don't work, I would suggest starting. When you're walking, let him go in front of you and pretend you're talking to a friend. Then run and catch up with him and when you're almost there, grab his hand and then don't let go of it. =D

Or you could be walking with him and if you see something interesting, be like "I want to show you something" and then grab his hand and show him. Then just don't let go of his hand. ha ha

For the kiss, well... for that part, you can't really START it because its a 2 person job. wait until the right moment, like when you 2 are alone, or sitting or something like that. Then when both of you look into each others eyes and stare for more than 2 seconds, thats when you know that he's ready. slowly move your head closer to him and thats a big sign that you want to kiss him. Then from there, it's all magic! Every first kiss is natural and different. Yours may last a few seconds, maybe longer... maybe he will chicken out, maybe you'll love it, maybe you'll hate it. But for everyone its different. Just let the chips fall into place.

Good luck!
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PS: if all fails, you could try writing him a note/text/email/IM and be like 'truth or dare' then when he says dare, you say 'dare you to kiss me on saturday' or something along those lines. got it?

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Am am 13 years old and going into eigth grade...all of my other freinds have their periods and i just want mine already..even though i heard how much it sucks....im pretty flat-chested(dont get me wrong i have SOMETHING just not enought to fill out more than an A cup~~ ive read some replys to the other questions and i do have discharge already...ive have it for like 9 months now... i just still dont want to be the size i am while im going into high school...could some one just tell me how long it took them to get their period after they showed some of the signs that meant you were going to get it soon?...

i know i sound pathectic but i REALLY could use some help

trust me, you don't want your period... it absoultly sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it sounds to me that the only reason you want it, is because all of your friends have it and also you are flat chested... well you can solve 1 of those problems. If you're flat chested, go shoppping with your mom and buy a padded bra, it makes your chest look bigger. Why do you care what people think?? So if someone said "oh look at that girl, she has no cleavage!!" you would start crying and running into the bathroom to fill your bra up with toilet paper??? is that what you would do??? ha! I WOULDN'T. The only kinds of people who do those things, well they are unhappy with themselves. You know what happens to unhappy people?? their life goes down the drain...

be happy with what you have now. Let nature take the course and don't even listen to what your friends have to say about you not getting your period. If they do say something, be glad that you don't have it. Just be like "I'm very happy that I don't have my period, I heard it sucks and I don't want it yet"

I got my period when I was 13, and my friends got it when they were 12. We started talking and when they heard that I haven't gotten my period before, they didn't start laughing! They actually called me lucky and actually liked me as a friend more.

Who cares how big your boobs are?? You think people will like you more just because your boobs are bigger? nope!

Be happy with what you have and don't care about what people think. trust me, you don't want your period.

-volleyball2150

If this bothers you again, talk to your mom. She will know what to do.

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Theres this girl that i been friends with for a long time and i know she likes me and i kinda like her but she is not that popular but pretty
there is this other girl that i actually like alot but me and her arent friends but we give each other the accusional hi in the hallways and she is popular and really pretty shouldi wait and become friends with the popular one or just go out with my friend

I would think of it as this way- If you do decide to ask out the popular one, well... she's not going to be around you much, popular is the same exact thing as having a lot of friends. If you are her boyfriend, she's going to have a lot of friends and the majority of the time that you go out with her, she will be focusing on them not you. do you get my point? She has a lot of friends and will want to spend time with them, sure maybe 2 or 3 friends is ok to hang out with (without you of course) but she is popular, that means she will have 20 friends asking her to go to the mall on a saturday night, when she will have to say no to all of them because she is going out with you. And that can get very ugly, so she might not pay much attention to you.

Suure, lots of popular people have boyfriends and girlfriends, but they are not that serious. Its actually your decision... do you want a serious relationship, where you meet your girlfriend everyday after school? or every saturday you go out? If so, then I would choose the girl who you are actually friends with and doesn't have so many people waiting to hang out with her...

Do you want a girlfriend ASAP??? then choose the girl you are friends with, you already know things about her so you can move along and ask her out.

If you don't want to rush into having a girlfriend, and you don't care if your girlfriend has 20 different friends wanting to talk to her, then go ahead and choose the popular one...

but beware, I honestly don't think you want a girlfriend that much because if you did, you woudn't care if they were popular or not, you would choose the girl you have most in common with, the girl you love her personallity, the girl you will always remember, the girl who you always talk about and the girl who always makes you happy.

Don't decide weather or not they are popular, choose the one you like from your heart.

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well, i have 3 days left to lose a little bit of weight. or, just my belly flab. i am looking at these girl's pictures, and they are totally flat somached!! they make it seem so easy, and i have been working so hard.
i do crunches/situps every other night, and i run every morning. and it seems not to come off!!! is there any other way to lose it!?

ps. i have been drinking loooottttss of water every day! thanks!!

in 3 days?? you can lose a little bit of weight, but i garuntee you that it's not going to be a lot. Why in 3 days??? can't you just work out until you are where you want to be?

anyways, Here are some good exercises that i do

Abs- BOAT-lay flat on your back. Bring everything up except have your tailbone on the floor. So your legs are up and bent, and your head is up with your arms out. so it's kinda like a sit-up, except your feet are up to and you are balancing on your tailbone. stay like that for about 1 minute. ((if you are shaking... thats a good thing! I always shake when I do that)) Another exercise is lay down flat on your back, then hold on to something that is sturdy (like a chair, or couch) then lift your feet up and get them to be vertical ( so you are forming your body like an L) Then slowly lower your legs, but do not touch them to the floor. Then lift them back up. If you want it tougher... then lower them to 1 side, but don't tip your body over. Oh and here's 1 more- again lay down and hold onto something sturdy. Then roll your legs up into your stomach ( like the fetal position ) and roll yourself up so that your back is no longer touching the floor. So the only thing touching the floor would be your shoulders. Then slowly roll back down but keep your legs rolled into your stomach. Don't drop them to the floor! then roll back up and repeat.

HAVE FUN!!!

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what are some sad songs? or songs that are about a guy using you.


A few would be nice.
Please and thanks in advance.

I can't think of any songs about a guy using you... but a sad song that makes me cry is

Skin- Rascal Flatts

it's about a girl who got cancer and her hair falls out and she's worried that no guy will take her to the prom, but then this guy doesn't care if she's bald and is in love with her and they go dancing! It's really good!!!!

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I just started freshman year at my highschool. there is this new boy that i've never seen before, and he is totally gorgeous. But other girls don't seem to notice him. Anyway, today i decided to make my move and start talking to him. I saw his french book and we started talking about it. And i sat behind him and he was paying attention to me & and said that he thought that it was cool that i did some acting. Anyway, in the middle of our conversation, he introduced himself. He asked me what my name was and i said, my name is sam. and he laughed and smiled and started talking about something. after class he asked me what class i was going to next and everything. And my best friend told me that she said that her best friend, sam, was friends with him and he BLUSHED and said that i was nice.

i really hope that he likes me, but i'm just not sure. i usually have bad luck with boys, but this one seems really nice, sweet, and caring.
can you help me? does it seem that he likes me?

yeah it actually seems like he does. If a guy blushes, thats a 75% chance that he likes you. Talk to him more and flirt a lot. Give a few hints that you like him and hopefully ask him out.

Good luck!
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hey my hair iss SOOOOO straight and i hate it
i really want it curly like miley cyrus
or vanessa anne hudgens

like me and my mom try everything like curling irons and roll ons, but my curls come out in a matter of minutes

so i asked my mom about a perm, she didnt say no but i can tell she is trying to talk me out of it she keeps on saying "that was a thing back in the 80's and it doesnt even curl your hair it basically just crimps it and makes it weird and kinky"

but for some reason i still REALLY REALLY want to get it so should i? is what my mom says true?
helpp

Try putting hairspray in your hair before you curl it, but don't put it on the entire head at once... just spray 1 section of hair, then quickly curl it. Or you can put volumizing gel in 1 section, the quickly curl it. Then once a section is done, quickly spray it with hairspray (again).

If that doesn't work for you, then I would suggest going to a hairdresser and telling them your problem. They will give you tips and show you products that can make it work. Then they will actually do it to your hair. You can even ask them what a perm looks like, like a picture, and then decide if you still want to do it. If you feel confident enough, then go for it!

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Okay i am just going to get straight to the point.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and 2 months and we were always such a close couple never argue never fight nothing but the all of a sudden she would start getting mad at me for every little thing that i would do and wont let me hang out with my friends without getting mad nothing.

But there is this girl we will call her "3"

So 3 and I have been talking and she likes me and all and she says that it is stupid how My girlfriend treats me and that she would never treat me like that she understands that i love my girlfriend and everything so she is not mad that i wont break up with her. But the thing is I can't handle how my girlfriend is treating me. It has been going on for a few months and she says she isn't doing anything wrong but thats not the truth its like she don't see the error of her ways. And the question is How do i break up with her?

I have always told her i would never leave her no matter what and i will always love her. But now that she has started treating me like this i see things a bit differently. And we have such a strong bond with each other just im not happy anymore. How do i let her know i want to break up? please help me.

Maybe you should try to tell her exactly what she's doing, then softly tell her that your relationship isn't happy anymore and you will give her 1 last chance to change her attitude. If she doesn't change, then tell her that you're not happy anymore when you 2 hang out. Don't break up with her without telling her the reason, like "we need to break up" ya know?? you have to tell her the reason why you are breaking up with her. But Give her 1 more chance, but this time... tell her beforehand. So be like "See, this is exactly what you do to me and I am not happy around you anymore. I'll give you 1 chance to change and If you don't, I don't see the point in going out if I'm not happy with this relationship."

I wish you the best

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Well I only use acne treatments form the doctor and those ones are like..oily? So it's hard to wash off and i cant' really scrub it off cuz, you know, it's bad for my skin.

Can anyone list some effective ways to wash/remove my medicine from my face properly?

If you go to a local drugstore, I'm pretty sure they have some oil blotting sheets. So you take the sheet and just rub it on your face and it takes off all of the oil on your face.

I hope I helped!

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well if you've ever fainted before this is what it's like, or well this is what it was like for me when i fainted:

i started feeling heavy
my body was moving around in circles
i started getting hot
my eyes started to hurt
my eyes saw fuzz, like a broken tee vee
then i woke up and was on the floor
& had no idea what happend

that was a few years ago though, but im asking this.. everytime i get up i get hot and my eyes get fuzzy, like a broken teve and i start to move in circles a little, but i don't faint. it happens mostly evverytime i get up from sitting for about 15 - 20 seconds then it just goes back to normal.. why does this happen when i get up? do i need to drink or eat more? please help

13/f if that helps

well i fainted once when I was little and I remember exactly what happened. my mom told me that my cousin needed to get his appendix taken out, and I got scared... I remember standing up and then I started to get dizzy, then everything started to get black and next thing i know i'm on the floor.

When you sit down or lay down for a long period of time, and then you stand up, the blood starts rushing down from your head to your feet, so you can start moving... and when the blood is rushing too quickly, that's what causes a black-out, when you see black for a couple of seconds and then it turns back to normal. YOu don't need to drink more water, but when you sit down/lay and then get up, get up slowly.. not like turtle slow, but just slowly so that the blood isn't rushing.

I hope I helped!
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Hi 14/m i am a freshman in high school and my first day was today.I met this girl in my math class she just moved here from Australia and she is kinda shy so hasn't made many friends. And i like her and was wondering what i should do to impress her. I sit right next to her soo yeah we talk a lot. Girls, what do u like to talk about with guys and what gets u goin, (if you know what i mean ;)lol) Please help me, even f it's a simple answer. Thanks!!!

I'm 14/f and I like it when guys are funny. So when you are around her, make some funny jokes (not stupid like blonde jokes) and get her to laugh. Also, I ilke it when guys compliment me or help me with things. So maybe walk her to her locker in between classes, or hold her things while she's walking, open the door for her etc. Oh and girls love it when a guy surprises her, so you can surprise her by "accedentally" bumping into her in the hallway. But be careful, don't do too much too soon because she will think you are a stalker. ha ha that's what happened to my friend. but anyways, just flirt with her. Stare at her a lot (but smile at the same time, so she doesn't think there's sometihng in her teeth or whatever, ha ha ha) and just be plain nice to her.

Then when you start to get to know her, ask her if she want's to hang out sometime at your house etc. if she's too scared or sometihng, quickly say its with a group so she won't feel too pressured or something.

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last lear i was like obessed with this one guy.he liked me for a while but we never went out. like everytime i see him flirting or hsnging out with other girls i get super jealous!i want to stop but for some reason i still do. can someone help me out on how to get over him???

Just remind yourself that it was LAST YEAR that you liked him... that was the past, now it's the future. Think of all of the reasons why you like him, and why you don't like him. then write it down on a piece of paper and decide... is he really that worth it?? then when you've made your decision, rip it, shred it into a million pieces. ha ha ha, that's what I do. It's so no one can read it and also it makes you more confident. thats what I've been told.

to forget about him, just think about the thing that he does that makes you soo mad. Like flirting with other girls, and hanging out with them. It will make you want to stop thinking about him. Or you can just find a new guy. Go to the mall with your friends and check out guys... maybe you'll even get to be friends with one and next thing you know, you'll forget all about "what's his name" and be happy with this new guy.

If you do still like him- then call him up or find someway to communicate with him and tell him how you really feel. I know it can be hard because of rejection, but if he does say no.. don't go crying the the corner... just be like, Oh, alright well that's ok. Can we still be friends?

If he does reject you, be calm and relaxed, that shows that you are confident and not intimidated by him. and trust me, guys love that in a girl!!

Hope everything goes ok
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ok so i used to have a bffl and over the summer we got into this huge fight that changed everything!we started to become friends again but all summer she started hanging out with this girl and they became bffls! she started hanging out with tons of guys and acting really slutish. now that the school year has started back up she barley ever talks to me and and she is always talking about how much she loves her new friends and she gives them nicknames.i dont want to say anything mean because we just now started to become friends but shes changed sooo much its like shes not even the same person! can someone help me?

Just like what breezy said, you won't have a bff your whole life. You had a bff once when you were 4, you thought that he/she would stay with you forever? nope... about 37% of bff's are most likely to stay together through their life.

My friend is like her too, last year in school we were bff's now she's changed and It gets on my nerves. But the best you can do is talk to her aobut it and reminde her the good times you've had together. Like invite her over for a sleepover and do the silly things that you did back then. Go shopping together or watch a movie. Just spend more time with her and don't let go of her. I highly reccommened that you DONT' ignore her, If you don't tell her what's wrong, then she won't know whats wrong. Ignoring people doesn't solve anything... it just makes the other person confused because they have no idea what's going on, and eventually they will just think that YOU don't want to be friends with HER. and that' not true.

I wish you the best of luck
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PS: even if she isn't a keeper, it's not the end of the world. Just be yourself and you'll make new friends

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14/f
k well all the years before i was completely shy at school around guys and now that's it's freshman year i want to be more out goin but i don't know how. i mean i'm not sure how to make friends unless i'm introduced. i also want guys to start noticeing me more. can you help me please on what to do.
thanks =]

Guys and Girls love it when they see someone who is really confident. Now, since school is starting... a lot of people are shy because they don't know anyone, maybe it's a new school for them, etc. But you are not going to be like that. On the first day of school, be confident. If the teachers asks someone to help with something, you be the first one to do it. Another thing people like about people, is that they are nice. If you see someone getting pushed around by someone, go and seperate them. Just be nice to people. I know it's hard... but first start off with girls. If you see someone that you would like to be friends with, go up to them and just start talking to them. it might be kind of intimidating, but a lot of the times.. the words come out naturally. Or you can just be like " Hi, my name is ___ what's yours?" Then look at what they are carrying/wearing/looking at etc. and talk to them about their intrests. for ex. If you see her looking at a poster about gymnastics, then you ask her... you like gymnastics?? and that's all it takes, then the converstation will just flow.

Sometimes, you need to let the chips fall where they are supposed to be placed. You know what I mean? Go with the flow...

as for guys, be confident, be nice, be flirty, be funny. Not a lot of guys like girls who are overly serious and always focus on school. Its the beginning of school, just have fun and don't stress out a lot. To be flirty, if you see a guy you like, go and sit by him/stand by him. If you are distant away from him... he won't see you. Most likely on the first week of school, you are communicating and getting to know your classmates, so this is a perfect opportunity.

I wish you the best of luck, oh and another thing-
apparal says it all! If you dress in a baggy sweatshirt with sweatpants, people will see you as a bum and lazy. but if you dress in a good appparal, like jeans, and cool top with some cute accesories like earrings and necklaces... then people will see you as creative and a good person.

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okay so school starts tomorrow, and of course i get a huge pimple on the tip of my nose since i always get them there at the worst times. so is there anything i can do to make it less noticable or go away faster?

Don't wash it, it will only get worse. Try getting an acne medicine... Clean and Clear gel works for me. It has 10% hydogen peroxide

http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100303&navAction=jump&navCount=0&id=prod4384

put that on there and it should dry it out, which causes it to shrink.

That's about all you can do, other than that... put some foundation or cover up on it.

Ooh- and this helps for the future zits, drink lots of water and eat a lot of vitamins and minerals. Trust me... a lot of people don't do that and that causes acne, but it really helps for your future zits.

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Me and my friend Megan are like BFF's but she critizizes me and everyone(points out random imperfections) and also say stuff like, "You are so fat! You look gross!(then a pause) Ha just kidding." She does this to everyone. And says like "no one wants you here!(then laughs) just kidding". I mean she just is really annoying. I want a friend who is actually serious about things and isn't always criti. everyone and then pretends she never said it. Sometimes what she says really hurts me, even if she says shes kidding. And people that don't know her as well as i do, well i am scared that she is lowering their confidence and making them kindda self consious.

Like an example of her doing that is this:
One day a girl that she doesn't know that well(an upper classmen in h.s) walks up to her and says "hey! whats up?" and she replied "your wieght oh my god, you got FAT over the summer!" then the upper classmen looks at herself then back up and stares at her. the megan says "Just kidding! ha ha" The next day the girl is wearing big clothes and the next day the same thing. A week later she stops eating. Now she's got anerexia. i don't know if megan caused this but it seems that way.

What do i do about her(megan) and her strange ways?

what the other person said was true. Just stop being her friend. If she loses all of her friends, she will relize that something is wrong.

You can try to do the same thing back to her (but don't get out of control and end up like her) just do it enough times to show her how it feels.

so just be like "omg your fat, jk ha ha" to her enough times for her to feel bad. Then if she comes and talks to you about it, then tell her that is what she is doing to everyone else, and she should stop.

if all fails, just ignore her and tell everyone to do the same. The best thing you can do is be a friend and tell people that they are beautiful and not fat. They will look at her like dirt, and you as a leader and a good friend.

be there for the people who have gotten hurt, and you be the better person.

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I used to like this guy. But he came off as to jerky for me. But now i am curious if he liked me back.

He points out stupid imperfections about me like my forehead is big.
He tripped me.(idk if it was "playful" or not)
He throws things at me.(pencils,erasers ect.)
When we sit next to eachother he puts his hand on my leg till i move it.
Yells at me all the time
Calls me by a name i absolutly hate(not like bitch or anything it a name like gurtrude or something like that)
Makes an effort to be by me if i am standing up.
Only leaves if i tell him to(when he stands next to me)other wise he follows me around.
Walks up to me makes some rude coment like you look frumpy today and then walk away.

So does this guy like me?

It sounds like he does.
=)
just be flirty and play back with him.

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okay, here i go;
My dad. wow. a very protective guy. The other day one of my verry close guy friend called and we talked for hours. and ever since we've been talking on a daily basis. Were just friends, no more and never will be. I can only see him as a brother. But my dad doesnt 'approve' talking to guys. I mean, well that kind of sounds qweer. its hard to explain. i dont have a strict family at all, but when it comes down to this. WOW. My dad doesnt 'like' me talking to guys. he says ' at this age guys are very dangerous' . blah blah. Yes i know. And im an actually good girl. I rarely do 'bad' stuff . I know whats wrong from right. IM SMART. its just, my dad , ugh. How can i get him to stop and let me talk to my friends?!? its bugging me , and most of all, EMBARASSING ME.


please help! michp appreciated.

depressed Deana

yeah... that's kind of like my mom and dad. They're super protective. But just tell him that he's a friend and nothing more. Tell him that he is like a brother. tell him that girls can have friends that are boys and boys can have friends that are girls, and still not flirt with them.

Tell him that it's unfair that you have to be only friends with girls... tell him that you want to have a best friend that is a guy. Tell him that you don't like him in that way, that he is only a person to hang out with and not mess around with.

You can try to invite him over to your house when your dad is home, and show your dad that he's like a brother. For example- you play football with him and laugh and have fun, there's no way your dad can think that is bad... or you 2 play video games, or on the computer together.. ya know??

if you 2 watch a movie, he'll get suspisious and think you 2 will cuddle together and stuff... but if you do things like play football, soccer, computer, etc... then there is nothing suspisious about that.

Just act like he is a brother around your dad (fight with him over the remote, fight about what to eat for lunch etc.)

Main point= show your dad that he is just like a brother.

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Whenever I watch a very romantic movie, when you can just see the passion the two characters have for each other, I get overwhelmed and start crying.

For example, in the movie When Harry met Sally, at the end, when he goes to that party and admits to Sally that he loves her, I had tears running down my face and I felt a slight squeeze on my heart.

I do have a crush on this guy (I think I might be in love, I've liked him for almost four years, and it seems like my love for him is growing stronger by the year). I always get so happy when I imagine him saying those things to me.

Why do you think I am crying? If it's because of the guy, do you think I'm in love? There's just this huge bundle of emotion in me right now, and sometimes when I watch or hear something it triggers that bundle to tear a little and the next thing I know tears are running down my face. I never sob though (like I do when I am sad or angry). I just need to know what's wrong with me. I was never like that.

yeah I think it's because of this guy. Or it could be what the other person said, horomones...

I think the reason why you are crying during those parts, is because you can imagine yourself in that scene with this guy. You can't get your mind off of him... but 4 years ago (you mentioned that you were never like this) you never even met this guy, so I'm guessing it's this guy who is making you feel this way.

Let him know how you feel and maybe he will feel the same way about you!

=D
-volleyball2150

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